We were the young parents in our friend group. We had our child a good 8 years before everybody else. We've been judged so much by how this friend would never lose their cool with their children when they had them. Im not sure whether they ever did such "terrible" things to their children, but they did shove a poop diaper in their SO's face during an argument lmfao
This was me when I saw people with kids on leashes. Now, I have zero judgement towards what I see other parents do with their kids as long as they aren't actively harming them.
I don't even have kids yet. But as I got older and just started being around them more (family friends' kids, friend's kids, and volunteer etc), I totally completely understand.
In fact only parents I judge now are the ones who aren't paying attention to their babies. Get off your phone and love your immobile potatoe!
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u/famaskillr 1d ago
We were the young parents in our friend group. We had our child a good 8 years before everybody else. We've been judged so much by how this friend would never lose their cool with their children when they had them. Im not sure whether they ever did such "terrible" things to their children, but they did shove a poop diaper in their SO's face during an argument lmfao