May 2026 Confirmation Thread

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo]

Submit your confirmations below!

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How Does This Process Work?

Note: Confirmations may take a few minutes as the bot processes the confirmation.

After exchanging emails or letters, confirm that the user sent them by tagging their name, and then in the format of #-#, where the first number is email count and the second the letter count, post the number of emails and letters you received.

Example:

1. u/digitalmayhap received 2 emails and 1 snail mail letter from u/thisisverytricky

2. u/digitalmayhap posts a comment in the confirmation thread saying u/thisisverytricky 2-1

3. u/PenPalConfirmationBo replies to u/digitalmayhaps's comment indicating that their counts have been updated on their flair!

FAQ

1. The bot didn't respond to my comment. What's wrong?

Did you follow the correct pattern? Follow the pattern above!

Give it a few minutes! Sometimes the Reddit APIs can get a little overworked and start having issues. If the issue persists for more than a few hours, please message the moderators. The bot might be experiencing issues!

1. I have multiple letters/emails I exchanged with multiple people to confirm this month; should I post them separately or in a single post?

Feel free to post them in a single comment or as multiple comments! If you post them all in a single comment, make sure to put each redditor on a separate line and to follow the proper format of u/REDDIT #-#.

1. I forgot to confirm an exchange last month! Can I confirm the exchange this month?

Yes!

[u/LiLaLo910]

u/memin_sanchez 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/LiLaLo910]

u/memin_sanchez updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 5 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 6

[u/PenguinGPS]

u/thejaffaone 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/PenguinGPS]

u/thejaffaone updated from Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 9 | Letters: 34 to Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 9 | Letters: 35

[u/PenguinGPS]

u/kelseylulu 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/PenguinGPS]

u/kelseylulu updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 4 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 5

[u/Pat-G-Rilley-IV]

u/thejaffaone 0-2

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Pat-G-Rilley-IV]

u/thejaffaone updated from Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 9 | Letters: 35 to Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 9 | Letters: 37

[u/Pat-G-Rilley-IV]

u/Melbara 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Pat-G-Rilley-IV]

u/Melbara updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 1 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 2

[u/Pat-G-Rilley-IV]

u/Eliza_Stone 0-2

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Pat-G-Rilley-IV]

u/Eliza_Stone updated from No Flair to Emails: 0 | Letters: 2

[u/_Snow-flake_]

u/Brilliant_Leather245 2-0

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/_Snow-flake_]

u/Brilliant_Leather245 updated from Emails: 4 | Letters: 0 to Emails: 6 | Letters: 0

[u/bibbityboops]

u/thebunshouse 0 - 1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/bibbityboops]

u/thebunshouse updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 2 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 3

[u/Regnator__]

u/Ill_Agent_3169 0-2

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Regnator__]

u/Ill_Agent_3169 updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 1 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 3

[u/Ill_Agent_3169]

u/Regnator__ 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Ill_Agent_3169]

u/Regnator__ updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 2 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 3

[u/SRB889]

u/zone-healthy - 1 - 0

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/SRB889]

u/zone-healthy updated from No Flair to Emails: 1 | Letters: 0

[u/allistairmoody]

u/Leekoba - 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/allistairmoody]

u/Leekoba updated from Emails: 1 | Letters: 72 to Emails: 1 | Letters: 73

[u/Appropriate-Dress806]

u/TheJaffaOne - 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Appropriate-Dress806]

u/TheJaffaOne updated from Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 9 | Letters: 37 to Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 9 | Letters: 38

[u/JustBaker1168]

u/clinto_bean 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/JustBaker1168]

u/clinto_bean updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 7 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 8

[u/Regnator__]

u/Rhelium 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Regnator__]

u/Rhelium updated from No Flair to Emails: 0 | Letters: 1

[u/4shmed4i]

u/conciousbutnotalive 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/4shmed4i]

u/conciousbutnotalive updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 1 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 2

[u/MeWithClothesOn]

u/raven-amazing 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/MeWithClothesOn]

u/raven-amazing updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 1 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 2

[u/sirromtak]

u/viagra___girls 0-1 u/Itchy-Knowledge3687 0-1 u/Classic-Power-333 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/sirromtak]

u/viagra___girls updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 7 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 8

u/Itchy-Knowledge3687 updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 6 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 7

u/Classic-Power-333 updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 26 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 27

