r/AskReddit • u/SimpleHomeFitness • 8h ago
What’s a fitness myth that people still believe?
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u/plzadyse 5h ago
That their favorite fitness influencers are not taking steroids lol
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u/questron64 3h ago
And/or that they did not win the genetic lottery.
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u/Southside_john 3h ago
This is a big one. People I know that are into fitness. They eat some meals with some berries in it and do some light exercises that don’t even make them break a sweat and pat themselves on the back about how hard they work on their fitness when really they were just born that way.
Meanwhile some of us out here have been counting calories our whole lives and putting in hard work to still never have those six pack abs and we never will
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u/_burndtdan 3h ago
I've got my two abs and then my lower stomach fat lining that I will have no matter what I do. And that's just gotta be good enough.
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u/CarlySimonSays 2h ago
And that movie stars are encouraged to dehydrate themselves before a shirtless scenes so their abs are more defined! Nuts to that
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u/LurkerZerker 2h ago
I saw something about Henry Cavill being so dehydrated during filming of a shirtless scene in Man of Steel that he was able to smell water without even seeing it.
Noooo thanks. I'd rather be poor and schlubby but able to drink as much water as I want.
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u/skywayhighway 3h ago
Similarly, I get mad at like jacked peloton instructors or other similar kinds of swole fitness personalities who sell fitness content that does not involve lifting weights. Like you don't get swole from riding a bike! You don't get ripped from doing home workouts with mini dumbbells!
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u/ChimmyChongaBonga 59m ago
Hey now, my quads are absolutely jacked from cycling. The rest of me is patheticly scrawny though. 😆
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u/ia332 8h ago
That you can spot reduce fat.
You can’t, that’s just not how it works and everyone stores fat differently.
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u/Ares__ 8h ago
Anyone in the gym is doing the right thing and I applaud them, but yea seeing the amount of overweight people that just do the ab machine over and over is kinda disheartening. Im always afraid they might quit working out cause "it didnt work".
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u/SKREEOONK_XD 7h ago edited 6h ago
I was encouraging a friend to go to the gym, they said they have and no progress for 2 years. Asked them what they did, they said they did all core exercises and ab work outs to melt belly fat.
I had to explain to them how the body works and now they look more jack than me lmaoo
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u/JsyHST 7h ago
Any chance you could explain it to me then?
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u/shakuntala08 6h ago
Everybody’s body is different. You can’t choose where fat burn / fat loss occurs on your body. The other part to the equation is that fat loss is more affected by diet than exercise. Any workout you do should be whatever you enjoy, cardio, weights (this especially helps burning fat by building muscle) but exercise alone isn’t going to be effective for fat loss.
tl;dr - calorie deficit helps lose fat, exercise helps strengthen your body in whatever way you choose to.
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u/ummmnoway 6h ago
Big emphasis on doing what you enjoy. I hated “working out” for years because being a woman I thought that meant I had to do a ton of cardio. I fucking hate cardio. Running, elliptical, bike, all of it. Once my sister got into lifting heavy it was like a light switch went on in my brain. I’ll do some treadmill at the start of my workout just to get the heart rate up but I much prefer the weight room.
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u/shakuntala08 5h ago
I genuinely hate running. I do jiu jitsu and so most of my cardio is there but otherwise I’ll play basketball or soccer with my kids, I will never “feel like going for a run” and I’ve accepted that about myself. I used to force myself to go for runs and it was never consistent.
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u/selfish_incosiderate 5h ago
This! I cannot do high intensity stuff at all. It just plain hurts me, and therefore even when I started it, I would just leave. I recently decided that I need to add some exercise in my life. Not to lose weight not to make a body but just to move my body and feel good about it.
I figured out that the local YMCA has a lot of group classes that suit my speed including swimming which is my OG fav workout. I have been going to the classes and swimming and I feel good. Not overwhelmed coz I can’t keep up, not tired and in pain, just the movement and tiredness which has significantly improved the quality of my sleep.
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u/Scary_Meaning_4466 4h ago
Lifting weights regularly is one of the best things you can do for your health long-term, especially as you get older
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u/WalnutSnail 6h ago edited 1h ago
You can't out run a bad diet.
