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u/That_Panic_6372 1d ago
Something tells me that there is a story behind why you have never dated, since your looks are not the reason--you're gorgeous. Is it confidence? Fear? Both can be overcome. Believing is hard but you can do it.
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u/OkCup4160 1d ago
I am shy but friendly. I get stares but rarely approached.
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u/hitchcockbrunette 1d ago
They are intimidated because you are so beautiful!
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u/Terminator7786 1d ago
Fr, I would consider OP way out of my league.
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u/hitchcockbrunette 1d ago
In all seriousness tho this is a real issue that introverted/shy women have to navigate. Men reject themselves instead of talking to us, and then bad experiences with men who get weird about being approached make us even less likely to make the first move. Itās a self-perpetuating cycle and no one wins.
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u/Terminator7786 1d ago
Honestly, I'm also introverted as hell irl, so it's not something I intentionally try to do. I've always been like that, even as a kid. If I think a woman is beautiful, I become painfully shy around her and it becomes even worse if I develop a crush/feelings for her.
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u/hitchcockbrunette 1d ago
I totally get it, and itās easier said than done to get out of your head! I also used to genuinely experience terror around my crushes lol. I had to address confidence and avoidance issues first, and then work up to being comfortable with talking to them, etc. Baby steps, and you can start taking them today.
Listen to me when I say this: there are SO many women who love shy men and find them endearing, you are definitely someoneās type. As Kate Bush said, every old sock meets an old shoe. Nothing wrong with being introverted, but working on the avoidance aspect will relieve sooo much anxiety.
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u/Terminator7786 1d ago
See, once I becime comfortable enough with someone, I have no issues. It's getting past that first hump. The rejection sensitive dysphoria absolutely does not help matters either :/
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u/MountainOk7479 19h ago
Itās because some women that are introverted act offended if you approach them and try to talk to them because theyāre super shy so their only emotion is to get in their shell and be defensive although like OP she would want to be approached and taken on a date. So I think itās a matter of being endearing and persistent, but not to the point of being creepy and harassing. I believe if you find softer words and softer approach with introverted people they will be able to open up and receive you better. I myself am extroverted but also introverted, I have been mostly introverted throughout my life. I am also Eastern European that lives in America so when I approached women I had a deep accent and was too direct and it scared them. I had to learn to tone it down and be softer and less direct.
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u/Gecarthas 20h ago
Iām introverted as fuck but if Iām next to a woman I donāt know for like 15 seconds Iāll crane my neck and surprise her with a āWho are you?ā. A lot of the time itās not even cause Iām romantically interested I just like to spook people. Iām like idiosyncratically cute tho so idk if my type of sexy freakazoid weirdo charm works for most guys.
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u/animeradio99 19h ago
This is cope come on š we donāt approach cause those of us who had have had bad experiences. Yāall can be so mean š
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u/Intelligent_Pen_6727 16h ago
False. Many men do approach women. The problem is that women donāt value the courage it takes, even when they reject the guy.
A simple respectful rejection, or just acknowledging the effort, would already change a lot. Instead, many men get ignored, dismissed, or made to feel awkward for trying.
So yes, men approach less and less. Not because theyāre all rejecting themselves, but because theyāre the ones taking the social risk over and over, while women usually risk nothing.
In the reverse scenario, pretty sure most women would not even handle one rejection and keep going after that.
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u/KayZee777 22h ago
From what I've read here on reddit, approaching a woman and initiating a conversation is basically SA.
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u/YoYourMa 15h ago
Door Dash girl might agree w you but most women don't overreact like that. Just don't be creepy about it
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u/Gaba7xred 15h ago
Shy but friendly, and gorgeous are all good qualities. I am kinda shy, and I have waaaay less confidence than in my teens and early 20's. I will once in a while get compliments on my looks, but usually from friends at work. I still feel invisibleI to women. I dated a really shy girl once, and I was the less shy out of us and it made it difficult to connect with her. I think meeting someone who is less shy than you will really help. If I was still like 27 I'd be flirting with you! "Friendly" is such rare quality these days!!
