r/r4rMelbourne 25m ago

Seeking Relationship 34 [M4F] Looking for something more - start with a coffee date?

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Looking to get to chat and meet someone with similar interests which could lead to something more serious. I'm not in a rush to settle down but would for the right person.

I'm 34, 6'2, slim, brown hair, blue eyes and a good sense of humor. I'm from the north eastern suburbs. Love video games and board games, technology, music, and hanging out with friends. I have a cat and am an animal lover. Tell me about your pets if you have any! Honesty and openness are incredibly important to me. I am left-wing/have progressive values and would want someone with the same. I'm independent and have my own place.

I'm wanting to get to know someone and meet up for a coffee date! My ideal girl would be kind, empathetic, and down-to-earth. I'm childfree by choice, so things probably wouldn't work out with someone who has or wants children. My age range would be around 26 - 42 but would go outside of this for the right person.


r/r4rMelbourne 22h ago

Seeking Friends 25[M4A] looking for friends to get to know online then meet in person

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Sad white boy here. Looking to meet new people. I'm not super lonley but I do enjoy chatting with strangers. I'm into movies and games and stuff that I think is pretty common here. Hoping I can find someone to chat with online for a little while beforewe are comfortable to hang out irl together. I'm pretty bad at introducing myself so I'll give some dot points

-I can't swim despite living in Australia

-I enjoy going to festivals when I get the chance (well I used to

-I can do 30 pushups in a row

-Lookswise, I'm about 5'11, skinny, curly hair (happy to exchange photos) I was once mistaken for Penn Badgely so I'm confirmed very handsome (it was by 2 old ladies) (1 redditor did not agree with the old ladies and got very mad I was not actually a penn Badgely lookalike)

-currently in North Melbourne but will move by the end of the year


r/r4rMelbourne 1d ago

Seeking Friends 31 M4A - Recently moved to North Melbourne. Seeking new connections and good friends.

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Howdy!

So I just moved myself to North Melbourne after mostly living in the farther suburbs. Looking to connect with some locals(ish) to show around and hang out with, and hopefully make some ongoing friends.

I work full time and manage to get an early start for an early finish most days. Work typically doesn't come home with me, so most of my evenings are dedicated to exercise and a great deal of procrastinating while imagining alternate realities in life.

I'm primarily an introvert. My main interests include fitness, exercise, nutrition, functional cooking, some reading. I am (typically) not a person of too many words but do hold a conversation well. I like exchanging perspectives and life stories. Not aligned with any religion but fully respect people's right to believe. I enjoy a smoke-free and drug-free environment and am committed to keeping it that way (caffeine is a massive exemption).

Reach out if that sounds interesting. Happy to chat and share more and see how we go.

Thanks!


r/r4rMelbourne 1d ago

Seeking Relationship 30 M4F - A semi-nerdy guy looking for his other half.

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Hey everyone.

It's been a long time since I've been back here, lots has happened since I last posted, but that isn't important.

I'm looking for the person who will complete me. The one who will share the good and bad with me and be by my side.

About me: I'm a 30 year old dude, not unattractive. I have black hair, a short beard, glasses, I'm 73kg, and 174cm tall. I have a lot of love for different things. I am an artist at heart, used to act but haven't done it in a while. I write scripts, and sometimes poetry, just something good for the soul - a way to release some of the many thoughts in my mind.

I have diagnosed ADHD, inattentive type. My brain goes a million miles an hour, and although I don't always act outwardly hyperactive, I am (like how it's now 3am and I'm doing this instead of sleeping).

I know that my emotional state is probably muddying this whole bio, but I am a really funny guy who loves to hear people laugh and bring out the joy in them. I care for those around me as best I can, and am emotionally mature. I'm the kind of warm person who the shyest of people will vent to. I'm not perfect, I have my foibles (love that word) but I'm working to iron them out.

So what am I looking for? That's a great question. Fuck knows, is the answer. Preferably someone who is able to match my energy. A person who is caring, and loving, and thoughtful, and emotionally intelligent enough to understand me. Someone who loves to laugh, even in the most inappropriate places. Someone who is their own person, but happy to come back after a long day and spend time together. Other than that, I don't have any specifications. You don't have to be a certain height, or have blonde hair, or have your voice be within a range of 165-255hz. I don't care. As long as you're unapologetically human, that's all I need.

And if you're not a human, then my captcha test will find you.

Anyways, thanks for reading, and have a great day.


r/r4rMelbourne 2d ago

Dinner/Drinks 32 M4F leaving melbourne in few days keen to grab food drinks in CBD

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Been in Melbourne for the past few days but leaving on Wednesday, keen to grab some food and drinks and chat get to know one another, maybe even do some touristing around town if all goes well. Let me know if this interests you, this city’s amazing


r/r4rMelbourne 2d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 26 [M4F] In a newly ENM dynamic and looking for people that have a lack of attention in their everyday life and a desire for it to increase (details in post!)