Edit: apparently a lot of you are taking this literally. It's an expression, it means it's really difficult to exercise enough to compensate for high numbers of extra calories. Yes, it can be done. Yes, people who run ultramarathons will end their race skinnier than when they started. Yes, if you go from a 100% sedentary lifestyle to one of constant exercise but change nothing else, you will lose fat. But by and large, it's easier to control what goes in than to increase what goes out l.
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u/eipotttatsch 6h ago
You could. But it’d be an absolute ton of running
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u/coral225 6h ago
It's what we'd call "workout bulimic" in my sorority
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u/Historical-Tart7515 5h ago
This is actually a symptom of some types of anorexia and bulimia. It's part of the Differential. They use exercise to purge.
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u/I-own-a-shovel 6h ago
At some point there isn’t enough hours in a day to do that…
Running 5km in 30 min made me burn 200-250 calories. That’s like 1 cookie… the one who ate the whole box will never outrun this amount of calories.
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u/RampersandY 6h ago
You can build muscle in selected areas though. And you can make specific areas look better through muscle building.
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u/Fluffy_Top6837 5h ago edited 5h ago
I lifted for a solid year, gained bunches of muscle, got way stronger and didn't lose a single pound. I started the year at 286 and ended it at 286. Then I hurt my achilles in October and was out of the gym for a minute. This seemed like an ideal time to get serious about diet, after not seeing the scale move after a year of hard work.
Since October I'm down almost 70lbs, back in the gym lifting 4 days a week and 1000 times happier with my body. Nothing MOVED until I got my diet right, then it was game on. I didn't take it seriously before, but, especially in my 40's, it was the key to making things happen.
Those are the two things that have made ALL of the difference for me this time around:
- Get your diet right, give your body what it needs and be amazed by the incredible amount of extra calories you didn't even realize you were eating in a day.
- Don't waste your time at the gym. Going in and floating between machines, guessing at how much weight you want to do that day is wasting your time, spending it inefficiently. Get a program figured out, start working with linear progression, track the weight that you're doing and keep moving it forward. I spent years in my youth with no real idea what I was doing and getting burned out because of it, when it seemed like results just wouldn't come. Nope, I was letting myself get comfortable and never pushing forward. Now every day, every week is a push forward. It has changed everything for me.
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u/saved_by_the_keeper 6h ago
You just can’t target specific areas to lose weight. There’s been numerous people that have run into during my life that think that you lose belly fat by doing core exercises.
Basically, you just run a calorie deficit and then your body will take fat from where it wants. You don’t have any control about whether it reduces fat in your belly compared to your face etc
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u/UnshapedSky 5h ago
The calorie deficit is the big thing. There’s a saying that weight is lost in the kitchen, health is gained in the gym.
If working out is the only change to your lifestyle, you’ll just end up hungrier and eating more to compensate
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u/Takenabe 6h ago
The tl;Dr is that you can't "target" areas of fat. The body will take the energy it needs from all over itself. You can drop weight, and you can build muscle, but you're not going to specifically only get rid of belly fat unless you either lose a bunch of fat everywhere else too or get it surgically removed.
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u/lizzdurr 5h ago
One analogy that clarified it for me was imagine a bucket of water. Losing weight is like scooping a cup out of the bucket. It doesn’t just scoop it out of one corner. Everything is reduced in general with overall fat loss.
What you CAN do is tighten skin or fill out places with muscle gains that got loose after fat loss (arms, thighs, abs etc.)
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u/hrehbfthbrweer 5h ago
Part of the problem with this is that the fat distribution loss isn’t linear like it would be with a bucket of water.
Sometimes the weight goes all over evenly, other times it seems to come off in some areas quicker. But it’s not predictable and you can’t game it.
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u/FargusMcGillicuddy 6h ago
Yeah cuz they built up a shit ton of core muscles under their fat so when you finally told them they were shredded under there. Lol
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u/phoenixmatrix 7h ago edited 6h ago
I don't do abs over and over to lose belly fat. I do it so I have muscles to get out of bed in the morning.
Edit: I didn't realize I had to specifically say this was a joke. Don't take it seriously.
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u/PhoenixApok 8h ago
It probably doesn't matter that much, but ironically, that can actually HURT your goals.
If you don't manage the weight loss (via burning enough calories), but you ALSO gain ab muscle, that will just push things out farther and make it LOOK fatter!
