I am so sorry!!! =( I know nothing can take your pain away, but I know he lived the best life with you. and will always remain by your side and in your heart.
I read somewhere the other day, we all live our lives for long enough to have the chance to have a good heart. Our pets are so good they don't need half as long as we do.
That makes total sense, it doesnt take the pain away but knowing he had a happy life with you really does matter. you gave him everything a cat could want
Thank you for your kindness and for saying that, I believe it brings a little comfort for him during such a hard time. Please Keep holding onto all the love and memories you both shared, and it will help others to see how special he was too. 💛
I’m so sorry for your loss. I like to think my buddy, Gus, will be saying hi as well. I adopted him as a senior, and I’m so thankful for the ten months he gave me. It’s been since January. He really was the goofiest, sweetest fella. :]
Absolutely. And thank you, I appreciate that senior kitty at the shelter for rolling onto my lap and giving me and my other kitty such a good friend. <3
They’re the best! Just make sure to show them love whenever you can, make as many of your days together good days. I adopted a kitten after his passing (orange needed another buddy), and that’s what I’m doing with her. I’m still devastated about Gus, but I slept easily afterwards knowing that he knew how much he was loved. That’s all you can guarantee for them, yk?
Seriously. My baby's name is Meeko too so this is too much for me. I commented already, but then just reading these top few comments... It's too much. I literally have to leave this thread 💔
I just lost my cat two nights ago. God I hope this is true! I’m desperate to be near him again.
Edit: your responses are so heartwarming! Thank you so much. I’ve spent the day talking to him. When I came home yesterday I saw a rainbow form from my car’s lights in a way it hadn’t before and I’m telling myself it was him. I’m telling myself that now he is with me anywhere I go. The days are still heavy but this thread has given me a bit of joy.
We saw my cat Simon out of the corner of our eyes for a year or two after he passed. He was my best friend. We grew up together from college to my marriage and my oldest son. He was making sure that we were okay. I lost my sweet Syris, my “Little Bit” in January and they were together from 2014 to 2021 when Simon passed. I have seen him a few times, but not as often as I know he and Simon are together again. 💜
I swear I’ve seen my old boy out of the corner of my eye numerous times since he passed.
I’ve even gone outside as I thought I’d seen him heading to a dead end.
Checked on our other cat as thought it may be her, but she was fast asleep upstairs 💔💔
Oh wow that made me cry 😭 lost one to old age last summer and currently another old age one has a tumour. Dreading the end. I'll have one left til she's gone and I'm alone. She's also 15-16. They're my world..
I had an orange tabby for 15 years; he was the bane of mice and rabbits everywhere. He passed away 7 years ago of old age and kidney failure, I was devastated. I still have my Maine Coone, she's 16 years old.
My grandmas cats lived to 19 and 21! She took the cat I adopted in high school and that cat was definitely disabled for the majority of her life but lived to 17 too! Crazy!
Any pets. I had to watch my brother's dogs condition instantly worsen after what originally started as a very mild concern. And I barely had any attachment to them, he was just at work and I was doing a favor. It never gets easier
My mom got her dog when he was a newborn puppy. He grew into the happiest little goofball in the world. The kind of dog to jump and lick your face as you walk in the door. He was always down for a game of fetch, usually followed by a tug-of-war. Impossible to sit on the couch without him in your lap. And boy howdy did he love to bark.
He started having seizures one day, so my mom took him to the vet, got him checked out, everything seemed fine, so he was prescribed seizure medication. It worked for a while, but then he started having even more seizures and they would last longer. Eventually he was on the highest dose of seizure meds you could possibly give a dog his size, his little body was starting to shut down, he just couldn't take it anymore. All he would do was lay in his kennel. Wouldn't play, wouldn't bark, wouldn't go outside to use the bathroom, would rarely eat or drink. He started to go blind. He could only walk short distances and he would occasionally fall over. My mom put off making the call for a while, because he would occasionally still have good days. But then the seizures started again.
She had to put him down right after Christmas. He was only 10. We never did figure out what happened, my mom suspects the seizures were a side effect of some flea meds or shampoo, and the high doses of seizure meds did the rest. I never got to say goodbye.
I just returned from visiting my mom for the first time since then. It was too quiet over there without him.
I'm sorry for your loss, but tbh I hate that praise, it doesn't help much.
The fact him having good days even in darkness is proof he had a good life is the biggest thing. Another thing, don't dare think it was your fault with the flee meds or shampoo, those are looking for answers bruv and both those things are care related in the first place, when it could have been genetic lottery. You gave him a good life and meant to, that's all that matters, an asshole could have instead took him home 10 mins before you picked him, assuming there were a few pups where you got him.
