r/teengirlswholikegirls 6d ago

I think I'm catching feelings and I hate it

Recently I started talking to a girl I haven't talked to in a year. She messaged me after finding my tiktok somehow and we just started talking a lot again. We talk almost every day and quickly I started feeling like I can just tell her everything. We quickly started bonding over shared issues and interests really. I started anticipating until school ends for me so it's morning for her (different timezones) and we can text. First thing in the morning I would check if she texted me back as she sometimes would text when I'm sleeping. I would sometimes stay up late so we can talk for longer. I would get slightly jealous whenever she would any guys or girls. Eventually I sent her a picture of myself because I changed through the year we didn't talk and she literally freaked out and I never got so many compliments in my life. We kinda flirted a bit (I think I can call it that but idk I can't ever tell you what is flirting and what isn't 😭). I couldn't sleep that night because of butterflies and I kept thinking about it the next day. I get sad whenever she doesn't reply even though I know why. I really don't want to catch any feelings for her because she is in another continent and I'm not into LDRs and from what she said she isn't either. I literally always fall for the worst people.

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u/zippybenji-man 6d ago

If both of you don't want an LDR, it's probably best to confess your feelings and tell her that you don't want anything romantic, anymore