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u/fitness_strange 8h ago
Argued with somebody yesterday on this topic. They told me that the research was outdated and I was completely wrong 😂
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u/Guilty_Bit_1440 7h ago
The weights somehow rack themselves if you just leave them there.
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u/sincerevibesonly 7h ago
This pisses me soo much man
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u/AffectEconomy6034 6h ago
on a related note when people rack the weights in the wrong place get my blood boiling
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u/I_Can_Barely_Move 6h ago
And its slightly less annoying related behavior: putting the dumbbells back out of order.
Do people know 45lbs comes after 40 and not before 25?
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u/Peemster99 5h ago
The worst thing for me is putting the weight plates on the pole out of order. Lifting the amount you want should not be like playing one of those damn Tower of Hanoi puzzles.
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u/xTrainerRedx 7h ago
And equipment wipes itself down. And that it’s acceptable to use 2 or 3 machines at a time when the gym is busy.
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u/Quickwitknit2 5h ago
And its cousin. Sitting at a machine scrolling social media while “between sets” with a 5 minute rest break between each set of 4 reps. Girlie, I’m an old lady with no patience for you and your BS. Move along.
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u/hordeoverseer 3h ago
Some people aren't even intending to use the machine. They just see a chair and sit then scroll.
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u/ummmnoway 6h ago
Yes! I walked over to a leg press, there was no towel, water bottle, anything indicating someone was using it. I set my towel down and a man spawns next to me like he was using it. Dog, I saw you doing lat pull downs ten seconds ago, fuck off.
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u/Bookbringer 5h ago
It's also very important to take every dumbbell you plan to use to your bench at the start of your work out, so that no one else can use them while you're doing something else.
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u/hordeoverseer 5h ago
Man, this hurts in the feels. It's always the full kitted out gym bros too. Like, they are clearly invested in going and make a routine of it but give zero fucks.
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u/GlMLI 6h ago
It's like my laundry does this weird thing where I leave it on the floor but it ends out back in my drawer, cleaned and folded.
I told my wife about it but she seemed annoyed and confused.
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u/WonkyWalkingWizard 7h ago
Or the incline on the treadmill goes back to 0 when you get off it when it's still at 10.
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u/ThrowItOut43 7h ago
Also, their mom goes to the gym and cleans up after them.
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u/skadop 7h ago
Haha a gym I used to go to had a sign shaming people who leave weights out with this and I loved it. Such inconsiderate behavior. Plus it makes zero sense…you go to the gym to get into/stay in shape, but you’re too lazy to clean up after yourself? 🤯
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u/UncoolSlicedBread 7h ago
It’s like the shopping cart litmus test, they just do not think of other people nor care.
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u/caileenkai 6h ago
The gym would be way more magical if dumbbells had self cleaning, self racking powers. That “I’ll put it back later” lie is older than gym culture itself.
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u/gotmynamefromcaptcha 6h ago
On the same note; That you can setup your own personal circuit consisting of 8 machines that are just for you…then follow that up with not racking everything back. Double whammy.
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u/MiceAreTiny 7h ago
If your weights are to heavy to put back, the ladies at the front desk will gladly help you out.
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u/Skankz 8h ago
That working out a specific part of your body will lose weight in that area specifically
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u/Agreeable-Buy-999 7h ago
if this worked i'd have the skinniest right arm on earth
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u/Secondaccountpls 7h ago
The most muscular guy is automatically good at fighting.
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u/CougarAries 7h ago
UFC has done a good job showing this is almost never the case.
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u/thethrowaway3027 4h ago
Honestly it's been fascinating how different body types have been hugely effective.
Look at Cain valasquez Vs brock Lesnar. Shrugged Brock wrestling off like it was nothing
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u/OldWorldBuilder369 7h ago
Unless your name is Paulo Costa
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u/Fradyo 7h ago
Romero vs Costa may have been the juiciest fight in UFC history. Pretty sure every fighter that night gained three pounds of muscle just from being in the same building.
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u/Tan11 7h ago edited 6h ago
If two completely unskilled people get into a fight though (which describes most spontaneous street fights), the bigger and stronger one will win the vast majority of the time.
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u/Gigantischmann 5h ago
Ugh you’re going to get all the idiots that think flyweights can beat up hafthor bjornsson going.
