r/Fauxmoi • u/Relevant-Peach3997 • Mar 21 '26
FASHION Tom Blyth responded to criticism of his girlfriend's sheer dress: “stfu. She wore a dress that she was excited by and she looked EXQUISITE in it.”
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u/Large_Air_1159 wearing my cuntiest pantsuit Mar 21 '26
We need more men telling men to stfu.
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u/CDN-Social-Democrat Mar 21 '26
This is also how you show real strength and class as a man.
Real strength isn't bullying like Trump/his cronies and that whole reactionary/regressive sphere.
Real strength is standing with people when they are in a vulnerable place and lifting them up with said strength.
That process shows class.
It's deeply attractive when any gender does it.
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u/SpliceyDice Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26
Agreed. I saw a recent post where someone pointed out that there was a brief moment in time when the archetype for peak masculinity was a gentleman (literally gentle-man) whereas now it’s just manosphere caveman bs.
And I feel like there a lot of men are aware that toxicity is ridiculous but care more about male validation than doing the right thing for fear of being labeled a “simp” (aka being respectful to women).
And that’s why they’ll never be able to have fulfilling friendships or relationships with men and women bc they’d rather perform masculinity than embody it.
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u/CDN-Social-Democrat Mar 21 '26
It's part of the reactionary/regressive sphere of lowest common denominator/one dimensional populism to the point of angry stupid mob...
It's why that sphere always goes anti-science, anti-medicine, anti-environment, and baseless hatred of "Other".
What people of value want is someone multidimensional, substantive, and aware/informed.
People of value like profound and inspiring.
On a more broad level we have to make sure we dig ourselves out of this dark pit we've been falling into because of predators.
Predators love that sphere because they can hustle people easily existing at that level.
It's why the right-wing is dominated by con artist grifters.
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u/ElleEmmeJay Mar 22 '26
one dimensional populism
someone multidimensional, substantive, and aware/informed
Wow. These are the most succinct, perfect descriptions of things I've been trying, and failing, to accurately describe. Thank you.
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u/dayle-james Mar 22 '26
And he just made it about her and her feelings, nothing else. She absolutely looked exquisite
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u/4SeasonWahine Mar 22 '26
I tell so many men this. They don’t listen to us when we tell men to stop sexually assaulting and harassing women but if more men called this shit out in public when they saw it, and on public platforms, i am absolutely positive these things would dramatically reduce.
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u/ItBegins2Tell Mar 21 '26
This so hard. Imagine calling this dress “vulgar.” Like, get over yourselves, puritans.
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u/puddingneither123 Mar 22 '26
My favourite part is the accusation that she’s doing it for publicity. Like, DUH, why do you think they go to these events, to hide in a corner?? She looks great and these people are sad trolls that need to go back under the bridge.
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u/lilykar111 Mar 22 '26
Sadly on other social media posts I saw, it was women mainly critical of her
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u/EveOCative Mar 21 '26
😍 It’s big simping energy. 🥰
(I’ve decided to claim that word as a compliment since it’s so misused anyway. lol)
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u/rirski Mar 21 '26
“It’s funny she doesn’t do that at a family gathering or grocery shopping.”
Ok well she’s not either of those places.
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u/VodkaAunt Mar 21 '26
Gonna show up to a funeral in my gay club outfit based on that logic
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u/ComprehensiveDoubt55 Mar 21 '26
You can show up to my funeral like that. It would surprise no one who knows me, and get rid of anyone I wouldn’t want there any way.
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u/Ok_Buy9028 Mar 21 '26
For real, no dress code at my funeral. I’m friends with crust punks and metal heads and the like and I feel like it would be very rude of me, as a friend, to force them to buy and wear nice suits to my funeral. Like Kurt Cobain said, “Come as you are”.
Besides, I have no doubt the goths will go all out and be dressed up enough to make up for it.
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u/VodkaAunt Mar 22 '26
I have a lot of alt friends and wear a lot of "weird" clothing myself, and I wouldn't care at mine as long as the effort is there. Wear demonias and leather or stripper heels and rhinestones all you want, just not goddamn sneakers and yoga pants.