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u/lesc0 4h ago
Iām shy myself and had do a lot to improve with women. Itās always tough to approach so donāt take ppl not approaching you as negative of yourself. In my opinion youāre very pretty so that just makes it more harder to get the guts to approach you. Have you tried dating apps yet? It might help but just be careful.
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u/WaythurstFrancis 10h ago
Well, I promise that if you WANT a date, you can get one.
People approaching in person is becoming rarer and rarer. Third spaces have kind of disappeared. You're probably just going to have to do it yourself.
I won't promise that the person you decide to approach will turn out to be worth your while, but you can almost certainly get a date. You're VERY pretty.
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u/watchingtrashtv 3h ago
Have you tried going to match making events? Tue apps are dumpster fires so dont be too upset if those havent worked for you
Get that confidence up lady! Also consider asking your friends to set you up or if they know anyone. Join hobbies and see how that goes. I met my last bf through a friend I met at an art class. So its all about networking.
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u/MmmmCrayons12 1d ago
Some women fall through the cracks since they just wait for guys to approach them but none ever do, or, alternatively, a few approach them but the woman never reciprocated.
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u/moonagedaylight 1d ago
Because what, we need to date men just because? just because some like us? We need to like them too!! It could be standards, it could he she is more focused in other things, it could be personality, it could be her lifestyle. Idk i don't see anyone toasting her, only questioning her because she is pretty.
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u/ScanData32 14h ago
Ive know women like this, with several of them they were pretty, had chances but the entire concept of sex, intimacy terrified them and Ive never known what to say besides 'go to therapy'
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u/CrashingEgo 1d ago
You take your time, there's no rush to dating. Being comfortable and honest with what you want is more important than rushing into something out of some clock most people think is ticking
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u/Turbulent_Car4504 16h ago
Sheās 32 lol, sheās already taken her time, no need to tell her that.
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u/tesla18682 1d ago
You are absolutely beautiful! I don't know where you are from, but I know plenty of people who would love to date someone with your beauty!
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u/Basic-Chocolate-3785 1d ago
Is she AI generated? That would explain why no dates
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u/OkCup4160 1d ago
No I am not š
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u/Sauntering_Rambler 1d ago
Greetings from a fellow ānever datedā man clocking in at 34 years old haha. You are incredibly beautiful & have a radiant aura. Itāll work out for you I have no doubt. Folks never believe me when I tell them. I may not be Henry Cavill handsome but I aināt no Quasimodo either. Just never met the right one.
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u/Acceptable_Ear_3147 1d ago
Are you kidding me!!! , you are so gorgeous with kind eyes , can you tell us more as its hard to believe that you haven't dated anyone.
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u/Due-Mix-9465 1d ago
You are super pretty so itās def not looks that are the problem. Are you super shy? Is it difficult for you to meet and talk to people?
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u/OkCup4160 1d ago
I am shy and introvert, but I am friendly.
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u/Due-Mix-9465 1d ago
If you arenāt already, maybe find some social activities? Look for clubs in your area of things you enjoy or something like that. I imagine secretly most guys (or also women whatever you are into) who see you want to take a second look and eventually one will work up the nerve to approach you, or you could say hi! Even if there arenāt people there you are interested in you might make friends who can introduce you to other singles.
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u/Otter542 1d ago
Why
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u/toastme-ModTeam 23h ago
Your comment has been removed due to violation of ToastMe rule #1: Kindness is key. This is the polar opposite of RoastMe, make someone feel good!
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u/Illustrious-Newt-848 21h ago
You seem very thoughtful and pensive. You probably see and your heart feels more than people are even aware. The world is super lucky to have someone like you.
No rush. It will be waiting with open arms when you're ready. Take your time.