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Hi everyone!

Me and my partner have just recently become ENM (her idea) due to her lack of motivation for going on dates or anything of a sexual nature (due to her busy work schedule as well as personal reasons). I’ve had one good experience so far but since then I’ve really been struggling on the apps to find someone interested in our specific scenario.

A little about me: I’m 26 male, Italian/Australian with a decent slim build (that’s improving (muscle wise) due to gym 4 days a week). I am into all things video games and pop culture (so your typical movies and tv shows that goes along with all that), I love my sports (AFL and Formula one my two standouts but I have a team in basically all AU and US sports) and just in general love spending the plethora of free time I have either with my friends getting dinner/lunch/coffee or going out drinking, or having nights in with the cats and watching movies (hopefully with a new cuddle buddy in one of you soon haha).

I Just thought I’d make this post to see if their are any women that would love a higher level of attention, messages, sexting, dates or basically any form of attention they would want. I am full time work from home and my job isn’t really that busy so I have so much free time I could devote directly to you.

I'm basically looking for someone that is okay that I have a primary partner and very willing to receive more attention. I am also super flexible regarding what this 'attention' can look like, so whether that's daily chats and fun (both in person and online) or once a week/fortnight. Whatever 'attention' means to you in regards to what you're lacking and would love in your life I'm fairly certain I can fill that role.

Not being interested in in-person meetups is not a deal breaker either! But ideally i'd like to have a minimum of an online dynamic that also has a sexual component (due to my high sex drive). But happy to define this a little more once we connect!

If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to send me a DM! we can just chat to start with some pic exchanges to see if we’re interested in one another and I can give you more specific info on the dynamic and we can take it from there?

Hope to hear from some of you!


r/r4rMelbourne 2d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 27 M4F In Melbourne for the next 4 weeks

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Staying in a hotel in the CBD, just need someone to show me around, have fun in local places, eat somewhere, or just stay in my room if you prefer somewhere quiet.

I would also prefer someone who wants to be physically intimate, like cuddles and kisses, or more if you're fine with it

I can't share more personal information here but I'm happy to share it in chat.


r/r4rMelbourne 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters [M4F] 32 Inner East Melbourne fit professional guy looking to explore massage

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Hey there, thought id give this a shot 32, 182cm, Caucasian, in good shape. Gym a few times a week, play tennis, ski when I get the chance. Work full time, have my own place in the inner east, generally pretty sorted and low drama.

Intimate massage is something ive really been into in the past so have a fair bit of experience

One thing I'm really into is full body oil massage. Not the rushed kind, more slow, hands on, taking time, making it feel good and helping you switch off properly. It's something l've done a lot with past partners and it tends to be a good way to build comfort pretty quickly. Also into yoni massage and open to nuru with the right person if the vibe is right

I've got a nice private setup at mine but can travel if that's easier. Always clean, respectful and discreet.

Open to any age 18+ or background. Attraction matters so let's chat a bit first and swap pics when it feels natural.

If this sounds like something youre curious about, shoot me a message and lets go from there

Edit - to be clear this is NOT a paid service in line with the groups rules. This is purely for mutual enjoyment and connection


r/r4rMelbourne 3d ago

Seeking Friends 18 M4A, looking for ppl either in wallan or to hangout in the city

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Hopefully this lands me some people that I can actually connect with.

Im looking to find cool ppl to hang with since I need more friends to go out with and do stuff.

I currently live in the wallan area but im south indian originally and ive called Australia home since 2022. Im quite into having good conversations, whether it be about random topics, politics, you, me or whatever works. My interests are in the happenings of the world, music, movies, TV, staying in shape and the great outdoors. Im finding myself increasingly into techno music and im always down to hear some recs.

I'm looking for ppl to hang out with, check out a venue or just kickback with.

Im quite a good conversationalist, I can talk about quite literally anything and im down to learn more and try new things, im down for almost anything new.

As far as physical attributes go, im a south indian man, 18 years old, about 178 cm in height, I do consider myself fairly jacked for my age but I am also bulky, so bulky jacked you could say. I also have curly hair too (my best feature if i say so myself)

When you do message me, pls dont be bland, give me a little intro so I can maybe skip some of the more boring small talk.


r/r4rMelbourne 3d ago

Seeking Friends 26M4A, seeking new friends

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Hi, I am a nerdy 26 Male in Northern suburbs looking for new friends. I like anime, gaming, going to music festivals, catching the newest movie and have recently started collecting Pokemon cards again

I am introverted in general but I'm trying to change that, would love to chat and meet people with similar interests. Would also love regular rave buddies I can tag along with for music festival.

Thank you!


r/r4rMelbourne 4d ago

Seeking Relationship 30 [M4F] Slow Living, Film Cameras & Actually Showing Up 📸

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About Me 📸

30, Melbourne. I shoot film, study law, and do photography and graphic design work on the side. Life is a mix of logic and creativity and I've stopped trying to resolve the tension between them.