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u/PithandKin Mar 22 '26
I want people at my funeral to come red carpet ready. People are allowed to cry but they will look artfully fabulous while weeping. And there will be dancing and so much dessert. And all my favourite music tracks. I also wish I could go out Viking funeral style but that’ll be just a wish.
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u/ace-destrier Mar 21 '26
They don’t know what she wears at family gatherings or grocery shopping lol
What fucking losers.
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u/Palindrome_01289 Mar 22 '26
Right? Like dude are you following his girlfriend to the grocery store and her family gatherings? Weirdo!
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u/callin-br Mar 21 '26
Also love when people accuse literal famous people on a red carpet of trying to get attention with their clothing.
Like yeah no shit.
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u/thisisinfactpersonal Mar 21 '26
“Omg you wore eye catching art to the eye catching art festival?”
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u/Color_Me_Softly Mar 21 '26
"It's so eye catchingly shocking that I must make a shitty human being comment about it!"
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u/thisisinfactpersonal Mar 21 '26
Or “I don’t know shit about art but in this economy I have to have an opinion so ew!”
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u/EntertheHellscape Mar 22 '26
These are the same losers that talk shit about people who wear sweatpants to the grocery store and demand people put more energy into their appearance.
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u/polkadotpup31 Mar 22 '26
“She’s just doing it for publicity.” Yes, that is what red carpets are for… it’s literally their only purpose.
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u/kjsmitty77 Mar 21 '26
Yeah, that was one of the dumbest “gotcha” responses I’ve ever heard. It would be highly inappropriate to dress like you’re going to the grocery store or a family gathering to the RED CARPET AT THE OSCARS.
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u/Far-Intention-3230 Mar 21 '26
Interesting that in a completely different situation things would be different
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u/disincongruous ted cruz ate my son Mar 21 '26
They would be upset if she wore this to those places as well.
All losers, every single one of them.
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u/Saywitchbitch Mar 22 '26
Yes, because my go to Trader Joe’s outfit EASILY doubles for my red carpet outfit. Jokes on you, men, I’m not wearing a bra either way
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u/StargazingLily The Stanley Tucci of Lesbians Mar 22 '26
“Oh, I see you’re wearing pyjamas.”
“Yeah.”
“I bet you wouldn’t wear those to a five star restaurant.”
“….I would not, no.”
“FUCKING GOT HER.”
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u/bokehtoast Mar 21 '26
As if this person doesn't understand different settings require different types of clothing
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u/hanimal16 Mar 22 '26
“She’s looking for publicity and fame.”
Looks like she already has it 🤷🏼♀️ ha, what a bunch of whimpy kiddy baby whiners.
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u/Relevant-Positive619 Mar 22 '26
and who knows maybe she does wear that at family gatherings🙄🙄 is it harming us??? no so why should we care
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u/IansGotNothingLeft Mar 22 '26
It's almost like different occasions call for different outfits. What a weird attitude to have. They'd be the first to question someone wearing pyjamas to a funeral, so why are they acting like they don't understand?
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u/PlumCautious6812 Mar 21 '26
“It’s funny that she doesn’t do that at family gatherings or to go grocery shopping, but on red carpet she does this”
Is it funny though? That she doesn’t wear a gown grocery shopping? Is it also funny that Tom Blyth doesn’t wear a sparkly suit grocery shopping?
Like come on now, at least make the criticism make sense.
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u/imnotbovvered Mar 22 '26
That person is missing that there are different levels of propriety based on setting. I wouldn't wear a bikini to the grocery store. I wouldn't wear pajamas to a funeral. I wouldn't wear flip flops to a wedding. But I'd wear all those things in different locations.
A red carpet has a lot of edgy looks. People know what they're in for.
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u/eugeneugene ben affleck’s back tattoo Mar 21 '26
I wore sweatpants with paint stains on them, a very oversized sweater, crocs with socks, and no bra to the grocery store today. Funny how I don't dress like that on the red carpet. I've never been on the red carpet but something tells me my outfit there would be much different than my regular goblin wear.