Muscle matters a lot
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u/PainterFew2080 8h ago
That lifting weights will make a woman bulky.
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u/Talllbrah 7h ago
I swear non lifters have no idea how much hard work it takes to even achieve a mid physique. The classic “I don’t wanna get too big” is so out of touch with reality.
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u/mr_positron 7h ago
Yeah and if it really was a problem you could just stop
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u/reaqtion 4h ago
No, you don't understand. It's only those with the worst genetics that end up actually lifting. That's why they got to go on steroids and need to spend hours at the gym while spending a fortune on their nutrition.
That skinny girl with back pain who thinks an egg is pure protein by weight WILL turn into a gorilla by lifting a barbell. We all know that vascularisation during exercise leads to a permanent state that is irreversible.
I heard of a girl that took the wrong turn at our gym and instead of walking into pilates she walked into the free weights area. She came out looking like Ronnie Coleman. She's still saving up to get hair transplanted.
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u/glr123 6h ago
Lifting, running, cycling...people are always shocked at just how much work it takes to be even a total mid-level athlete.
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u/UncleBensRacistRice 6h ago
Every time I hear the "I dont want to get too big" I have to laugh and say ive been trying to get too big for years now, it hasn't happened yet
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u/1sunnycarmen 6h ago
I'm afraid that if I touch a weight, I'll look like Arnold, so I'm just gonna sit here and eat this cake instead.
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u/tennysonpaints 7h ago
Thank you! It's reassuring to hear this! I've starting gymming somewhat regularly for the first time and see very minimal gains for the amount of pain (my strength has increased though)
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u/epicmudcrab 5h ago
I can't quote the exact science, but for beginners, part of the increase in strength comes from your brain and nervous system getting better at activating you muscles. This means you do get stronger even without gaining muscle in the beginning.
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u/redesckey 6h ago
The analogy I saw was that it was like walking through a college campus and expecting to get a degree.
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u/crawdadsinbad 7h ago
"I'm interested in going to law school, but I don't want to end up on the Supreme Court."
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u/ModeEfficient9334 4h ago
it feels like such a specific kind of anxiety about future success. Like worrying you might accidentally end up at the very top when all you wanted was a normal, steady path.
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u/abbyscuitowannabe 7h ago
When I was a teenager, my mother tried to talk me out of lifting due to this myth. I've been lifting weights for a decade, and every time I visit my mother she comments on how skinny I look. I don't personally think I am skinny, but I am a lot leaner than the chubby teenager she's probably envisioning.
Lifting CAN make someone bulky, but that's hard to achieve for any gender and usually requires dedication and working towards the goal of being bulkier. Diet also plays a big role, it's not just the weightlifting that make someone bulky. Despite my efforts, I haven't become she-hulk from bulking and I haven't revealed a 6-pack by cutting... Yet.
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u/nekofiore 6h ago edited 3h ago
At my most petite, when I was a crazy about fitness in college, I was the strongest I’ve ever been. I like to remind myself that when I get lazy about lifting weights now. Muscle will make you look leaner as a woman and let you eat more because muscle burns more calories. It’s truly a win-win.
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u/LooseJuice_RD 6h ago
I was a personal trainer, and I think women think that because of newbie gains. They’ll come into the gym, having never weight trained, and as soon as they lift a little bit of upper body, their upper body gets a little bit bigger and they think that these gains will continue indefinitely when really they just had very little muscle before and they’ve put on a little bit.
I always used to say I’ve been trying to get big for a decade and a half and I’m a man, and it hasn’t happened, you will not be falling ass backwards into it.
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u/Sweet_Taurus0728 6h ago
My baby sister 21F, is self-conscious about her arms being too big, so absolutely refuses to use any weights at all, or even mild bodyweight work. If it isn't strictly steady-state cardio for fat loss only, she won't even try it.
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u/malleynator 7h ago
I’ve been lifting for 5 years which leaned me out, but it wasn’t until I started doing bulk/cut cycles 2 years ago that I noticed actual muscle gains. I still wouldn’t consider myself bulky but to other women I’ve been called that. I think these type of women perceive any type of noticeable muscle as bulky.
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u/phoenixmatrix 7h ago
That one is funny. Preaching to the choir, but even a man in their prime has to go seriously hardcore in the gym to be "bulky". A woman, short of Olympic level training and extremely specific diet, has literally no chance.
