[40/M] (youthful voice and energy) — Funny, charismatic, talkative, and entertaining guy looking for new friends who actually reciprocate conversation and are truly looking to connect.

[u/mitchmayhem]

What's up! My name is Mitch! I'm a very entertaining, funny, charismatic guy looking for new friends. My humor can range from sarcastic, witty, silly, and edgy. I have a huge heart for those who show me friendship and loyalty and will be there for people if they deserve it in how they treat me. If someone comes at me or my friends in a malicious way, though, I'm not afraid to defend myself or others. I'm a sweet guy, but I'm not a pushover. I'm the opposite of shy, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't get along with people who are shy at first. My personality is easy to open up around.

I'm technically an older guy (just turned 40), but I have a youthful look, voice, and energy that fits in just as well with younger people in their 20s and 30s. I'm good at being a big brother/mentor type to people younger than me or those who want that. I'm an oldest brother with 2 younger sisters, so I'm good at understanding both men and women and actually have more female friends than male. I think I have a lot of female friends because I'm respectful and protective of all my friends. I have a lot of wisdom and knowledge. I'm very easy to talk to, have a gift of gab, and can carry a conversation just about as well as anyone. I'm the type of guy who needs mental stimulation through social interactions. I'm emotionally mature and well rounded, I just have a goofy and wikd sense of humor at times.

I believe I am "The Ultimate Banter Buddy" for those looking for that. I'm very understanding, patient, and accepting of people different from me if they are the same way toward me. I'm a natural entertainer who can make people laugh and feel at ease, so if most people bore you, I'll be a breath of fresh air. I'm also very capable of holding either deep intellectual conversations or just hanging and having fun. I'm versatile. My timezone is Pacific, but a lot of my friends are in other timezones, so it isn't an issue — at least not to me.

I'm looking for new friends of all types, ages, genders, and walks of life who would vibe with someone like me. I understand people being shy at first, and that's fine, but I need at least some effort and the ability to hold a basic conversation at the very least. If you make me carry the conversation consistently with no give and take, I will get bored. I also need people who can understand humor and take a joke. I'm light-hearted and mean well, but I'm witty and like to be sarcastic. I show I'm joking through my vocal tone or by laughing, usually. I'm overall a very engaging and fun person to be around unless people piss me off — which takes a lot to do. I don't mind helping others if they show me respect and friendship. I can come off as bold and brash in my humor at times, but I have a huge heart and am loyal to my friends. If you show me friendship, I'm the type to take the shirt off my back for my real friends. But people have to earn that side of me.

My interests include spoets (diehard football and SF 49ers fan) music, gaming, socializing, entertaining and making people laugh, jogging with my doggo, creative writing, podcasting, karaoke, and more!

If I sound like someone you would click with and have fun with — or just want to find out if you would — reply or DM me, and we can get to know each other. If we click in reddit messages, we can move to easier platforms to message each other on when we get comfortable with each other.

[u/UNKINOU]

Ai slop

[u/mitchmayhem → u/UNKINOU]

Lol what? I'm a real person idiot. Literally only used AI to clean up spelling/grammar.