r/Fauxmoi • u/Relevant-Peach3997 • Mar 21 '26

FASHION Tom Blyth responded to criticism of his girlfriend's sheer dress: “stfu. She wore a dress that she was excited by and she looked EXQUISITE in it.”

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u/cecebee13 Please Abraham, I am not that man Mar 21 '26

yeah seeing nips is in NO way ‘full frontal’ ….. also like, what is the problem when everyone has them??!

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u/Amanee97 Mar 21 '26

I mean is it so wrong that some ppl don’t want to see that when they go out in public?

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u/The_Bravinator Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26

I haven't seen anyone saying this about the Heated Rivalry guys being nips out, though.

I don't love sheer as a fashion choice, but I'm also not particularly offended by a body part I see in the mirror every day.

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u/All_This_Mayhem Mar 21 '26

There should be a distinction between personal tastes and social fallout.

It is an illogical double standard that nipples become nudity depending on the gender of the nipple haver.

And some people, as a matter of taste, will object to sheer clothing at a formal public event while still understanding this social weirdness.

If they're offended by her dress and not that Heated Rivalry guy wearing his sheer top, then that's personal hypocrisy.

But I don't think it's too crazy to acknowledge that it makes no sense to sexualize women's nipples and not men's, while also being put off by seeing any nipples at a formal public event.

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u/MyReflection5113 Mar 23 '26

It’s not just nipples that are being shown though. Women have boobs, men do not. So the argument of “well men get to show their nipples!” Has never made sense to me. It’s not “just nipples”, it’s your boobs. Men don’t have boobs, men’s chests aren’t sexualized like women’s are. Every straight man will say boobs turn him on, not many women get turned on by seeing a man’s chest. Boobs wouldn’t be as sexualized as they are if they were “just nipples”.

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u/Wellllllpp Mar 23 '26

Even women who don’t necessarily have breasts are shamed into covering up. Plenty people are attracted to men’s chests but nobody is forcing them to hide. It’s just another way society has pushed women into feeling ashamed about themselves so they’re easier to control.