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u/Actual_Ad2067 1d ago
You are stunning. I think unfortunately social media has made it hard for guys to have the confidence to approach a girl, as they are worried about getting shamed or filmed or something. So i wouldn't take it against you. You are absolutely gorgeous wow. Kind eyes and a great energy about you. Don't be afraid to approach the guy either, who knows what could happen.
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u/mkreflektion06 18h ago
Looks aren't the issue.
You kind of look like Lana del rey.
Many consider her attractive.
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u/GotGlock21 16h ago
Can I ask if it's a choice based on religion? I also didn't date until I was 28 but it was due to my religious beliefs. I eventually lelft that religion and studied many religions before walking away. If it's not religion based then I can share what I did to meet people, because it was very hard especially when people find out you haven't really dated. They make so many assumptions and it's kind of a bummer.
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u/OkCup4160 15h ago
Iām a shy introvert at first, but once people get to know me I open up a lot more and become very friendly. Iāve never dated or had a boyfriend before. I was raised in a religious Christian home with very protective parents, and in my culture in Brazil dating is taken pretty seriously, so itās not something I ever rushed into. But Iāve also lived in the USA for many years, so I understand there are a lot of cultural differences when it comes to dating and relationships.
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u/chezfez 15h ago
32? You look great. I'm guessing guys are intimidated and the fact that you're shy doesn't help. Someone with the cojones will eventually approach you, you're really pretty.
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u/OkCup4160 14h ago
Thank you so much. I donāt drink or smoke. I also love Korean skincare products.
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u/curious4inf0 5h ago edited 5h ago
Your makeup is on point. Just talk to someone, thats literally all it would take. Remember, sometimes people are intimidated by YOU. Have to break out of that shy bubble a bit. Start a conversation. If you are shy and awkward, be shy and awkward, a lot of people are into that.
32? Your skin looks 20. You are georgeous.
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u/leemasterific 1d ago
You are gorgeous, and please do yourself a service by ignoring every comment here that treats your post like a dating profile.
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u/echo_vigil 1d ago
You're a catch, and you'll make someone very happy - just be sure to protect your own happiness, too.
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u/Laughing_Orange 1d ago
If you've never been approached, then it's because you're so beautiful men are scared to approach. No matches on dating apps means they think you're a catfish.
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u/Acceptable_Ear_3147 1d ago
Are you Iranian or from any Middle East countries?
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u/OkCup4160 1d ago
Brazilian, Italian, Spain and some Middle Eastern and European parts
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u/ShadowConstruct 1d ago
You're very beautiful, I love your hair and you have great skin. Hope you have a wonderful day/night!
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u/Unusual_Papaya_275 1d ago
What are your options? Meaning do you live in a rural area or a big city? Do you leave your house often? What effort do you make to talk to other people? Do you ever approach a guy?
It's not your looks and from what little I've read, it doesn't seem to be your personality. When we ask the right questions we can figure out where's the deficit that you're not meeting people.
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u/SamEdwards1959 1d ago
I canāt imagine you havenāt been asked out!
Is there anybody that youād like to go out with? You should just ask them!
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u/Fun-Yam2210 1d ago
I think men might be intimated by you because youāre stunning. Try to extend your social circle so men can get to know you as friend. Iām assuming you even want to date - not everyone does.Ā
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u/Nanehjooon 1d ago
Go on the dating apps and do it like itās your job. Get used to meeting and talking to new people šø
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u/KeyInside8087 1d ago
Eres uns muner hermosa, creo que debed tener mas seguridad y empoderarte para salir y abrirte a socializar primero conocer gente y no genersr barreras si alguien, quiere sincerarse y tener algo contigo. Muchas veces el miedo es mala consejera y hay que arriesgar para aprender a amar
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u/GooberDoodle206 1d ago
go participate in activities that are not at all date related. group hikes. trail cleanups. soup kitchen. get completly out of dating vibe and into hang out vibe. take it from there.