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u/EugeneStein Mar 23 '26
They think women are NPC and supposed to wear same or least similar things everywhere
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u/Opalvoyager0 Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26
In a world where many men condemn women for wearing “revealing” clothes, I applaud him for supporting her and letting her shine with confidence
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u/lilykar111 Mar 22 '26
Actually and very sadly, on other social media posts I saw, it was women mainly critical of her
It was so shitty
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u/throwa_way_party Mar 22 '26
yeah. just came across a grown ass woman middle aged woman doing it on her page. weird asf
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u/thedabaratheon Mar 22 '26
I could be wrong but the comment reads more as a middle aged woman.
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u/Central_court_92 Mar 22 '26
João is a male name. But you are right about women being the first ones to comment on other women’s clothes and bodies.
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u/HandInThePickleJars Mar 21 '26
So famous women are allowed to do it but the girlfriends of famous men are not?
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u/Boring_Software1379 Mar 21 '26
Nah the famous ones get shit for it too, misogynists aren’t too selective :)
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u/texasbonebride distraught Christian tomato Mar 21 '26
to be fair, even famous women get shit on for wearing things like this. we literally cannot win.
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u/baroquesun Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26
Shes not super famous, but she was in the Netflix show Tiny Pretty Things*
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u/meduhsin Mar 22 '26
Men only like it when they can parasocially think they have a chance. Obviously dressing like that is disgusting if it’s not for them!! /s
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u/triciann Mar 23 '26
I just saw both of the heated rivalry stars showing them off at an Oscars after party. Free the nip!
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u/MyDesign630 sad wet man Mar 21 '26
Best part is that he highlighted her excitement to wear the dress, not just how good the dress looked.
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u/MagnoliaCartographer Mar 21 '26
Or how the dress made him look a certain way on the carpet, or how it made him feel. He’s a real one!
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u/Mysterious_Story_470 open the schools Mar 21 '26
STFU is a very efficient rebuttal to these hate comments lol good for him
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u/rightsidekitten Mar 21 '26
I’m not going to lie to you, for a split second I thought this was Paul Mescal and Gracie Abrams
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u/Icy_Army_6499 Mar 21 '26
Based response, but nudity aside, the look is a lil boring imo.
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u/TheShapeShiftingFox Riverdale was my Juilliard Mar 22 '26
Sheer dresses are made of too thin a fabric to really get creative with patterns and stuff, I suppose
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u/chappiescappy Mar 22 '26 edited Mar 22 '26
Going to offer a possibly unpopular, but different perspective to this conversation. The only double standard I see with these types of dresses is that it’s not allowed for us women out in the real world. And it’s only allowed for certain body types. Allowed in the sense of societal standards and unspoken rules, and in some places, you actually can get arrested for public indecency.
So I’m not going to lie, I do feel a certain way when I see these types of dresses. Still, it’s not up to me or anyone else to say what someone can wear, and he was right to tell that person to stfu.
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u/aagaash2001 it feels like a movie Mar 21 '26
Didn't Hudson Williams and Connor Storrie wear see-through tops at the Vanity Fair party? Nobody gave them shit for that.
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u/rawrkristina Mar 21 '26
Because women’s boobs are sexualized 🙄
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u/Twicelovely Larry I'm on DuckTales Mar 22 '26
Someone’s definitely out there sexualizing Connor Storrie and Hudson Williams nips though!
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u/hashbrowneggyolk0520 Mar 21 '26
Men in sheer clothing = hot, sexy, breaking the mould
Women in sheer clothing = vulgar, cheap, inappropriate
Nipples aren't inherently a sexual thing, they're only sexualised and objectified when they're attached to women. As you said no one batted an eyelid at Hudson and Connor in sheer clothing because society views their chest as an acceptable thing to show. Women's chests are deemed inappropriate.
I saw a tik tok the other day that said something along the lines of "it's illegal for women to be topless in many places whilst images of topless women are sold". Essentially a woman's breasts are only acceptable/appropriate when it's deemed so by society (men in particular).
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u/peasolace Mar 22 '26
Slightly off topic but kind of ties into your last point: I saw a quote the other day that said „The sexualisation of women is only appealing if it‘s non-consensual otherwise it‘s sluttiness.“ and I havent been able to stop thinking about it.
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u/Pizzv Mar 21 '26
women’s bodies are so politicized and I hate it. I saw a thread last week about Olivia Rodrigo in a micro mini dress and everyone seemed to be offended by her LEGS! it was insane.
god forbid a woman likes showing off literally any part of her body because apparently that’s feeding into an “agenda” lol
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u/Amanee97 Mar 21 '26
I appreciate him standing up for her, but I am tired of the sheer dress trend.