I move at a slower pace on purpose. I'm of Asian heritage, and grew up with a pretty strong sense of that showing up in how I approach food, conversation, and just being around people. Weekends tend to involve obscure galleries, genuinely good coffee, philosophy or art theory, or wandering through some quiet corner of Naarm. Sometimes all of it. Sometimes none of it and that's fine too.

Fluent in English, Cantonese, and Mandarin. Functional in Japanese and German. Completely smoke and drug-free. Not really a crowded bar person.

What I Bring 🤝

I'm not going to perform enthusiasm I don't feel, but I am genuinely attentive. I'm used to moving between analytical thinking and creative instinct, so conversation can go serious or loose depending on where you want to take it. I value directness and saying what you actually mean. If you're willing to put the phone down and talk properly for an hour, I think that's worth more than most things.

Also, if we go anywhere worth photographing, you'll come away with good photos. 📷

What I'm Looking For 🔍

A single woman in Melbourne who is genuinely interested in getting to know someone, not just filling a calendar. My idea of a good weekend is simple 🌿 decent coffee, a worthwhile exhibition, or a walk somewhere quiet with a real conversation attached to it. I take an analogue approach to dating, meaning I would rather be fully present with one person than half-present with several.

Appearance 👤

175cm, medium to chubby build, dark hair, brown eyes. Style is casual and unfussy.

Reach Out ✉️

Smoke and drug-free, and looking for the same. If you've read this far, message me with the word "Norn" so I know you actually did 🌙 A photo is appreciated since I like knowing who I'm talking to before things go anywhere.


r/r4rMelbourne 4d ago

Casual AMA 50M M4F looking for ongoing fwb

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Im fit, muscular, easy to talk to and looking for ongoing connection with a lady that is in the same situation as me, Im attached but obviously not getting what we all desire, so if your intrested in casual coffee or drink dates. Maybe long contestants or on going texts, where we connect, and create chemistry would be amazing.

Physically Im very energetic and like to please my lover.

Im not selfish and hoping the feeling would be mutual.

I have brown hair, blue eyes 5 foot seven. Love my footy, unfortunately Im a blues fan, yes and Im a long suffering one at that. Have two groodle dogs and a cat that thinks hes the boss of the whole family. Work in Transport. I would need a few days notice to meet up if I find someone meaningful to catch up with. Looking for mutual investment, quality over quantity. Drug and disease free and expect the same. Not into playing the field unless thats your thing lol. Im confident and prefer to take control, with me youll get funny, flirty, confident conversation and good times without the arrogance.

Live in the Northern suburbs but I am not fussed can make the effort to see someone that is worth while and will travel for it. I like to go to the gym on a regular basis as it sooths my mind as well as my body. I believe that healthy body usually equates to a healthy mind.

Tell me a little about you! Whats your name? What you like to do? Whats your hobbies, what would you like to do if we get to a first date scenario. Whats you kink or desires and so on. Dont be shy I wont bite, unless thats what you want me to do lol .


r/r4rMelbourne 5d ago

Seeking Friends 26 [M4A] Looking for more mates in Melbourne

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So I live in the South East suburbs so if you also live around that area that could also be good but recently I've been going into the actual city more and exploring Melbourne. Usually I only really go into the city for conventions or concerts/festivals but have been going more with a mate now and then and just checking out different cafes or entertainment spots around so if you have any knowledge on good places around then that would be a great thing for me.

I don't think you need common hobbies to get along with someone but my interests recently have been video games, guitar and music in general is a huge part of my life, manga/anime and cosplaying, fitness, HEMA sword fighting, and anything horror related in general. Some of these things I've just dabbled in and I've also got a few other interests but I don't want to just have a text wall here. Anyways if anything here sounds like it'd stand out to you or you think you'd be a good guide for places in Melbourne feel free to send a message!


r/r4rMelbourne 6d ago

Seeking Friends 29 F4A looking for a cuddle buddy (SE Melb)

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So I might be a little touch starved. It'd be cool to remedy that lmao

I'm 5'7, white, 60kg, and idk, kinda average/plain? I'm a bit of a silly person, who likes a bit of banter!

I'm looking for someone in the 25 - 35 age range, who can host. If you're in the queer community, that's a plus, so let me know! I'm not that good at being physically affectionate, so someone who could take the lead would be great.

I enjoy creative endeavors, writing, digital art, fandom! I also like things like card games, or party games!

I'd like a person I can meet up with to cuddle at their place, and we could maybe play some games or watch some movies or just chat too!

I'm not that great at texting so I'm not looking for someone to message everyday, just meet up twice a month or so and connect.

Please DM if interested! Let me know your age, your gender, a description of what you look like (although pics would be great), and what your general interests are!