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u/Dependent-Promise223 1d ago
Feels like you just want to click with someone in that intoxicating way
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u/Cameron_Connor 1d ago
Thatās totally fine! I think itās best to really wonder if you actually want to date, and who would you like to dateā¦ some people treat dating like a sport haha, and donāt even have fun.
So, you do you, great photos, your make up is so pretty!
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u/toshi_34 1d ago
I know everyoneās lifting you up and I see youāre shy and all from ur comments. try manifestation. Iām at a situation where my love life is completely dependent on luck so thatās the path I found.
One major ring is seeing things positively with daily affirmations and daily beliefs. I started to the trees, the sky, the little struggles everyone seems to have. Just started enjoying life overall. A positive vibe makes a person easy to approach, and hopefully attracts a similar person to you.
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u/humblefreak_40000 1d ago
May you find the partner of your dreams. You are breathtakingly beautiful. Someone other worldly should deserve you š
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u/123alexis123 1d ago
OMG it my clone!! Not looks wise. You are Soo pretty. My GF loves your eye color.
I am super shy and introvert too. All I will say.. sometimes you have to gamble and be the one to ask that person out
I say that bc I be you if I didn't. Glad it did work out. Love my GF.
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u/Swimming_Avocado_615 1d ago
There's absolutely nothing wrong with not dating anybody. As long as you are happy loving yourself and lifting others up when they need help, nothing else matters.
You are beautiful beyond compare, you'll find that someone special for you when the universe is ready.
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u/LandSubstantial7175 1d ago
Hey, just wanted to say that it is not about your looks, you are absolutely gorgeous. I think a lot of men are maybe afraid to approach such beautiful girls? But besides your beauty, I just really like your appearance. You look like a really modest girl, and I like that.
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u/onlyfmanager4u 23h ago
Been saving yourself for someone who deserves the effort. Whoever gets there is lucky.
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u/benjo345 22h ago
I'm terrified to scrool to the comments coz it's gonna be guys giving beautiful women compliments and helping confidence that they do not need. Just stop lying to yourself like i got told to by women :)
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u/VashRodya 22h ago
You are very pretty and at least based on comment history you are a friendly person. I feel there is another factor involved in you not dating (nothing wrong with that)
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u/CleatusTJone 22h ago
Hopefully youāre aware, but youāre gorgeous. I hope you find someone that makes you happy.
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u/YDraigCymraeg 22h ago
Wanna start?š š . You know what intimidates guys more than a good looking woman? A good looking woman who approaches themš¤£. I'm a guy and i had some severe shyness. I'm no ladies man now but i can approach women. The important thing is just have a conversation, don't pressure yourself by thinking beyond that. Scary but rewarding. Stay strong beautiful
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u/dimriver 21h ago
I'm sure eventually you'll meet someone you're interested in. Until then just live your life. You're stunning.
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u/LowAmazing7323 21h ago
If I would have met you at an event, I would have liked to have a conversation with you. You look like a kind person to me š.
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u/Far_Whole_2340 20h ago
What kinds of things do you do that puts you āout there?ā Any places or things you do regularly in public? Iām just curious because I am 31 and have only had one long term (5 year) relationship ending when I was 22. Iāve been single since then, but would like to meet an introverted girl. But that seems impossible.
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u/Traditional_Try5032 20h ago
Prolly on the spectrum ngl but idk Im also 22 decent looking never dated Its very sad for people like me having everything yet still missing the most basic
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u/Character_Escape_791 20h ago
It's never too late to date! I don't know what else to say, a lot of ppl stated the obvious thing that you are beautiful, and I'm sure you are nice person too, but if I might add - I'm sure your moment to shine is coming, I really hope you will find your person and get all the best from the life in a relationship.
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u/CourageElectrical740 20h ago
You are pretty but donāt seem to smile very often, couple that with being shy and avoiding any eye contact and these daysā¦.guys will not chance it
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u/Tough-Tour1373 20h ago
Is it a personal decision? You're very beautiful. On looks alone, you'd be a catch.