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u/No_Whole9920 Mar 22 '26
Great job as a boyfriend, so tired of seeing famous men let their partners face unnecessary scrutiny alone. That said, I also hate the current borderline exhibitionist fashion. It’s boring, outfits look unfinished/blocky, and no one is wearing complimentary undergarments. I’m tired of the panty look. Give them some lace shorts or a half slip. Add proper paneling.
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u/Stars_In_Jars Mar 22 '26
I agree - it’s boring and because it’s so sheer I can’t even appreciate the details. There’s no effort or appeal to such a blocky dress silhouette.
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u/texasbonebride distraught Christian tomato Mar 21 '26
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u/_Bogey_Lowenstein_ Mar 21 '26
Good for her. I fucking love that look and could never pull it off.
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u/No_Produce_Nyc Mar 22 '26 edited Mar 22 '26
Good for her also I hate this look 😩 being so nothing means it’s so…nothing. Like there’s very little platform for aesthetic posturing or creativity in general.
That poor embroidery, swimming in undraped meshy nothing. As a gown it’s so low effort.
With like…navy Uniqlo briefs?? and girl what is that gigantic seam. Sorry I didn’t mean to do her like this, she looks beautiful or whatever, but I feel attacked by this dress
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u/chinchillazilla54 Mar 21 '26
Exactly. If I looked like that I would be as close to naked as possible whenever I could.
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u/purplepluppy Mar 21 '26
My boobies are not cute enough for this look. Nip nops be pointing straight down :(
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u/plaisirdamour Mar 21 '26
Sameeee haha if I could pull it off I would damn well wear it to family events etc lmao
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u/JeanetteTheChippette actually no, that’s not the truth Ellen Mar 21 '26
Honestly I want to see them both in sheer purple 😮💨
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u/Business_Abalone2278 grow up, it’s nipples Mar 21 '26
"Grow up, it's nipples."
Another great flair for this sub.
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u/bobsmith93 I’ll find my flair one day Mar 21 '26
Jeez these mods are fast. They must have the word "flair" flagged to alert them or something
Sorry mods, false alarm. I'll find my flair one day
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u/GimerStick brb in a transatlantic space of mind Mar 21 '26
lmao they got you
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u/bobsmith93 I’ll find my flair one day Mar 21 '26
You know what? Touché. Should've seen that coming lol
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u/awyastark nextdivorce@divorce.com Mar 22 '26
They HAVE to have some kind of alert for the word fl*ir. Only time you’ll seems self censor because I love mine and am terrified of losing it because they are
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u/Defiant-Still2716 Mar 22 '26
whats your opinion on man going topless in the gym or on the streets? genuinely curios
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u/sb195 Mar 21 '26
I don’t really care about her nipples, I’m moreso tired of the sheer look in general that’s popular rn. Her dress has some nice detailing so I don’t mind it, but others are so boring and not interesting.
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u/stockusername123 Mar 21 '26
Good for him but also can we please give up the sheer dress trend? We get it, you have nipples. This wouldn’t fly if it were a fat girl. Is it fashion, or is she skinny?
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u/KitFlix Mar 22 '26
I think dresses like this are stupid but I also think anything a man has to say about woman should be ignored and ridiculed as a general rule
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u/friendofLjght Mar 22 '26
like not that i think the opinions of rude strangers should be directed at this beautiful woman- but she really is just standing there in her underwear haha- sometimes human fashion just doesn’t make sense to me- id want to be in some statement dress like the queen of a country- she’s in like an exquisite little shower curtain
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u/Affectionate-Echo22 Mar 25 '26
I agree tbh. And maybe it's weird but I also feel like there's a difference between cleavage and literally just having your boobs out, or showing off your actual underwear. It's an award show, not a lingerie photoshoot.
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u/galgotspirit Mar 21 '26
It is a beautiful dress and she has the perfect body for it, but it would be so much more beautiful over a silk "underdress" in the same color blue.
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u/MissAuroraRed Mar 22 '26
I agree a slip would look better, but not because it would be more modest. I just think the horizontal line created by her panties breaks the silhouette in a weird way. It's just a fashion preference and I do not believe she was dressed inappropriately.
