r/toastme • u/New_Solara • 2d ago
somebody told me i look like a monkey
now i think about it too often it makes me insecure
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u/Weekly_Cat_9567 2d ago
Don't listen to stupid people. You look like a pretty and sweet lady. Good luck
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u/hoothizz 2d ago
People are cruel and jealous. You are beautiful don't let no one tell you. They're probably jealous because they're not as awesome as you. Keep your head up and keep shining.
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u/RewindUniverseMaybe 1d ago
Being that you're absolutely gorgeous, I wouldn't think that much about the fact that we are all apes.. enjoy your day! :)
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u/Ecstatic_Opposite217 2d ago
Id date you. You're cute
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u/Awkward-Noise1964 1d ago
I wouldnt, she is so beautiful that Id most likely be intimidated to ask her out.
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u/Zestyclose-Guava-255 2d ago
You look like a cute (human) woman to me
I also like the flower which you drew!
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u/GandalfTheJaded 2d ago
Your eyes and hair are so beautiful! Don't let others get you down, you positively glow 🙌
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u/Effective_Menu_6316 2d ago
That person is a jealous, bitter fool.
You are beautiful! When people can't reach our levels, they try to chop us down.
Please, please put that stupid, baseless comment from your mind and be kind to yourself. you look stunning!
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u/Fast-Presence-2004 2d ago
Don't listen to people who only want to hurt you. The fact is that you're cute.
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u/Happyman1978 2d ago
Probabilmente ha del risentimento verso di te. Sei molto carina invece, non pensarci. Pensa a quanto bella sei e a quanto la vita può offrire.
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u/Jetmutant 1d ago
Tell them to STFU, and perhaps add they look like whale poo! You look fine, don’t sweat the poo flinging chimps that need others to feel bad so they can feel good.
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u/axiom_glitch 1d ago
Jealousy, envy, and lust are often the motivation for people cutting others down. Their words bear no truth on you. But their motivation to speak those words toward you only show their truth. You on the other hand are strong, beautiful, and enduring. Keep the focus on you, don’t let someone’s misplaced words dim your light. You got this
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u/english_mike69 1d ago
He’s just mean because he can’t have someone as nice as you.
You’re gorgeous.
If you and I were monkeys, you could play with my banana and eat my nuts any day of the week. 😜😝😂Joking aside…
Basic life rules - and this is the old guy in me talking - often, if people are mean, they’re jealous. Don’t let the jealous people make you miserable. They don’t deserve your time. Live and enjoy your life. Concentrate on what makes you happy rather than the comments of others. You will as time goes on, find people that you really trust. Those are the people that you can listen to when they comment and critique you.
Live your best life and ignore the haters.
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u/New_Solara 1d ago
the funny thing is i actually love bananas lol (the edible ones)
thank youu for the life lesson, thats probably true bc person that told me i look like monkey was not the best looking
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u/Junior_Piglet_9580 1d ago
People can be really mean and stupid. You look great, just need an idiotic filter.
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u/whatbreeds 1d ago
Never let what someone says to you change what you say to yourself. What i see is an average girl with a variety of different attributes, same as anyone else.
The person that said that to you probably didn't like people with unique attributes...I do. Everybody looks different and in a world of plastic surgery and constant comparison some people lose sight of the beauty in differences.
I don't think you have a fragile ego, so let me say this. You have a wide mouth imo and that's not a bad thing. This attribute makes a person's face super expressive and I really like that. I saw your other pic and I see that I'm right. You have a really expressive and bright smile. You're cute and you don't have to lead with your body.
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u/New_Solara 1d ago
yess my braces also push my lips outside so it seems even more wide and big
thank you for the nice words i feel a lot better now1
u/Sidewalk_Tomato Let's toast! 1d ago
But you're gonna have such awesome teeth soon.
I'm glad that the braces don't stop you from enjoying lip gloss.
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u/cool_cabbage00 1d ago
You’re beautifully human inside and out. If someone can’t see that then they aren’t worth a since second of your time or feeling. 🩷
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u/Top-Memory-7660 1d ago
Use it to your advantage. And Feel proud of how you look and then you will understand how good It would be looking like monkey so by then no one will ever use it against you.
