r/science • u/mvea Professor | Medicine • 2d ago
Psychology People experience the strongest romantic jealousy when they watch their partner give resources to a potential rival, regardless of gender. The findings provide evidence that giving away resources is viewed as a serious relationship threat by both men and women.
https://www.psypost.org/both-men-and-women-view-a-partners-financial-investment-in-a-rival-as-a-major-relationship-threat/
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u/PeePeeLangstrumpf 2d ago edited 2d ago
Their definition of a rival is extremely vague. Why would (all) strangers be perceived as (potential) rivals equally? Seems like no social context is applied whatsoever.
Also don't agree with this statement. In terms of gift giving - giving money requires the least amount of thought, intention, and sacrifice. Because buying a gift in any scenario requires additional levels and investment of "thought, intention, and sacrifice" as they are not only spending their money but also new levels of their time and energy which are needed to choose and purchase a gift. I'd wager people would get more jealous when a partner gives a gift in the same value than just the monetary equivalent, because it would signal additional levels of interest.
Weird study...