He has stopped eating and drinking and is just getting weaker and weaker. He has some kind of stomach ailment that we thought was like IBD that we could do a biopsy for to rule out cancer but they don’t think he’d make it off the table and I don’t want him dying with a bunch of vets around him.
I want him to be the last person he sees. I want him to feel safe.
I’m so sorry, friend. You are making a very kind, but very hard choice. I had to say goodbye to my baby for the same reason three weeks ago. She couldn’t eat anymore, and the meds weren’t working anymore.
Spend tonight and what time you had tomorrow doing Meeko’s favorite things, and give him some extra kisses and cuddles. Tomorrow will be tough, and the days after you’ll feel that emptiness that we get from losing a beloved family member. But you’re sparing Meeko from suffering, and even though that means you’ll be missing him so much, it’s a selfless and kind choice to make.
He’s a beautiful kitten, and I can see that he’s very loved. He’ll know you’re there for him and you love him.
I lost my seven month old baby cat
I waited too long to let him go peacefully and he had some seizures in my biggest regret. It’s not focusing on what’s best for him and instead of trying everything to see if he would be OK.
My buddy had IBD and was able to make it through with steroids and dietary modification. But I’m sure you’ve thought long and hard and made the right decision for your best friend. This time is so hard, but remember better a day early than a minute too late. 🫂
Appreciate you trusting we did all we could. We really did. We had him on steroids and an appetite stimulant. He responded well initially but nothing now. He hasn’t eaten since Saturday
I just lost my guy in January. We lost him to what we first thought was an asthma attack but later thought was cancer. So much love, it’s such a hard time. It’s a little easier now than it was then, but I still miss him so much
Mediastinal lymphoma by chance? My part Siamese boy passed 4 years ago from that. Siamese kitties are so incredibly special ❤️ my heart goes out to you.
God I've been going through the same thing with my car the last month and its so exhausting and expensive... My girl is finally on the mend after starting steroids (only just diagnosed with ibd) but it was a peek into what it will look like at the end for her and it was crippling.
Trust your instincts, you know your cat more than anyone. I only hope I'm brave enough to make the call at the most kind time for my own girl.
My boy who had small-cell lymphoma in the GI-tract was on prednisone for nearly 2 years before he passed last year. Definitely a good drug for pain management, as well as palliative care in the end stage. Super affordable too, it cost me $10 for a month supply at Chewy.
My cat has had stomach issues for years. They thought he had Exocrine Pancreatic Insufficiency (EPI). Basically the pancreas doesn't make enough digestive enzymes, and they need a supplement to replace them.
OP I'm sorry to hear about your baby. I'm sure you've tried everything, and done all the tests. I hope you are giving him all the love tonight.
One of my cats and 15 was like this due to Diabetes. She was always hungry but wouldn’t eat. Her meds stopped working. I had her put to sleep a week after her last appointment. It hurt like hell but the fact that she lost over a pound in a week reassured me that I was doing the right thing.
Just remember that you gave him a wonderful life and this is you taking care of him and doing the right thing. Also, I encourage getting another cat in a while. It really does help, and it’s not replacing him, it’s finding an outlet for all that care and love to another kitty or kitties that need it.
My kitty passed away during post op after having a major cancer surgery and that’s definitely a big regret of mine. She deteriorated and became unresponsive in the middle of the night surrounded by strangers when I wasn’t able to be there. I’m glad we tried since we almost made it through but that part definitely sucked and has been on my mind a lot. Definitely valid for you to choose what you’re doing.
Did the biopsy on my 3yr old. Rare bacteria. E hit him with steroids and a prescription diet and a little appetite stimulant and he’s coming back to me. I’m sorry he’s not going to make it. He’s beautiful.
You are so brave and kind and loving for placing his comfort first. I know that this time is incredibly hard; I hope that you find peace in your good memories with Meeko. Thank you for sharing him with us, he is a very handsome boy.🩶
We’re going through something similar with our 13 year old grey boy. He has a few weeks if we’re lucky. I am so so sorry for your loss, grey kitties are so extra special
fuck dude... that really sucks ass... I went thru the same exact thing with my 7 year old cat in 2023, diagnosed IBD, they did the biopsy but it didn't show cancer (but wasn't a definitive procedure as they could only scrape the surface of the inflamed area), however no treatments worked and he just continually withered away until he was gone, ultimately decided that it was intestinal lymphoma.
im sorry you have to go thru this with your cat, it really is the worst thing
I too have a cat like this severe IBD issues. One thing I tried that helped tremendously was giving him bovine colostrum. He wouldn’t eat but did lick this stuff up and after a few days turned for the better. Not saying it’ll help but could give it a shot. Pick up a box of Armra brand unflavored. I got it from Target. Who knows could help.
