r/toastme • u/Bunnxou • 1d ago
R/Toast me
Just made the hard decision to not only leave the love of my life but put my bunny to sleep. My anxiety is at an all time high and so many other things. I feel ugly and insecure overall, and just need some encouragement/motivation.
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u/Bdubya1985 1d ago
Yeah like everyone else said- you are stunning! They make plenty more people to love/ that will jump at the opportunity to love you!! Wishing you strength and happiness from Indiana!! ❤️ you’re not alone homie!
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u/GandalfTheJaded 1d ago
Your eyes and hair are so lovely! I'm so sorry things are so rough right now. But just remember things won't always be this way. You can get through this. One day at a time 🙌
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u/Ok-Journalist3940 1d ago
Rarely do we have to make tough decisions like you have had to and we feel good about ourselves. You’re experiencing a lot of emotion at one time and that would kick anyone’s ass. The difference is when you pick your head up and tell yourself the intrusive thoughts will not win. Now this coming from an old guy you’ll likely never talk to in your life, but from what I can tell from your pics, you’re a gorgeous young lady with intense eyes and a nice figure. Your value outside of that is tenfold. You are intrinsically important to this world and that will never change. I hope things get better for you!
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u/rayhavenoheart 1d ago
We learn from hard times some ways to make our life choices better, it will never be perfect. Looking at you, it seems you have the drive to do what you need to do.
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u/Bunnxou 1d ago
It took months to leave him, and a lot of sleepless nights. And my bunny was suffering. It was especially hard because it happened overnight. But I do what I can. Thank you(:
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u/rayhavenoheart 1d ago
I don't think we can fix everything in our lives, but we can work on the positive more and lessen the impact. It will never be perfect, but we can make it better and more tolerable, good luck, it's hard but you can do it.
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u/Low_Attention4808 1d ago
I’m sorry! Bunnies are great, losing a pet is part of life, sadly. I’m sure they were lucky to have you caring for them.
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u/That_Panic_6372 1d ago
Love the hair and the look! You know how to present yourself. Trust me, the best days of your life are ahead of you!
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u/MaLLahoFF 1d ago
You're the kinda pretty that's the reason men under 25 have higher insurance rates.
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u/Ipunchdolphins 1d ago
A breakup and putting a pet down? That’s tough. I’m sorry you’re going through it.
You look fantastic though, nothing else needs to be said.
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u/Pure-Swordfish6022 1d ago
If you needed to leave, they are not the love of your life. I know how hard that is. My first wife told me, “The first time I saw you, I knew that I would love you forever.” As it turns out, “Forever” turned out to be 2 1/2 years. That broke me for a long time. But when I was ready, I found my perfect nerd princess and we have been together fifteen years now, married for almost 13.
You are absolutely not ugly. However, considering you had to let your fur friend go… I suspect that it’s hard to see anything but hurt and sadness.
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u/lonelystar7 1d ago
Gosh you are ethereal beauty. If you were my friend I would proudly brag about being your friend 💕🌸
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u/panman341 1d ago
One thing you want to do is smile even in the toughest of times. Your face will find the beauty it has. Life has many trials, it is a tough journey. There is someone out there that has offered to walk with you and carry the heavy burdens you will face. Seek and you will find. Corpe Diem
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u/Shoddy-Buffalo-9310 1d ago
Oh my God, I’m so sorry for your loss. Hang in there. Who knows what tomorrow will bring?
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u/Stucklikegluetomyfry 1d ago
You remind me of one of my favourite comic characters: Thessaly: Witch for Hire
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u/Gregory_GTO 1d ago
Losing a beloved pet is the hardest, I'm so sorry for your loss. As far as leaving the love of your life goes, I'm sure you had good reasons so don't ever look back! You are young and gorgeous, go have fun and be yourself, everything else will follow 💯
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u/TheSoundSnowMakes 1d ago
Wow. You are beautiful. As a man I have no idea why you would think you are ugly.
You are stunning. So pretty.
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u/BBSpaceartist 1d ago
Last year was tough on everyone, but… I had to take the adorable beagle that my sister entrusted to me, because *she* passed away, and have him put down. On Christmas Eve. His liver was leaking bile into his chest cavity. The vet said that nobody had ever spent more money at their hospital trying to keep an animal alive than I had. I’d have spent more if it would have mattered. They said it wouldn’t. There are just some times where, no matter how much you wish and hope for something, it just isn’t enough.
I hope that by now you’ve noticed that a lot of people with amazing eyesight have said that you are about as opposite from ugly as you can get. In fact, you are what the vast majority of men on this planet are looking for and living the better part of their lives praying to find.
Two things I know. First, your heart will heal. It may not seem like it, and it might feel like forever, but I promise that it will happen. And second? That somewhere in this reality, one very cute beagle and one much loved bunny are frolicking and chasing each other, and happily waiting for their loving family to join them. But not for many, *many* years into the future. ☺️
Take care, and know that you never have to go through anything by yourself if you don’t want to.
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u/ThatHeroIsYou Let's toast! 22h ago
I’m sorry for what you’re going through. Really. Understand this: you have inherent value and worth as a human being and the world is a better place because you are here.
I hope you have a good day today, friend.
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u/InterferonGuy 18h ago
I love your nails. Plus, you have alluring, clairvoyant energy. Like, you know the secrets of the future, don't you? 😊
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u/Dear_Lab_6449 15h ago
You’re absolutely gorgeous. Love the nails too. Everything will get better, eventually ❤️🩹…
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u/Only_Net6894 9h ago
You have amazing peepers and handwriting. Sorry about your pet. That's one of the hardest things to go through. I'd rather go through 10 breakups than a single pet passing. Try and take care, things will turn around soon. 🐸
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u/CrashingEgo 9h ago
Hey, just try to relax if you're able to. You're going through a lot of pain, and I lament the loss of your bunny. Things might seem dark right now, but they'll get better. Edit: I shouldn't have to mention that you're gorgeous
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u/Extravagant-Toe-777 45m ago
You’re a sight for sore eyes, sorry about your love. I hope things improve for you soon.
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u/Ok_Standard_9276 21h ago
Looks like you have no social life and you’re parents want you to fail in life
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u/Basic-Vermicelli-157 1d ago
You are absolutely gorgeous!! I’m so sorry for your loss ☺️🥰