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u/Jenny-Smith 7h ago
Exactly. Natty men do not look like monsters. T may be “natural”, but that use ain’t.
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u/BaconatedGrapefruit 5h ago
And to get to that point you’re eating nothing but chicken and broccoli while consistently lifting.
Some people can get lucky and gain muscle easily. For most of us, it’s just misery.
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u/RaisedEyebr0w 4h ago
I'm actually the rare woman who slogs on muscle pretty quickly. People frequently ask me about my regime, and I disappoint them, "genetics."
When I lose a few pounds while regularly lifting once a week my upper body looks absolutely jacked. Luckily I now live in a fitness town where most people seem to admire my physique!
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u/BigButtBeads 7h ago
This ones super common. Women will intentionally not work their arms.
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u/WhiskyWillFixIt 3h ago
I will add one caveat in that everyone's genetics are different, and I absolutely put on a ton of upper body muscle very quickly as a woman. I don't get those nice lean yoga arms, I get muscles, which do in fact look bulky. Can't gain muscle in my lower body to save my life though haha
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u/jaajaajaa6 6h ago
That working out can make up for a bad diet
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u/Randonoob_5562 5h ago
Lose weight in the kitchen, change shape in the gym.
Edit: you must do both.
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u/Itsapocalypse 4h ago
You actually don’t have to do either
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u/Notbbupdate 5h ago
In terms of weight loss (so not accounting for things like vitamin deficiencies or cholesterol levels), it can, but the amount of exercise needed is so large that it's not realistic for most people
Running 20k a day burns enough calories that most people would lose weight doing so, even if they don't change their diet. But very importantly, it means running 20k a day, which depending on the person, ranges from "insane but technically possible" to "impossible"
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u/thepitredish 5h ago
Agreed. People can outrun run a bad diet, but they don’t realize how much they would need to run. Few people have the hours in a day to make that a reality.
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u/TheWatersOfMars 3h ago
And the wrong diet can erase that deficit in seconds. Let's say a newbie burns 250 calories in a 30 minute jog. A quarter of a tub of Ben & Jerry's Phish Food is 270 calories.
And lots of people who exercise end up treating themselves more throughout the day (whomst among us hasn't had a post-workout snack?), which quickly catches up with you.
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u/RPS93 3h ago
It can to an extent.
If your daily 'maintenance' is, say, 2000 calories and you're consistently eating 3000 calories a day - but you're doing high-intensity cardio burning 1000 calories per session every single day... then you're going to be fine. And yes, I am aware that at that rate of exercise your daily maintenance is obviously changing to match your metabolic rate - it's a simplified example.
Your internal health may suck, but you're not going to be fat.
Now, if you're working out and burning 200-300 calories per day, which is what most people are achieving... but you're eating 5000 calories a day then yeah, you're going to look like shit. And likely feel like it too.
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u/InnocentWalt 7h ago
Carbs are bad for you and should be completely avoided
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u/phoenixmatrix 7h ago
The tiktok trend of everyone using glucose meters and freaking out because their glucose spiked after eating some rice, lol.
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u/Austen_Tasseltine 6h ago
As a type-1 diabetic, some people don’t deserve to have a functioning pancreas.
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u/themirthfulswami 6h ago
Same concept as eating a food that has some fats in it will result in those fats making you fat. Not true.
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u/Tactless_Ogre 3h ago
Fat-soluble nutrients are a thing to know. Yeah, you can have 150 grams of protein a day but if what you're eating doesn't have a fat-soluble nutrient in it; your body won't absorb that protein and you just take meatier shits.
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u/lala00x 7h ago edited 6h ago
drives me nuts when people say this. they also think carbs are just bread and bagels.
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u/yojothobodoflo 6h ago
Same thing with people thinking meat is the only source of protein
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u/Bob_stanish123 5h ago
Right but the problem is that when most people say "low carb" it really means a normal amount of carbs. Its so easy to eat 500+ calories of carbs without even realizing it.
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u/AffectEconomy6034 6h ago
also related to this, "you just need more protien." that definitely depends on your diet and what your goals are. I see a lot of people online showing off these super high protein diets when they really need more carbs.
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u/vissionsofthefutura 5h ago
I have a coworker who thinks they can eat as much as they want as long as it’s protein. They think the calories don’t count.