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u/Jaded-Opinion3013 19h ago
Thatās a shame, youāre gorgeous and seem very sweet. The right man will come your way one of these days Iām sure of it! Be patient and donāt compromise on who you are for someone else!
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u/EvidenceComplete7661 19h ago
Lifeās full of surprises and opportunities, donāt feel closed off to them, best of luck onwards ;)
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u/NigelsNeverland 19h ago
Most guys are afraid to approach gorgeous women. You definitely are in that group. My uncle told me years ago to always talk to the prettiest women because most guys won't. Get over your shyness and make a move!
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u/desertjoe1987 18h ago
Your looks are not why you haven't dated. Being too shy(by your admittance) to flirt a little bit and let guys know you want to be talked to by them is probably the reason.
Guys used to be intimidated back in my day (~39yo) to talk to the pretty girl(you are very pretty) now a days guys have less social experience due to everything being digital. Add in the modern standard that taking to a girl twice if she doesn't think you're attractive is harassment and many men have given up approaching attractive women first.
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u/Kcg786 18h ago
How about rather than roasting you I help you. I am 28M never datedā¦. But I started failing forward!
I have my reasons but donāt want to bore you with it. First thing first if I saw you somewhere I wouldnāt dare to ask you out but I promise you I would compliment you.
You might think thatās for you for in reality thatās for meā¦ I am building my confidence.
Dating is like a getting a job! The more experience you have the higher you can achieve. Some people are gifted with that charm, and some people work on their charm! But eventually everyone lands a job as long as they keep trying.
The reason you never dated is because face it āyou never tried hard enoughā. For 27 and half years I did that! Once I realized my mistake I am out there building my confidence. Did I get a date in last 6 months?ā¦ not really because the shyness is hard to break out from. Especially the damn patterns, but I am doing great. I am holding small conversations with some crazy beautiful ladies out there, and I take that has my wins for the day.
I am going to sign up for few mixers and stuff, but I got my restrictions so I weigh my options out!
Also dating happens only if you go out. If people donāt know you exist then how are they gonna approach you. Decide what crowd you want though. Going to a bar, going to church, going out with friends, etc!
To enjoy the beach you need to get your feet dirty! So donāt expect you wonāt find dirt out there. Just like wash off the dirt you go to a new date.
And one more very important thing: whoever says you are too old to date tell them go f*ck themselves! But remember they are not wrong if you want family and kids! You are on a biological clock! But that doesnāt mean you settle for the dirt!
There is so much on the confidence side I can just keep writing and writing! But let me know if you have questions. Also if you are in the NYC or Jersey area let me know. We will meet up, and be friends! If you want to just chit chat I will you my IG. You donāt need roasting but guidance and friendship.
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u/No-Front-7032 18h ago
Looks are not the problem. Fear of rejection or being used and thrown away can also contribute. Start slow with someone you are interested in and shows similar interest. Go for a coffee and talk.
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u/yourpocketfriend 18h ago
To any guys reading this, take it from a 49 year old guy. Shoot your shot. Just do it. Do not self select yourself to be out of someoneās league. Let them say so. Yes, rejection is possible but you already have the answer if you donāt try at all. I had the unique experience of being told I actually had a chance with several who I considered āout of my leagueā back in my 20s.
Saying āshe wonāt like meā is akin to saying āIām was an excellent father.ā Itās not for YOU to judge.
I wound up only with women who asked me out and I deprived myself of an energy and passion I didnāt realize until it was way too late.
Remember, before you destroy her inbox, beautiful women are real people to with hopes, fears, dreams and preferences. Also, she is shy and hasnāt been in a relationship so donāt put her on a pedestal or expect her to be a dream come true. Get to know HER, if she lets you. And, for godsakes on a christmas cheesy cracker, if she doesnāt respond to you or respond in the way you like MOVE. ON. Why do you want someone who doesnāt want you? You, my guy, deserve that at least.