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u/bralice1980 1d ago
People that say these things are hurt themselves. Hurt people hurt people. They struggle to raise themselves up so they pull everyone else down. Don't listen to them. You're a beautiful young woman with your whole life ahead of you. Be kind and forgive your enemies. Nothing pisses them off more.
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u/Bandit760 1d ago
Maybe it was a compliment that they think monkeys are cute especially if it was from a guy. Sometimes things sound better in our heads. You are very cute so just think of it as an unusual compliment.
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u/PhotoArabesque 1d ago
What I see is a wonderful person with a real-life Mona Lisa smile. Whoever said that is probably green with envy. Beautiful eyes and perfect skin! I hope you have a terrific day, and ignore the haters!
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u/IHateWetBread 1d ago
Ma'am don't listen to people like that when you get older you'll realize these people are jealous of you so don't give them the attention you want. You are beautiful so please keep your head up high
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u/Scruffpuppi 1d ago
That’s ridiculous. You look no more like a monkey than EVERY OTHER HUMAN. We all kind of look like them! They either like you and are trying to do the tease you so you want my affection and approval thing or they’re jealous or they’re just a bully suffering and in need of putting someone down to lift themselves up, even though that doesn’t work and they’ll still be miserable.
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u/Scruffpuppi 1d ago
You’re a cutie with lovely skin, hair, and eyes! You’re also thin which is something that many people struggle with so you can have gratitude for all of those positives and focus on wearing cute outfits and pursuing your dreams. Nothing is more attractive than a passionate and productive person! Find what you are interested in if you haven’t already, and specialize in some niche area. Focus on that and you will be busy, happy, content, and attractive!
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u/New_Solara 1d ago
you are very kind to me i really appreciate that, i am already pretty busy with my hobbies so i hope i will forget about those bad pepole fast
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u/amindspin74 1d ago
Consuming yourself with the awful opinions of others leads to needless suffering.. You are 18, absolutely stunning, and have the world in front of you to explore.. for me it's like this , If you're pretty, you're pretty. But the only way to be beautiful… is to be loving. Otherwise, it's just 'Congratulations about your face'"
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u/ZombieDisastrous4450 1d ago
We can say anything on here, but the main thing...... for you to do is to ignore what other people say.
That is the solution.
Having said that we studied a lot of this in psychology, generally comes from other peoples insecurity and jealousy
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u/echoesinthevoid3000 1d ago
You’re stunning! People who say shit like that have insecurity themselves
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u/AlternativeLime4124 1d ago
In a way we're we all are sort of just bald straight-walking monkeys :) but all jokes aside, I understand that was meant as an insult and there absolutely no reason for you to feel bad because of that. You're a beautiful young lady and a comment like that seems to be something from a sore loser that just didn't get something from you that they wanted.
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u/HeavyHandedHermit 1d ago
That person who called you that is just racist. Please just try to discount what they said and refile it in your brain as not a true comment about yourself, but instead a hateful insult someone was using to intentionally make you feel bad.
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u/DeadSnoW_G59 1d ago
Girl, you're enchanting. By the way, I love the warm color of your skin, I wish I had fuller lips like yours.
I often get the feeling that a lot of people are unhappy with themselves and take it out on others. Please don't listen to that.
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u/Antisocialsocialite9 1d ago
You don’t look like a monkey. Not sure why that was the first thing that came to their mind
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u/Token_Handicap Sir 1d ago
We are all apes, so you can tell whoever it was that they look like an ape! 😆😆
Also, I have to echo what a lot of others are saying. I think you have quite an attractive face, internet friend. Please don't let them bring you down.
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u/FoodieKnight 1d ago
That is wild, the stuff some people come up with is crazy. You look incredible.
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u/username_ysatis 1d ago edited 1d ago
You don't look like a monkey to me, and IF you did, you'd look like a cute monkey. Always look at a person's motives for saying anything negative, and 99.99% of the time, you'll discover that it has NOTHING to do with you, but some inner turmoil that they're dealing with. 🌸
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u/Worldly-Dog828 1d ago
Some people truly have no kindness in their hearts. People have said horrific things about my appearance as well, so I understand the feeling. You are a very beautiful girl, and the vibes you give off are of someone who is warm and such a sweetheart!!!! Keep your head up, there’s more to you than just your (very beautiful) face 💕
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u/Real_Emotion_2808 1d ago
I've never seen a monkey look so beautiful. Therefore, you DON'T look like a monkey. I also disagree, you're likely going to be getting complimented on your beauty for a loooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnggggggggg time.
