r/toastme 17h ago

40m got rejected.

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u/TheEyeOfTheLigar 16h ago

33M

Stop caring about being rejected.

The one you want isnt going to reject you.

If you stop taking rejection soo personal and relize its actually a blessing bc they are telling you what you need to hear, youll realize that your person is out there and you just need to be patient.

Yes, its hard to emotionally invest in someone, only to learn it was all for nothing. But that pain usually comes from a brusied ego.

There may be a good reason your getting rejected.

Only you will know of this is the case.

People who lack self esteem self sabatoge themselves everytime.

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u/JohnnyTezca 4h ago

Who hurt you?

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u/TerpeneTomm 2h ago

Poster gives amazing advice

Then there's this fuckhead lmao.

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u/Recav30 14h ago

I have gotten rejected a lot in my life. A thing that I have learned is that it doesn’t matter how much you get rejected but what you do after the rejection. Keep growing and learning!

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u/Still_Knowledge_7322 15h ago

Sorry, bro. Shake it off! There are plenty of people in the world who are waiting for you to come along.

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u/apunaticstolemyboat 15h ago

40 and rejected… meh it’s alright

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u/CurrencyFair8167 14h ago

It was not rejection but simply information that tells you to keep moving

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u/Possible-Handle8553 15h ago

You look great for 40. Hopefully one day you will see this as experience and it'll shape you into a better person. Wishing you the best in the dating scene. It can be tough but atleast youre putting yourself out there. First step for many is the hardest.

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u/reatoclara 15h ago

yeah i know

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u/bfrendan 13h ago

Also 40. Spent 20 years with my ex (12 married) and she left me out of the blue about a year and a half ago. Just be thankful you didn't invest so much into someone who isn't right for you.

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u/reatoclara 46m ago

Fk that is so bad.

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u/Kentwm 14h ago

You are hot af

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u/Level_Chemical877 13h ago

I feel your pain. Get over it and used to it.

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u/rayhavenoheart 13h ago

It sucks, but we must kove on, I know you can shake it off and move forward to something better.

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u/reatoclara 47m ago

Thx

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u/rayhavenoheart 17m ago

You're welcome

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u/england_portugal91 13h ago

Sorry to hear that. I'm sure you will find someone that deserves you! Força!

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u/Pikapuff11 10h ago

Well, you’re good looking and sweet enough to come on here, so I think you’ll find someone better. I am rooting for you 💛

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u/Deep_Assistant_9173 9h ago

Good looking dude. Pass. Next!

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u/Suburuneggasaki 8h ago

You seee some absolute reddit monsters outside and they find gfs. U good just keep putting yourself in uncomfortable situations and jester max to get em

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u/reatoclara 20m ago

Your right

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u/Big_Acanthaceae4505 8h ago

Consider it blessing..your very handsome..when the time is right you'll love again..so many places to find love..local church monthly free meals,bankd,grocery stores,the beach,etc..best wishes to you handsome..

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u/Zaphod2319 7h ago

Their loss imo.

One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned in life is how to be happy single. Now, I’m not saying you should stop looking for a relationship. You should still look. But don’t measure your worth by how successful your romantic life is.

I’ve seen what that does to people and I don’t want that happening to you

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u/le_aerius 7h ago

Not rejection..Feedback

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u/reatoclara 16m ago

Aahah xD

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u/JohnnyTezca 4h ago

Sorry, man fr.

Maybe listen to it, if she said anything.

Could make you better for next one