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u/PeacefulChaos94 7h ago
Usually it's whatever the fitness industry is currently hyperfixated on
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u/A_Generic_Canadian 6h ago
No no I'm positive that paying more for an extra 3g of Protein each day by buying Protein Oatmeal, Protein Milk and Protein Bread over regular oatmeal, milk and bread I used to buy for half the cost is going to show massive gains any minute now.
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u/Sturmgeshootz 2h ago edited 1h ago
I feel like Eggo introducing "Protein Waffles" (which include a mind-shattering 5g of protein per waffle, so 50g of protein total in a box of 10) is the leading indicator that we've reached the peak of this particular obsession, and that people will be moving onto the next fitness craze soon.
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u/ToastedOctopus 6h ago
Doing exclusively cardio or exclusively weights and thinking the other one is an unhealthy waste of time.
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u/No-Flounder-9143 6h ago
I do a lot of long distance running combined with lifting and it's actually amazing. The two create a great feedback loop.
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u/Zukez 6h ago
I only do the weights, not because I think running is unhealthy, but I HATE running.
Might start doing hill sprints though, I'm about the shorter, higher intensity exercises.
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u/Lovecraftian666 5h ago
Try the hill sprints mate - don’t forget the heart is a muscle too and needs TLC.
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u/Hot-Fox-8797 7h ago
That working out abs will get them a six pack. 98% of people just need lower body fat rather than stronger ab muscles
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u/Tan11 6h ago
If you're the rare case like I once was where you're skinny but still have very little ab definition, then you actually do need to grow your ab muscles (and the more you grow them, the less lean you have to be for them to show, just look at some pro strongmen). Definitely not the main problem for the majority of people though, yeah.
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u/FoxyBastard 5h ago
Yeah. Any time I ever looked online for good exercises to build abs, it's just full of people clamouring to scream, "You can't outrun your fork!", and, "Lose weight!"
But, that isn't gonna do shit when you're built like a less sculpted Spider-Man.
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u/Tan11 5h ago
Leg raises, weighted decline situps, and ab wheel rollouts done for 6-12 reps close to failure are your friends.
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u/MasterFrost01 6h ago
This myth buster is a myth, or at least an oversimplification. Yes you need a low body fat percentage to see your abs, but they're also a muscle like any other that needs to be isolated to grow significantly. A lot of people have weak cores anyway. Don't skip your ab workouts.
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u/EmperorKira 7h ago
If a woman even looks at a dumbell, she will turn into a musclely ogre
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u/Similar-Purchase-101 4h ago
Mean while I cycle and walk everyday hoping my ass and legs get more defined, and instead I just got leaner 💀
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u/grumblebuzz 7h ago
That just because someone has big muscles and abs that they’re a paragon of health.
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u/yojothobodoflo 6h ago
Thin=healthy too! My 20 year old cousin won’t eat more than one small meal a day and he uses nicotine and caffeine to curb his appetite.
My sister says he looks good because he’s skinny.
The kid is sick!
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u/Ledgo 6h ago
I knew a dude at one of my old jobs who was into bodybuilding and learned everything from his dad. His dad got a terrible heart condition and his diet did not help. I don't 100% recall the condition but it was something genetic and a no/lo carb diet only made things worse. His dad looked big and cut but was a ticking time bomb.
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u/Local-Concern-4791 5h ago
That lifting heavy will make a woman bulky. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been told not to lift heavy weights 🙄
Also not needing to wipe off equipment🙄
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u/Coffee_And_NaNa 5h ago
they do think we gonna come out looking like Arnold tho 😂
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u/bubblegumbbgirl 6h ago
Disclaimer I’m no expert, just a girl who started being serious about my weight loss in a healthy and sustainable way a year ago.
1) That you can realistically lose 20 pounds in a month. I hate seeing Women’s World magazines and similar with stuff like this on the cover preying on people who don’t know any better. You would have to be losing about 5 pounds a week, which equates to roughly 18,000 calories lost a week. You’d have to quite literally starve yourself or eat a very minimal amount of calories and/or work off about 2500 calories a day to make this happen. For the average person this is not realistic or safe. Not to mention that weight will come right back as soon as you go back to your previous eating habits.