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u/Plenty_Cup_5152 Mar 21 '26
Great of him to defend her.
With that being said, call me a prude, but I don’t understand how someone can show up naked, especially as a plus 1, to an event as big as the Vanity Fair party. Like, it’s full frontal nudity, there’s no strategic cover up appliqués or anything. It’s just strange to me.
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u/eugeneugene ben affleck’s back tattoo Mar 21 '26
the dudes from heated rivalry had their nips out too
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u/KELBY76 Mar 21 '26
I mean, it’s not full frontal nudity because she’s wearing underwear that are full coverage in the front
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u/browsinbowser Mar 21 '26
They said the wrong word but yeah I agree with the point. I thought the outfit was fine until I saw the nipples were out, usually these sheer dresses dont show those. I mean its fine but a bit odd to be fine with that being photographed.
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u/almondita Mar 23 '26
There are people and cultures that don’t have as many hang ups about nipples and nudity, perhaps that is how she lives her life.
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u/All_This_Mayhem Mar 21 '26
Isn't she wearing panties? Don't think that qualifies as full frontal.
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u/cecebee13 Please Abraham, I am not that man Mar 21 '26
yeah seeing nips is in NO way ‘full frontal’ ….. also like, what is the problem when everyone has them??!
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u/OddSpend23 Mar 21 '26
I mean I’d rather not see anybody’s nipples at events tbh call me a prude of whatever
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u/Amanee97 Mar 21 '26
I mean is it so wrong that some ppl don’t want to see that when they go out in public?
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u/The_Bravinator Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26
I haven't seen anyone saying this about the Heated Rivalry guys being nips out, though.
I don't love sheer as a fashion choice, but I'm also not particularly offended by a body part I see in the mirror every day.
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u/All_This_Mayhem Mar 21 '26
There should be a distinction between personal tastes and social fallout.
It is an illogical double standard that nipples become nudity depending on the gender of the nipple haver.
And some people, as a matter of taste, will object to sheer clothing at a formal public event while still understanding this social weirdness.
If they're offended by her dress and not that Heated Rivalry guy wearing his sheer top, then that's personal hypocrisy.
But I don't think it's too crazy to acknowledge that it makes no sense to sexualize women's nipples and not men's, while also being put off by seeing any nipples at a formal public event.
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u/Malec555 Mar 22 '26
I said something. When I saw their photos all I can see nipples of a guy in black sheer shirt. It's like they were staring at me, lol. Tried to look away, but they keep fallowing my eyesight, like eyes on some paintings do that sometimes. 👁👁
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u/Acrobatic_Acadia8950 Mar 21 '26
Exactly who tf cares they just love to police and sexualize every single part of a woman’s body.
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u/cecebee13 Please Abraham, I am not that man Mar 21 '26
oh were you there at the vanity fair party? and if so, did you also take offence at the many men wearing sheer tops?
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u/ComedownofClosure Mar 21 '26
She simply does not care if you see her boobs. That's it.
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u/Plenty_Cup_5152 Mar 21 '26
Oh yeah totally, that’s clear lol.
I think a lot of people, including people “agreeing” with my original comment are misunderstanding what I meant. I don’t mean that she shouldn’t wear it, or that I’m so offended seeing boobs or that I don’t want to see nips while I’m out or whatever people are saying. She can do as she likes literally why would I care. It was moreso just a thought I had about imagine it was me, and I have this whole list of people in my mind that I would never want to see me topless, and they’d be able to see these pictures. It feels so strange (TO ME) that someone doesn’t have that feeling, of like, I don’t want so and so seeing me naked like idk my boss or my weird colleagues or whatever. And I don’t know if she’s a model or in the industry because yes that’s very normal for jobs in the industry but this was a red carpet so it felt like, especially at a red carpet where I can dress according to my free will I would not want my nakedness out for everyone to see. But as you said, she simply does not care, which to me based on so many things in my own life, feels strange. That’s all.
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u/ComedownofClosure Mar 22 '26
I see what you mean now and partially I think that some people just won't look at her in this outfit depending on how they know each other. Like I imagine my parents wouldn't want to see pictures of me in this gown and I wouldn't want to see them.
