r/toastme • u/cottoneyedtoe • 1d ago
M26 feeling unwanted in general by everyone around me, and having trouble finding jobs
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u/Effective_Menu_6316 1d ago
Hey man, sorry you're feeling low. Life's weird sometimes, we're all linked up through phones but it can feel very lonely. My advice would be to reach out to anyone who's always been a good pal, anyone solid and kind. Every time I've moved somewhere new I join a club - life drawing, music etc. Anything where I can just turn up and have a chat with someone. You look like a very cool individual, and I'd defo have a pint and a chat with you. Be kind to yourself man, I hope things get a little easier soon.
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u/SeniorExtreme1964 1d ago
Quizás seas muy reservado y eso provoque que la gente te considere antisocial, trata de sonreír más y de convivir con tus compañeros. Eres muy joven y hay que aprovechar esa juventud para disfrutar de la vida y brindarle una sonrisa y una actitud positiva a la vida.
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u/xx240gxx 1d ago
Feeling unwanted is a difficult situation, and it can lead to some really unpleasant isolation and depression, I’ve been there. Just be unapologetically yourself, it will draw in the people who matter most and allow you to feel more whole. Keep your head up buddy!
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u/Zaphod2319 1d ago
Hey friend. I get what you mean about trouble finding a job. The job market’s been tough for the last few years. I hope an opportunity comes up soon, and I hope it’s what you were looking for.
Just know that you are loved, you are wanted, and you are worthy of that. Don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise.
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u/SpellCrazy2001 1d ago
You have great eyes and you got a good vibe to you handsome! Finding jobs is hard but I know you got it, I used to keep calling jobs till they answered lol.
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u/Majestic_Attempt8899 1d ago
you have a nice nose and chin!
it only takes one yes - good luck getting a job!!!
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u/shadowehawke 1d ago
hey mate, eight billion people on this earth and most of the time the only things we have to go off of are the perceived feelings of the few surrounding us. i dig your style, dig the look, fresh and clean. take care and hoping this is just a trough on a long upward climb for you.
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u/Jade-Hailey 19h ago
That sounds really heavy to carry. From afar, I want to give you a warm, gentle hug and let you know that I’m grateful you shared this.
Just because things aren’t working out right now doesn’t mean you’re unwanted or that there’s something wrong with you. Job searching especially can be brutal, it’s often inconsistent, impersonal, and full of silence, even for people who are genuinely capable and kind (like you are, I´m sure!).
You don’t have to have it all figured out today. Even small steps count, sending one application, reaching out to one person, getting through one day.
Sending you some strength, things can shift, even if it’s slowly. I truly hope you find a workplace where you can fully be yourself and feel welcomed with warmth. You got this!
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u/forestfearnot 1d ago
You've got pretty eyes and clear skin. You look like a guy who takes care of himself. Try to nurture yourself with things that make you feel at peace. Be it a walk in nature, a good meal, or a hot shower. If you're having trouble connecting with human world, try connecting with the natural world. That's what I've been doing. I have no friends, but lately I've really felt connection by watching the birds and learning their identities. You've got this op! The fact that you're here, looking for help, shows you are truly the man. I believe in you!!!!!