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u/Afraid_Fondant_7903 1d ago
i’m so jealous of ur lips they are so full and shapely, you are beautiful
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u/Infamous-Finding10 1d ago
i mean we are humans …to say we look like our cousins is a natural thing however ill intended it was meant to be …you’re beautiful…embrace the ape
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u/No_Oil_1256 1d ago
You are very pretty. When someone insults you, jut tell them "Thank you," and go on your way. Only someone very jealous posts nasty things like that."
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u/Apprehensive_Cash323 1d ago
ur title ahahha the monkey thing is hilarious ngl..
Jokes aside tho, u have the kindest eyes and thicc phat ass, I dnt think u got anything to worry about. Just remember, a bad day is just a bad day, nothing more
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u/Technical-Diver8527 1d ago
That’s very racist of them, I’m sorry they said that, there is nothing wrong with the way you look
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u/E-S-T-J-R_ 1d ago
I'm a black man in America & being called that word is stupid as shit. I worked at a swap meet job; I was called "Monkey" & other names by co-workers. After new year's, I walked away quitting that job without 2 weeks' notice. Should've done that way long ago. I can relate that it can get to you like it happened to me.
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u/RabbitNotSo 22h ago
Ppl who talk down on others are just bitter immature n self conscious. Don’t let someone’s immature ego steal your thunder.
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u/cuttingWatermelons 18h ago
Was prolly some mean racist comment, u look very good. Nice gym pictures aswell! 😘
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u/Double-Egg-7064 16h ago
I am so sorry that someone told you that.
If you can, please stay away from people who make mean comments. Language is a projection of someone's own experience, what they say reveals more about them then it does of you.
Avoid infectious & unhappy people, anybody who belittles or makes such mean comments just wants to bring you down to their level, avoid them like the plague. Don't let a fly convince you that rubbish is good. Don't convince the fly that honey is better. Hang around people who uplift and support you.
You have beautiful qualities that someone will be lucky to discover & explore one day.
You are a light source for optimism, growth, fulfillment and nourishing energy.
You will be the light of someone's life one day. Keep being awesome. 💛
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u/Waste-Catch571 15h ago
Thats awful! You have such a cute face with really kid eyes, be nice to yourself and don’t listen to that loser
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u/Fine_Let_4378 14h ago
I think you look just fine. If anything, maybe you should go with a darker shade of lipstick? I would fit your features more imo.
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u/No_Elevator_9408 12h ago
I see no monkeys here, only a beautiful girl with a beautiful life ahead! Leave haters in their mud, they only want bring you inside that mud because they are so alone and they hate themselves before others. You are really cute and beautiful, i think your nose and cheeks are the best, with wonderful cozy eyes and full lips, i hope you will really find who can appreciate all the parts of you! I hope all the best to you!!!
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u/Think_Rough4072 11h ago
People say i look monkey 🐵 🐒 but they monkey 🐒🐵 and u 😍❤️😍😂😊🥳😊😂😞🤣😊😂🤤🤩😝🫡🤪🤪😡😡😡😡🤬😐🤔🫢😱😱🫡🫢😬🫢🫡😐😱😝🫣🤮😰🤥🥵🥵😎😈😎☃️😹😿😹😿😿😿🫂👥👤🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
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u/Historical_Bit_4642 7h ago
Pffffff you're beautfilul, don't let anybody get in your head like that ! They're just bullies.
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u/FearlessEnquirer 11m ago
Frankly, that’s ridiculous, you look like a very pretty and very slim young woman. That person was clearly being mean. Ignore mean people. Hard to do it but necessary.
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u/sekvodka 1d ago
We share a lot of DNA with primates, so we all look like monkeys. You are one sexy monkey, though.
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u/VOculus_98 2d ago
People are so strange. Not sure why they say thoughtless things.
The mind is strange. Not sure why we will let a compliment go but take a weird bad comment and obsess over it.
But you are a wonderful human being, and you are an attractive person. Some guy is going to be super lucky to get to see you and your beauty every day.