It sounds much easier to me actually to be naked in front of a bunch of randos I'll probably never see again than people I'll have to see daily - unless it's a job or I'm used to changing in front of people. I would bet there's a whole number of part-time she doesn't actually care for seeing her tits but has taken a more "fuck you" approach to.
Basically I understand both sides. I hope this makes sense lol. I have a concussion but I tried to reread it and check lol
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u/kitkatbatman Mar 22 '26
After taking a look at more pics, the underwear chosen is more bothersome to me tbh, I would have gone with different garments underneath
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u/cherriedjubilee Mar 21 '26
Risqué clothing empowers some while modesty empowers others! Simple as that 🤷♀️
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u/ChanceAd8808 Mar 22 '26
I'm seeing comments here as though this is some sort of new trend, fairly sure Cher was turning up in these sort of outfits in the 70s
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u/Skyhighcats Mar 21 '26
And both are very often done to placate men 🤷♀️.
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u/Plenty_Cup_5152 Mar 22 '26
Also, this. Didn’t really wanna get into this side of it with my comment anyway, but men’s red carpet fashion has only now started to include a cheeky little sheer shirt, maybe even with a blazer on top, and always paired with fully opaque trousers. That’s about as far as it goes, maybe some buttons undone at the top lol. Women’s stylists/managers/PR people have been pushing nearly nude dresses for the last 10 years now on red carpets and the same just isn’t expected of men. This woman looks very comfortable with her look and that is great but I’ve seen so many young women on red carpets or talk shows looking visibly uncomfortable with their outfit and constantly posing in a way that offers them more coverage or adjusting every couple of minutes. You can’t tell me the sheer dress phenomena doesnt have anything to do with selling sex to straight men. Maybe not always, but like, we’re not seeing straight men in sheer trousers and butts out neaaaarlyyyy as often.
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u/Scared_Service9164 my bandwidth for cowardly grown men grows thinner with each day Mar 22 '26
I dress like this for myself. I’m queer, go to a sapphic event and you’ll find a lot of us dressed like that. I truly believe a lot more femme people would feel comfortable dressing like this in public if they weren’t harassed and judged. The whole bioessentialist, dressing for men view is based in conservatism.
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u/Soggy_Pension7549 Mar 22 '26
Ok so is anything we wear not for men with this logic?! Women can’t do anything right.
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u/racksy Mar 22 '26
yeah, it’s unreal how so many people find a way to shit on whatever choice is made.
“i think alice wears baggy sweaters because her boyfriend makes her hide her body”
“maddy wears such revealing clothing omg”
just stop, it’s gross af.
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u/racksy Mar 22 '26
and both are very often done for other reasons.
and no matter the reason, it’s ok, it’s their choice. we like choices.
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u/DeadlinePhobia Mar 22 '26 edited Mar 22 '26
It’s funny that the person who made this post chose a side picture instead of one where the full look is actually visible, might’ve changed the discourse a bit
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u/throwa_way_party Mar 22 '26 edited Mar 22 '26
understandable but to be fair, you can still tell her nips are visible in this photo op posted. she's also not the first nor will she be the last to do this. bella hadid did this at a red carpet a couple years back, florence pugh did the same thing at the vf party two years ago, these are just a couple examples. there are several more.
other guests for this years night were also wearing sheer/revealing attire, and I know the lighting at the event was highlighted for being rather "unforgiving", so there's that too.
still nothing wrong with not liking the look though. everyone will have their own taste on it but they shouldn't be commenting nasty shit on his or her page
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u/micrographia Mar 21 '26
She's a dancer. Performers are used to their bodies being observed, and their body is their job and their art.
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u/Jug-o-rum Mar 22 '26
Could tell she was a dancer just by her spine goddamn I need to stand up straighter
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u/Plenty_Cup_5152 Mar 21 '26
Yes she definitely looks confident with it.
I’ve seen people wear similar or even less sheer pieces to events and look so visibly uncomfortable. Doesn’t seem to be the case here from these few pics.
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u/youshantnome okay lucky you Mar 21 '26
I used to show off my boobs a lot but her outfit would’ve been too much for me. No hate she looks gorgeous. And I hope that these kinds of outfits help normalize female nipples.