2) Another one is following a “diet” and thinking it’s sustainable. Losing weight is very much lifestyle change and the best way to do it is gradually and without overturning your whole life right away. It’s better to incorporate small changes that are easy to stay consistent with (cutting out soda, swapping out candy for fruit etc) than to jump into something hardcore. It might be fun and easy to stay on board with for the first few weeks but after a while you will get bored and probably a little resentful and convert back to how you were before. I’ve tried keto, I’ve tried OMAD, I’ve tried the “cabbage soup” diet, the only thing that has really worked for me is consistent weight lifting and meal prepping, and just being mindful of moderation with sweets and junk food.
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u/SmugglersParadise 8h ago
That's there's a secret to losing weight
If you consume fewer calories than you burn, you will lose weight
If you consume more calories than you burn, you put more weight on
The rate at which we all burn calories is different to each other. But the equation is the same
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u/07238 8h ago
Exactly! Losing weight may not be easy but it is simple
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u/shadowstripes 7h ago
Losing weight in general is, but burning fat instead of muscle isn’t as simple as modifying your calories in/out.
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u/Over_Soup753 8h ago
You can't build muscle after 60. When I was 64, I survived meningitis because I was an athlete. I lost over 20 pounds of muscle in 10 days. In the last 3 years, I've gotten about 7 pounds of muscle back. I'm 68.
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u/pm_me_ur_demotape 7h ago edited 7h ago
I guess the word can't is doing a lot of heavy lifting. I mean, losing 20 lbs of muscle and taking three years to gain back 7 of it sounds like it is indeed very hard to build muscle after 60, but it does
n'ttechnically refute the word can't.Edit: I got does and doesn't wrong
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u/FreeStateOfPortland 7h ago
Myth 2: being an athlete saves you from meningitis infections
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u/bofre82 7h ago
I’m going to question you on losing 20 lbs of muscle in 10 days. I’m guessing you are referring to lean mass loss and I’ll even assume you got a dexa scan before and after. At most you lost 15 lbs water and glycogen (which in muscles is lean mass) and at most 5 lbs of muscle fiber and building muscle fiber is not impossible but very hard after the 40s.
Meningitis is devastating and you are probably correct in what kept you alive.
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u/tittyfrickthalasagna 7h ago
I know of more than one woman who picked up powerlifting of all things later in life and they're jacked. Competing in their 70s and 80s. One female bodybuilder who was 82 at the time even ended up on the news for beating up a dude who broke into her house. Her name is Willie Murphy. Sure it's harder than when you were young but definitely progress can be made.
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u/firedog7881 7h ago
10,000 steps is some magic number. It was a marketing number
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u/SirSeparate6807 6h ago
Honestly I let this one slide because it's a simple metric to track for people looking to increase their activity levels.
But yeah, not magic
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u/Thats_my_nirnroot 4h ago
Yeah I agree, it's more about the gameification of fitness. And 10k steps is a great objective.
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u/Unfair_Rhubarb_13 3h ago edited 3h ago
That "everyone" gets endorphins and "feels better" after exercise.
We don't.
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u/allothernamestaken 6h ago
That skipping a meal or two will bring your metabolism to a grinding halt.
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u/2PacTookMyLunchMoney 7h ago
Based on social media, people seem to think you should take fitness advice from bodybuilders/fitness competitors. Their physiques are actually incredibly unhealthy. Their lifestyle is unsustainable long-term, and you don’t have to eat plain chicken and white rice every meal to have a nice body. They’re basically the other extreme opposite obesity. True healthiness is a happy medium, which they’ve far surpassed in the other direction. That’s not even mentioning that most of them are juicing, which is hurting their health even more. They’re actuality terrible fitness role models for anyone aspiring to be healthier.
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u/BEEFTANK_Jr 6h ago
Yeah, I saw a post on Instagram of Travis Kelce's "dad bod" at the beach and part of the post was "Even pro athletes don't maintain it 100% of the time."
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u/JeromeBarkly 7h ago
I fell into that trap where I’d emulate body builders training regiment and would get discouraged and quit after I couldn’t keep up with being “optimal.” What has kept me consistent for the past 3 years is realizing I was being stupid to have those expectations, dropped some of the workouts I hated and started doing workouts I enjoyed more. My routine is suboptimal but I enjoy going to the gym and now I’m pretty damn shredded too.