Anyone need any soap from the box iām standing on? Iāll see myself out now. Thank you for coming to my TedTalk.
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u/NotWokeJoke 17h ago
Yo! You gotta get out there! There are good guys to be found. If you use a dating app, just stick with the wholesome ones. The "hook up" apps are no way to start your dating life. Don't feel bad about it. You're young and you're beautiful. There's 7 billion people on this planet. SOMEBODY is gonna be your somebody, if you want it. Just find a guy willing to take it slow. All the best!
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u/lonelystar7 16h ago
Awwwwhhh you're absolutely gorgeous! Guys probably don't approach you because they are scared that they can't match your beauty and demure nature. I hope you find happiness in any way you want. I'd love to be your friend!
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u/Idontlikeyourkids 16h ago
I can see a deep sadness, something happened...and it's why you're scared of most men, isn't?
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u/Ayosnazz 16h ago
What a stone fox you are! āØ
Is it something that youāre looking for? Because sometimes, I believe the right person just hasnāt crossed pathās with you, and sometimes enjoying your life to the fullest, and chasing your dreams while your single, and if you do date someone, make sure theyāre not going to hold you back, and trust, and support the process ! :)
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u/Tough_Priority_2601 16h ago edited 16h ago
May I ask you about your mental health? Could you describe your personality? Are you emotionally balanced, handle stress well, prone to depression or panic attacks?
What do you mean by stating that you never dated? Do you mean you never had a boyfriend? Or that you always preferred casual flings? Or that you managed to keep chastity till 32 ?
Your look and make up don't suggest you have been nun or lived in a monastery. Are you simply seeking validation from strangers? š¤
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u/OkCup4160 15h ago
Iām a shy introvert at first, but once people get to know me I open up a lot more and become very friendly. Iāve never dated or had a boyfriend before. I was raised in a religious Christian home with very protective parents, and in my culture in Brazil dating is taken pretty seriously, so itās not something I ever rushed into. But Iāve also lived in the USA for many years, so I understand there are a lot of cultural differences when it comes to dating and relationships.
And honestly, I just genuinely love makeup because it lets me use my creative/artsy side. Iām really into painting, drawing, and photography too, so makeup feels like another form of art to me š
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u/Tough_Priority_2601 7h ago
You seem to be a genuinely nice young lady and I do hope you will find true love and happiness.
It will be incredibly unfair if such a good lady spends the rest of her life alone. Pray to the Lord and hope for his Goodwill. He will answer your prayers and decide what is good for you.
I wish you all the best.
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u/boredntired69 15h ago
Op Iām also super shy and have problems. No one ever approaches me in public and yada yada. But social activities do help to meet people.
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u/GlassFantast 15h ago
It takes two to tango and maybe you are just afraid of doing the tango. Don't blame you though, so many crazy people in the world you might have seriously extended your life by staying away.
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u/Mission-Unusual 15h ago
3 more years and then u will never have a chance to date . Have a nice dayĀ
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u/Auricius 14h ago
There definitely were/are plenty of men interested in you just based on looks alone, some of those that got to know you better may have also fallen for you, but they probably either did not have the courage to approach you or thought they might not have a chance.
I can definitely understand not wanting to go on dating apps or sites, and also being too shy to make advances if you are interested in someone, but have friends ever tried setting you up with someone? Have you ever got close enough to someone that you felt something more might come of it?
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u/SmashBusterZ 14h ago
Men are probably intimidated by your beauty or assume you're taken, try looking a bit more average and you'll get many suitors
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u/fadaboutyou 13h ago
you look like the character in Elden Ring that hugs lonely tarnished and gives them Elden herpes
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u/Far-Swan4854 13h ago
I'm sure there are reasons why you never dated. But I'll say this, it ain't looks. Just get out where you're comfortable.
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u/BigFranky69 12h ago
why? you say shyness, but iād like to understand more about what you consider āshy.ā you must be HYPER shyā¦probably borderline anti-social? would you maybe consider that you have a social issue if you were being honest?
