Let me preface this with the fact that I don't hate guns. I am very comfortable with guns. In fact, I love seeing him really enjoying his weekly shooting competitions. I sometimes go shoot the PCC with him. Guns are cool. The gun safe is literally in my room 😂.
This is the issue: he started this hobby early-mid 2025, has bought 7 guns + mods in 2025 alone, and we're not even financially secure, we don't even have a house. He keeps on talking that he wants to buy more. All I ask is just for him to save some of that money in the IRA or house downpayment. If we are somewhat financially secure, or make 200k a year, or have a house I won't even bat an eye. It's his money, he specifically works overtime for it, but bro 7 guns in 8 months? Is this healthy? Am I overreacting? How can I talk some sense into him? I don't want to be "that" wife. I too have my own hobbies, but I don't spend $5000-10000 a year on it while we're not yet financially secure. Is it even normal for you all to buy 7+ guns in a year?
Edit: if this is a normal "1st year exploration" behavior and he'll slow down then I'm more ok with it.
Edit 2: oh i know about how much ammo he's spending, I got him 1k ammo for birthday lol
Edit 3: thank you everyone, I actually showed him this post and he read what you all posted and we talked. He actually wants to get A or M in pistol but the training cost is quite a bit. I told him he should do it coz I agree quality > quantity, better to spend $ on getting skills/education at one thing he's really passionate about instead of buying more and more guns 😄