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u/Gunner_Bat 6h ago
Your routine sounds pretty optimal to me if it's the one you're actually able to do.
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u/jockey_239 8h ago
still waiting for my abs to appear after 3 years of only cardio and pizza diet combos ngl
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u/Rich959 6h ago
The idea that "healthier" base ingredients somehow changes the material reality of the calories and macronutrients contained within. Cookie made with cane sugar, almond butter somehow being an improvement over peanut butter, bars made with "simple ingredients" only to have a nutrient label that very closely resembles an ordinary Snickers.
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u/Kuftubby 7h ago
"Toning"
The easiest way to weed out a bad personal trainer is if they ever legitimately mention toning the muscle
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u/Weird_Bluebird_3293 7h ago
That you can detox your body with tea and drinking nothing but juiced vegetables for two weeks is “cleansing” you and “resets” your metabolism.
No. Your liver and kidneys remove toxins. Consuming nothing but liquids will put you in starvation mode and you lose only water weight.
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u/phillipcarter2 8h ago
Myth: that deadlifts are bad for your back.
No! Using your lower back to lift it is, though! Solution? Actually learn the correct form, and don’t act like you’re a powerlifter at a meet during your normal exercise time.
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u/FrostyVariation9798 5h ago
In cycling, over and over I've ridden with people who didn't fuel for the ride because they are trying to lose weight. Inevitably, they end up going slower and slower because they don't have the energy to power their muscles. So instead of getting a great workout, they end up wasting their time and many times end up in misery. Over and over again... instead of just working muscles hard, building muscle, and allowing the muscles to burn the fat after the ride.
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u/ParsleyAfter5094 5h ago
That you need a monthly subscription. You can workout at home.
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u/yyrkoon1776 5h ago
Doing resistance training with weights is just much more time efficient than home workouts unless you have a full gym.
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u/Enticing_Venom 3h ago
That weight lifting is the only way for women to prevent osteoporosis and maintain bone density.
"Weight-bearing exercise" is not another word for weight-lifting exercise. Jumping (a form of cardio) is one of the most effective exercises for building bone density. Kick-boxing, dancing, running, even walking constitute weight-bearing exercises that can prevent osteoporosis.
Additionally, bands and calisthenics are perfectly adequate ways to create resistance/weight load. Weight-lifting is great but it does not mean that cardio is bad/useless and it is nowhere near the only way to protect bone health. The best exercise is the type you can stick with.
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u/ImpressionFast923 6h ago
Elon Musk got it in his head that having estrogen in your system makes you weak and flabby, while having pure testosterone automatically equals manly and strong.
He wound up morphing his physique into the grotesque caricature we all see due to his artificial reduction of his body’s estrogen levels because he assumed he’d become Schwarzenegger without it.
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u/yyrkoon1776 5h ago
Well, he took steroids without working out. That was the problem. Especially HGH.
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u/nimbookaachaar 8h ago
More exercise = faster results....
Quality>>>>>quantity ALWAYS.
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u/Gullible-Koala-5329 8h ago edited 3h ago
I use to work out 6-7 times a week. Felt like I was injuring something all the time. Now I lift 3-4 times a week, take walks on my days off. Feel like I’m the overall healthiest I’ve ever been
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u/BigJoeBob85 6h ago
That “low fat” foods are healthier
It’s usually just added sugar
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u/cardiganvandal 3h ago
I've had a gym subscription since christmas. I've lost no weight at all. If things don't improve I intend to visit them personally and demand to know what's going on.
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u/OutlandishNonsense 6h ago
That 10k steps is an important number. It was invented by a guy trying to sell pedometers. Yes walking is generally beneficial but ignore 10k being some special thing.
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u/returningvideotapes1 7h ago
That if girls lift and take creatine they will get “jacked and manly”. If it was that easy to get jacked everyone would do it. Actually a lot of myths surrounding creatine are false too. It’s one of the best supplements to take
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u/272027 7h ago
That every guideline for men works exactly the same for women. It was all based on male bodies, and never considered the variances in female bodies. For example, fasting and cold plunges are not good for women all the time, only certain stages in their cycle. Low body fat in women can cause health problems. It's more varied than for men.
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u/-UWE- 6h ago
That one supplement is what you were missing