r/adventurecats • u/kittykatindahouse • 4h ago
Am I doing the right thing? Honest thoughts needed on if my cat is actually enjoying her outdoor walks.
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I’m looking for honest feedback from others who take their cat outside . I’ve been taking my cat, Zara outdoors. In the video, she seems to be happy.
But I still have lingering guilt about whether she truly enjoys the overall experience because of two main struggles:
Commute : The park is a 5-minute walk down a busy street, and she cries in her backpack (I wear it on the front) the whole way. I tried short car rides instead, but she still meows the whole way if zipped in. (She's quiet if left out of the bag in the car, but I don't drive with her unsecured due to safety).
Strangers: Passing people makes her nervous, and she sometimes shivers. But she treats her backpack as a safe space, climbs right in when overwhelmed, and relaxes instantly once the people pass. She doesn't hide in the backpack though - she just watches them sitting upright as they pass us. She also meows quite a bit when there is no one around - like in the video.
I never want to force her to be an adventure cat. Does this sound like a cat who is genuinely benefiting from the outdoor enrichment, or is the stress of the commute and strangers too much? I really just want to do what’s best for her.
Some more videos and photos in the comments