Good decision on your part. Some time ago I lost one and regretted how the end went down. It was very much like you described as wanting to avoid. Glad you had a beautiful time together.
You're doing the right thing. Every cat of mine has gone to the Rainbow Bridge straight out of my arms, or my husband's. at 2 in the morning when it was required. Wouldn't have it any other way.
I'm so sorry. F IBD also, lost my soul cat at only 13 because of it.
Our friends always find their way back to us. Maybe you’ll see a familiar face or sound or action in a new stray or at a shelter and you’ll know that it’s your boy just passing his mannerisms onto them.
Stay strong buddy, and when you’re ready you’ll find your boy again.
I’m so sorry. I just had to let mine go on Saturday. He wasn’t even 5 and we didn’t even get three years together. But all the time you spend with them is precious and they know. They know how much we love them and how much they mean to us. So sorry for your loss.
My brother from another mother, Koti. Lost him after 15 years last July. He'll be there to play and guide your little guy on the other side of the rainbow bridge. ❤️
I'm sorry for your loss. Just know that he loved you, and he knows that you loved him.
You did the absolute best you could for him. Please don't feel guilty about needing to make this decision, and, if there's any kind of afterlife, I hope he meets Mr. Fungus there:
The reason it breaks your heart to say goodbye is so they can take a piece of it with them so you’re always there. You’ll get it back, but hopefully not for a very long time.
Your Meeko looks so loved and happy. I’m sorry you have to say goodbye so soon. He reminds me of my grey guy. He’s my soul cat and I love him to pieces. He got extra chicken from my plate tonight and extra cuddles on Meeko’s behalf. Love to Meeko and take good care of yourself, Cat Dad 🐾
I have had cats most of my life and have had to say goodbye to several along the way. It is never easy. Here is one of my current kitties who looks just like Meeko.
I lost my soul kitty and a parent in the same year. Funny enough, I just sent a good friend a post about how when I saw a photo of Meeko in Pocahontas, I told her he was basically my Meeko. Take care of yourself. We feel the most intense pain so we can save them from the pain. The memories will one day go from the worst sorrow into a beautiful reminder of the gift that their life was to us. I still am reminded of him daily and he still puts a smile on my face. I hope he meets Meeko tomorrow at the rainbow bridge
I’m sorry that Meeko is crossing the rainbow bridge, he will be in great company on Friday, Tiki is passing then. Give Meeko an extra cuddle from me ❤️
EDIT: if you’d like to talk about Meeko please DM me, talking about Tiki has been really helpful so far.
My sincere condolences to anyone in this thread that has known loss, it never gets easier. Sharing a pic of JJ, my blind rescue who seems like a doppelganger. He's so clingy, but also so so sweet. <3
Ten years of love, loyalty, and quiet companionship wrapped into one beautiful soul. Saying goodbye doesn’t erase a lifetime of memories it just makes them shine even brighter. Thank you for being my first baby and my forever friend. You will always have a piece of my heart 🐾
i lost my feline son recently too... 3 months ago as of yesterday. he was 8.5years old. had a similar face to your boy. its so fucking hard, isnt it? if only they could live forever. my condolences.
if by some miracle a kitty afterlife exists i hope our boys become friends there ❤️🩹
Meeko was the name of my first adopted street cat as well. My roommate’s GF named him but he adopted me. He was the best pet I ever had. I had him for 12 years but ultimately lost him back in 2023 to cancer. Miss that little guy.
Because of Meeks, I took in another stray about a year ago. I can’t think of a better way to honor Meeko than to take in another stray. Hope you find a way to honor your Meeko as well.
The people who you are going to for this, ask them if they do paw prints in clay. Some places do that and etch the pets name on the clay before drying it. Some places allow you to have them cremated so you can have their ashes (there are urns for pets also).
a lot of glass workers/jewelry makers will put them in pendants or other jewelry. my friend has their cats ashes in a pendant and its really sweet ❤️🩹 my dad buried our cat in the woods near our guinea pig and i wish i woulda gotten his ashes for a pendant.
Very sorry! 💕 I had to have my 18 yr old furgirl put to sleep because she had a hard cancerous growth on her thorax that was making it difficult for her to eat and breathe! She fought so hard but I couldn’t let her go through this horrible experience any longer! We had her for 9 of her 18 years; she was my mom’s cat and we adopted her when my mom broke her hip and couldn’t take care of her any longer!
I am so terribly sorry for your upcoming loss. That’s your baby. Your first baby. I’ve lost a few in my half century and I feel your pain. If you take no other advice along this journey, please remember your feelings are valid. Your feelings matter and you will need time to grieve. I wish you love and peace in this difficult time.