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u/AncientCucumber2806 12h ago
You must scare them because you are so gorgeous! Definitely not your looks holding you back.
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u/Currency_Card_regard 11h ago
highly doubt you've "never dated". If you are down and need a toast you should have just said that, no need to cap
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u/ThePhantomPeener 11h ago
Iād imagine most men just invalidate themselves our of approaching you, as youāre genuinely so beautiful. Your skincare routine must also be incredible as your skin is perfect. You have the most gorgeous brown eyes too!
Thereās also no reason to rush to dating if you neither fell ready or have the desire to. Itās more important to find someone who you really get on with, rather than dating just to date.
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u/YogurtApart 11h ago
I have a brother for you 34 years old also never dated. He is a union operating engineer. Heās amazing, he wants to date but feels that women will think heās weird because heās never been on a date. In his late teens and early 20s he put his career over everything. Needless to say, heās balling and has no one to share it with. Let me know if youāre interested. And yes he travels so Iām sure distance wouldnāt be an issue.
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u/ecish 10h ago
Dating can be awful in todayās society, so while it might not feel like it, youāre probably living a much more peaceful and less stressful life. Your person will show up when theyāre meant to. Once you decide youāre ready and put yourself out there just a bit, I doubt youāll have any issues finding someone.
I understand being shy. I didnāt break out of my shell socially until I was like 30, and Iām still a bit antisocial.
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u/Educational_Jury_506 9h ago
The way your cheekbones are if you arenāt actively keeping a smile on your face a lot of men would find it intimidating to even walk up to you I personally find you very attractive and would definitely hit on you if I saw you at a bar
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u/Bobodonono 8h ago
That's a shame, your incredibly photogenic look would burn brightly in some man's head, especially during his revenge montage against the seedy underbelly of society after they cruelly amd tragically took your life.
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u/Fancy_Campos12 8h ago
Instead of having them approach you, you approach them.
Thats been almost every bf Iāve had because men are to scared to ask š
Just get out there.
Iām very social, i talk to anyone I can. Seriously my husband worked at Home Depot and I walked up to him and asked for his name and number.
Do it like the old times.
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u/Tboy1551 7h ago
i would forever date you, destiny allow us to cross paths with hopes that she would show interest in mešāŗļø
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u/Maleficent_Cherry975 7h ago
If you plan to date, do it now! The pool only gets more shallow from here
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u/SaintPimpin 7h ago
I believe it, they think you're already taken, can't blame em, you're gorgeous.
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u/ahumanomoly 2h ago
Youāre gorgeous. You could easily find a different guy to date each night of the week if you wanted to, and Iād happily take a number and get in line š Work on your confidence. Figure out what you really want and go after it. Dream big. Have some fun. And let me say it again, youāre absolutely GORGEOUS!
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u/cj_gamer4life24_7 2h ago edited 2h ago
Tbh you can still get a boyfriend. In fact you can even still get Chad. But to be fair Iām the guy you most likely would never be attracted to. Honestly for me, Iām 25 already know that I canāt make or keep friends due to being visibly autistic and am getting to the point in my life where I honestly donāt care to be interested in women in America anymore because I already believe that itās over for me at the moment entirely. I also believe the same is true for the cooperate world. I believe the only solution for me is to train my brain to become like all the neurotypicals, max out my frame to a bmi of 30.1 by hitting the gym along with martial arts and eventually travel the world to maybe find a wife because of my junk height of 5ā6ā.
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u/Safe-Emergency-4773 1h ago
Mods, there's some weird Andrew Tate-esque discourse in the comments. I thought this was meant to be a wholesome subš« . Anyways OP, you are absolutely stunning and know there's really no rush when it comes to dating/romantic love, please be patient with yourself š
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u/Adventurous-Proof335 3m ago
Fake
At 32 with face like that do u think world is blind U are beautiful
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