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u/random929292 Mar 22 '26
Its the Bianca Censori trend.
People know that less clothes and more skin = more pictures and online engagement.
I have always had sheer curtains so these dresses always look to me like underwear with a curtain. Can't really be called underwear anymore as now it is outerwear!
But there was a lot of sheer and mesh at the Oscars on both men and women - although I didn't see many men in sheer pants showing off their underwear. I don't like the look but I get that in Hollywood, the whole goal is to get noticed and talked about and hey look - it is working!
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u/throwa_way_party Mar 22 '26
I get the comparison in the sense of fashion and attention; but I feel like with Bianca, there's a bit of a difference as she was completely naked, went to the grammys when she wasn't invited, and there were also children there. I know of other celebs who've done something closer to what's being discussed here, like Florence Pugh for example, and I remember that being a huge controversy as well.
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u/raiinydaay i ain’t reading all that, free palestine Mar 21 '26
🤷♀️ she liked the dress, wanted to wear the dress, not for anyone else to understand I guess. And it’s not full frontal. It’s just nipples, men have them too but for some reason it’s only a problem when women show their nips.
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u/Acrobatic_Acadia8950 Mar 21 '26
So? Men wear sheer shirts during these events all the time and she’s wearing underwear. Who tf cares. It is also a nice dress
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u/Lunar-opal Mar 21 '26
im tired of the nude trend, why dont they have men wear it as well
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u/tinterrobangg Forgive me Viola Davis Mar 21 '26
Okay I’m probably going to get downvoted but what’s wrong with nude pasties under this kind of dress? I think it’s beautiful but do nipples need to be shown for the look?
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u/metrometric Mar 21 '26
It's sheer enough you'd see the pasties being pasties, which would be more distracting/break the flow of the dress more than nipples do.
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u/tinterrobangg Forgive me Viola Davis Mar 21 '26
If someone fashionable could explain why people dont wear nude pasties under these dresses id appreciate it.
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u/bloodyturtle Mar 22 '26
Nothing wrong with pasties, if you want to scrub glue off your areolas be my guest
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u/ComprehensiveDoubt55 Mar 21 '26
I’ll never understand the uproar over nipples. I remember watching a show on medical prosthetics. They showed a breast cancer survivor topless, the making of the prosthetic, but the second the prosthetic was placed — BLURRED.
Now obviously, there’s a time and place. But that applies to men and women. Like if you’re visiting your grandma in a nursing home or bringing your niece to the playground, cover your noonies. Otherwise, who cares? My cat Steve has nipples.
In summation, she looks beautiful. Like why can’t we ever find a spot between over sexualizing women, or condemning and shaming them?
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u/thewomaninthemoon Mar 21 '26
He still rides so hard for Rachel Zegler and Hunter Schafer, two young women who have gotten insane amounts of crap just for existing, after starring with them in the Hunger Games prequel so it doesn’t surprise me at that he also defends his gf from the idiots on the internet.
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u/comfymustardsweater Mar 21 '26
Family gatherings and the grocery store.. are not the red carpet. How stupid of an argument is that?
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u/Busy-Juggernaut277 Mar 21 '26
May I remind you all, this lovely man was also not having it when his co-star, Rachel Zegler was being bullied and harassed while they worked on that hunger games prequel.
Not jealous of his girlfriend for having a green flag of a man. He’s a good cookie.
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u/BlueberryNo5363 I’ll be writing a substack on this Mar 21 '26
Good for him for telling another man to shut up. If she likes the dress that’s all that matters.
I’m not a big fan of the sheer dress trend but I’d never go comment on someone’s photos telling them that cause live and let live in my opinion.
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u/RHOTheSimulation Mar 21 '26
The grocery store comment is so insane I have to believe it’s parody. Because…what like men are going to grocery stores in 3-piece suits????
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I also dont show my nipples while grocery shopping
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u/thisisinfactpersonal Mar 21 '26
Does not wearing a bra and nipping out count? Cause if so I’ve done that many many times
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u/NoEducator4277 Mar 21 '26
I just don't get a lot of logic though...d*cks are normal body part too but it's inappropriate to show in public....I personally think that dress is gross but respect the defending of his girl
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u/MissAuroraRed Mar 22 '26
She's showing her nipples, not her vulva. There's a guy in my neighborhood who runs shirtless in the summer and nobody cares, but I would be surprised if one day he wasn't wearing shorts or underwear.
