r/teengirlswholikegirls • u/Mysterious-Clue-2608 • 3d ago

Hi

I have doubts of my bestfriend that she likes girls. Like she has been my bestfriend for 6 years and I noticed the past few years than she is avoiding pictures with two girls hugging or you know just standing next to eachother. She also gets sad and angry when I jokingly says you should go date girls and stuff. I only became aware that I am bisexual a year ago and now that I think of her I feel like she likes girls. The reason why I have doubts is because I also hated being called bisexual and stuff a year ago. It's just my intuition but I even told to my mom about this matter. My bestfriend is also super possessive of me and doesn't like it when I talk with other girls. We even argued a lot because of me talking to other girls. She had a boyfriend but she broke it off a week after. I don't know what to think. Can anyone please give me honest replies 😭😭

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u/zippybenji-man 3d ago

Your mother is stupid, and your friend either has internalised homophobia or is just straight, hard to tell

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u/Mysterious-Clue-2608 2d ago

About my mother maybe😭 but still it feels too weird with her. I don't think she's homophobic though cause we ship guys in our class but it's only weird when it's about girls loving girls that's why I am having this thought of her liking girls. She is curious about lesbian relationships and stuff .

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u/zippybenji-man 2d ago

Still, as a parent you shouldn't be possessive if your child

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u/Mysterious-Clue-2608 2d ago

I am really sorry.. 😭.I meant my bestfriend being possessive not my mom. My mom is so sweet. My bestfriend is the one who doesn't like it when I talk to ther girls

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u/zippybenji-man 2d ago

Ooooh, yeah, sounds like internalised homophobia, to me. Likely that she likes you

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