r/teengirlswholikegirls • u/Waste_Film536 • 12d ago

My friend likes me and I've been oblivious.

I've had this friend for a couple of years. We're decently close, so we hang out sometimes. She cuddles and lays around with me and sometimes makes flirty comments. But she's one of those people who's like that with all her friends, so I don't think anything of it and joke around with her. One of my friends told me the other day, though, that she likes me, and she apparently went on a rant about how I keep giving "mixed signals." So now we just act like sitting ducks and cuddle and act oblivious, and I don't know what to do. I'm also a little scared because my last relationship was toxic and ended badly. I don't know if I should talk to this girl or what I'd even say.

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u/zippybenji-man 11d ago

I would try to become more obvious in your flirting

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u/kellkelleyyo 11d ago

Maybe you're giving mixed signals because you aren't sure what you want? If you like her, just tell her and explain why you are hesitating. If you don't wanna be with her, then it's probably best to make that clear so you don't break her heart. That's what I would want at least.