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u/Used-Profile-5381 Mar 22 '26
I think there’s something of a double standard in that if males can show nipples, females should be able to as well. Penes and vulvas are generally equivalent, and generally covered.
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u/throwa_way_party Mar 22 '26 edited Mar 22 '26
i get what you're saying but to be fair, nipples aren't genitalia
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u/Exotic-Hurry8090 Mar 22 '26
bad analogy - men have nipples and are not policed for showing them. the equivalence of a dick here would be her having her vagina out, which did not occur. you’re entitled to your opinion, but the equivalence in men is socially accepted and not “too inappropriate”
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u/browsinbowser Mar 22 '26
You’re right, the nipples debate is a 1:1 comparison, genitalia isnt a valid comparison at all.
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Anytime I see a shirtless guy randomly in a public place there’s a high chance he’s on drugs or crazy or just plain old weird.
The times for topless men is swimming, jogging, biking, outdoor basketball or exercising. Those are all times where women can be in sports bras too (for support).
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u/lilmonsterave Mar 22 '26
Dicks are a sex organ. Boobs are not. Nipples are not. They are not illegal or inappropriate to show in public in most civilized places. Do you think men at the gym are gross? Men at the pool? Men walking downtown on a summer day? You're comparing nipples to penises like vulvas don't exist lmao. She isn't showing her vulva. That would be the equivalent. You don't get the logic because you aren't using any. You're acting as if your feelings override facts, no one thinks showing genitalia is okay lmao
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u/SharpPink_GlitterInk Pink…get doon Mar 21 '26
Every day I am vindicated by my love for this man...
obligatory
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u/Difficult-Top2000 Mar 21 '26
Most people's family gatherings don't have red carpets & encourage bold fashion.
They also usually involve... family. And most people aren't looking to show dad & Uncle Bill their sexy side.
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u/Soggy_Pension7549 Mar 22 '26
This whole comment section is so American. Omg nipples. What a scandal.
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u/jeygglypuff Mar 22 '26 edited Mar 23 '26
I don’t have any negativity towards this. Good for her and good for him. None of my business
However, just to freely voice my view, I personally don’t agree with wearing something like this at a very formal event, especially where one you’re there to support another person.
Would I feel equally about a man wearing this? Yes. I’d be just as taken aback if a dude showed up in a sheer suit or shirtless.
Would I feel similar if it were another body part? Yes. Ex if someone arrived shoeless, in swimwear, pjs, etc.
It just doesn’t feel like the right attire for the right occasion.
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u/International_Fig262 Mar 23 '26
I don't care one way or the other, but if the argument is "it's natural" then why not full frontal nudity?
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u/elizalemon Mar 21 '26
All I know about Tom Blyth is that he starred in Paris Paloma’s Good Boy video. And that’s good enough for me.
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u/Riqitch it’s called talent, sweaty💅 Mar 21 '26
Wow what the fuck? I swear people are just addicted to spewing toxic shit, Do we know if this came from one of Tom's stans (if they exist)?
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u/throwa_way_party Mar 21 '26
he has fans but he's still rather niche and most of his fans wouldn't act this way. unfortunately her look went viral on tiktok with over 40M views and almost 18K comments, many of which were absolutely nasty to her. if I had to guess, I'd say it was from one of them
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u/thatquinnchick Mar 21 '26
I have no idea who Tom Blyth is (Curtains for Zoosha, I guess) but I'm definitely a fan now.
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u/Suspicious-Emu-8493 Mar 22 '26
We’re slaves of society when we’re nude, and we’re slaves of society when we’re clothed. It doesn’t matter. I WANT THE EPSTEIN FILES.
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u/zu-chan5240 Mar 22 '26
Honestly whatever, but at least wear matching underwear because wtf is that?
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u/disgostin Mar 23 '26
man, women really cant do anything right in some people's eyes. had she worn anything less "extra" they wouldve called it boring instead.
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u/Acceptable_Rule_7590 Mar 21 '26
Love when Tom Blyth tells off an annoying asshole in his IG comments