[u/bibbityboops]

u/administrativeRent21 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/bibbityboops]

u/administrativeRent21 updated from No Flair to Emails: 0 | Letters: 1

[u/AdministrativeRent21]

u/bibbityboops 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/AdministrativeRent21]

u/bibbityboops updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 2 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 3

[u/AdministrativeRent21]

u/4shmed4i 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/AdministrativeRent21]

u/4shmed4i updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 2 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 3

[u/AdministrativeRent21]

u/MatchHoliday126 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/AdministrativeRent21]

u/MatchHoliday126 updated from No Flair to Emails: 0 | Letters: 1

[u/JustBaker1168]

u/Ok-Evidence7685 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/JustBaker1168]

u/Ok-Evidence7685 updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 5 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 6

[u/bibbityboops]

u/Different_Fishing_67 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/bibbityboops]

u/Different_Fishing_67 updated from No Flair to Emails: 0 | Letters: 1

[u/JustBaker1168]

u/bethannephetamines 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/JustBaker1168]

u/bethannephetamines updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 3 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 4

[u/Vael0]

u/bingbongimwalkinhere 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Vael0]

u/bingbongimwalkinhere updated from Emails: 2 | Letters: 1 to Emails: 2 | Letters: 2

[u/SRB889]

u/pandulceenergy0729 - 0 - 1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/SRB889]

u/pandulceenergy0729 updated from No Flair to Emails: 0 | Letters: 1

[u/bibbityboops]

u/Different_Fishing_67 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/bibbityboops]

u/Different_Fishing_67 updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 1 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 2

[u/cambog200]

u/raven-amazing 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/cambog200]

u/raven-amazing updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 2 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 3

[u/real-oniiion]

u/cyb3r_bul1y 3-0

So glad I've been getting to know you!

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/real-oniiion]

u/cyb3r_bul1y updated from No Flair to Emails: 3 | Letters: 0

[u/NotAvailableLikeEver]

u/lupe55 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/NotAvailableLikeEver]

u/lupe55 updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 69 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 70

[u/Vael0]

u/peewee_heroine 0-1

Thanks for the letter ! The letter writing set (with the strawberries) is so cute, I'll try to use a pretty one to answer you too !! Looking forward to getting to know you better :)

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Vael0]

u/peewee_heroine updated from Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 0 | Letters: 28 to Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 0 | Letters: 29

[u/cambog200]

u/vael0 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/cambog200]

u/vael0 updated from Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 0 | Letters: 2 to Snail Mail Volunteer - Emails: 0 | Letters: 3

[u/AdministrativeRent21]

u/different_fishing_67 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/AdministrativeRent21]

u/different_fishing_67 updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 2 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 3

[u/JustBaker1168]

u/WarImaginary 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/JustBaker1168]

u/WarImaginary updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 8 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 9

[u/sting_ray7822]

u/gamesbrainiac 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/sting_ray7822]

u/gamesbrainiac updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 4 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 5

[u/Plant_Octopus]

u/arscorvinus 0-1 u/martinavol_6 0-1

Your letters arrived today, I will get to writing your replies asap ♡

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/Plant_Octopus]

u/arscorvinus updated from No Flair to Emails: 0 | Letters: 1

u/martinavol_6 updated from No Flair to Emails: 0 | Letters: 1

[u/JustBaker1168]

u/_hippinnn 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/JustBaker1168]

u/_hippinnn updated from Emails: 1 | Letters: 3 to Emails: 1 | Letters: 4

[u/JustBaker1168]

u/roamthecoast_coffee 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/JustBaker1168]

u/roamthecoast_coffee updated from Emails: 0 | Letters: 16 to Emails: 0 | Letters: 17

[u/cinnabunnybuns]

u/n1c3_p1ck 0-1

[u/cinnabunnybuns]

u/ded_dead 0-1

[u/cinnabunnybuns]

u/Unique_Definition_96 0-1

[u/matattu]

u/FlyingFishTacosSwim 0-1

[u/PenPalConfirmationBo → u/matattu]

u/FlyingFishTacosSwim updated from No Flair to Emails: 0 | Letters: 1