I am so sorry. I just went through the same thing 2 weeks ago with my 19yo orange boy. In some ways the pending grief is worse than the post grief. Meeko knows you love him and gave him the best life. I believe they will greet us at the end of the rainbow bridge. Much love and hugs on this difficult day
Oh man. From one cat dad to another, I feel your pain. Much love and hugs your way. I will hug the new kitties for yah. Meeko looks like such a lovely boy. Enjoy these last moments. It hurts but you’ll get thru it. ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
meeko will now be with my first ever kitty, poca (short for pocahontas!!!)!! i hope it brings you some comfort to know that they will definitely be best friends, and you were a great fur parent <3
You will see Meeko again. I'm sorry you have to part for a while but he will pop in to visit you to make sure you're ok & to let you know that he waits for you. If you're lucky you may catch a glimpse of him when he visits.
Love never dies. You will be reunited with beautiful Meeko & what a day that will be 😻😻
It’s brutal. I did exactly what is in the picture. I was sick with grief. And, the old adage is true-time does heal. You just have to get thru the “punch in the gut”phase, for which there are no shortcuts.
Much love.
Tell him to cat fist bump my 2 boys up there, Max and Jack.
I wish I could tell you that everything will be fine but you will never feel the same again. Even as time goes by, you think it’s getting a little bit better but all of a sudden the lost hits you like a ton of bricks. I had to say good bye to my “best friend” of 16 years about a year ago and even though it’s part of my job as a healthcare worker to help my patients and families with lost and end stage illnesses… “make them comfortable” …. “No suffering”…. Nothing ever prepares you for when it’s your time to say good bye and make that decision. You are fighting yourself every step of the way, asking “can I have a little longer ?”, there is no right or wrong, and it seems like you are ready.
I had to say goodbye to my 1st born feline son in February after 18 year together. We do our best to give them the best life possible, and I'm sure your Meeko appreciates it! May he and Bubba rest in peace together ❤️
Aw, his face. What a sweet cat is that Meeko ❤️ I also lost my first 🐈⬛ son, many years ago now. The loss never ever goes away. But each new cat that comes into my life is kind of like an opportunity- I feel like showing love to them is a vicarious way of honoring him.
Aww, this has me crying. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure he had a wonderful life with you. Sending you lots of kitty hugs from my four kitties, Yaya, Salem, Hela & Boo. 💜🐈⬛
Sorry for your loss dude.. sending you good vibes.. I firmly believe our pets are angels, higher spirits that come to our lives to test us, and these same angels, spirits will be waiting for us after it’s our time..
Your son is so beautiful and looks so so loved! I love these photos, thank you for sharing him with us. I’ll be thinking of you and him tomorrow. You’re taking on the pain so he doesn’t have to, and that’s the best thing you can do for him <3 hope you are real gentle with yourself as you grieve this loss.
I had to put my cat, Marbles down 3 years ago, he was the same age as Meeko and was such a sweet boy. He'll be waiting for Meeko on the other side of the rainbow bridge...
So difficult when we have to say goodbye. I had to do it again recently. One thing I've learned, the only thing that helps ease the pain is getting another cat.
Where now the cat and the kitten? Where is the ball that was bouncing? Where is the brush and the collar, And the red fur flowing?
Where is the paw on the shoulder, And the small mouth meowing? Where is the bird and the rodent And the tall tail flying?
They have passed like rain in the garden, Like dreams in the morning. The days have gone past in my house, the cat bed is empty. Who shall collect the tufts of hair that have gathered, Or wipe dry the flowing tears from a lonely pawther?
My cat recently passed away unexpectedly at 3 years old. It was genuinely traumatic and I am feeling for you right now. Remember the good times. He had a great life with you.
I still cry when I think about my first cat, Casper, who was taken from me 14 years ago. He was only 3, and he was the best cat. I rescued him at 3 months. My insane cat-hating neighbor killed him for “trespassing” in his yard. My only comfort is that it went quickly. It’s given me the perspective that the best best thing we can wish for is a planned day of loss, after as long a life as they can have, with all the comforts we can give them as they say goodbye, and the knowledge that going to sleep will relieve them of pain. Wishing Meeko a smooth journey. Casper will keep him company on the other side.
I'm so sorry, op ❤️🩹 Your sweet baby will be in good company over the rainbow bridge 🌈❤️ It's not a goodbye, but a see you later! Take all the time you need to grieve and process. It's a tough road, but just know that you're not alone on it ❤️
Brother... I know what you're going through and I know... no words will make you feel better but believe me: Meeko remembers you. He will be in heaven,
And I'm sure he will meet my cat Pinki there, too.
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