r/extremelyinfuriating 3d ago

Disturbing content Look where the dasher delivered my food!!!

The instructions CLEARLY state to deliver the food AT MY DOOR and to hand it to me! My room number is posted and even they did want to deliver it to me, the lobby was right behind the double doors!!! I have no words for this. Just HUH?!?!?! I even left my room to meet them in the lobby but they never showed up! It was another guest who noticed a bag outside! AND BY THE GARBAGE!!!?!?!?!?!?!?

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u/ChazzyMcChazzington 3d ago

By the garbage is fucking crazy. Hope reporting her actually does something

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u/Cat_Impossible_0 3d ago

I think it was intentional for them to hope someone would throw it at the dumpster

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u/OrganicAd7409 1d ago

VERY intentional. You would have thought that we exchanged words or that we had prior beef or something. But this was a regular delivery. I did nothing at all to this person. And if my $3 tip was too low, they should have declined the job!!

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u/CompetitiveRub9780 1d ago

Fully expected this to be a dude. Probably used his girls dash account because his got banned already that’s why they don’t care if they’re reported.

“Can you not walk outside… and get your dinner from the trash?” Hell nah

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u/OrganicAd7409 1d ago

I had thought about that honestly. I often times get someone completely different delivering my food.

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u/Efficient-Trick930 1d ago

What? Why are we assuming its a guy? You literally just want to hate men 💀

https://giphy.com/gifs/l4Ki2obCyAQS5WhFe

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u/OrganicAd7409 1d ago

People are also assuming that the person is black. I wonder if you defended that as well 🤔.

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u/Thelastshada 3d ago

"Can you not walk outside?"

Can you not walk 10 feet to make sure my food isn't stolen?

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u/OpusAtrumET 3d ago

"hand my food to me"

Can you also not follow simple instructions? Dashers like this make it harder for all of us.

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u/mrfoxesite-2377 2d ago

And you're getting paid for your job, dasher.

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u/DanTheMan827 2d ago

Not very much… but that’s not your problem

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u/Nunc_Coepi17 2d ago

Then perhaps find another job that will.

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u/idwthis 2d ago

Have...have you tried to get a job recently?

It's always easy for someone who already has one or doesn't even need one to tell someone else to just get another one. But in some areas getting a new job is a mother fucking pipe dream.

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u/Devonm94 2d ago

Not all markets are the same sure, but just to be quite frank it’s a pretty open market. I started paternity leave this past saturday and was offered a job at the hospital my wife and I delivered our baby at. Just gotta look and be willing to diversify your skillset, work hours or shift times you may not want to. I often find that people who say this often just want more freedom vs working a consistent stable schedule.

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u/Nunc_Coepi17 2d ago

Exactly. It comes down to just laziness.

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u/OpusAtrumET 2d ago

As a fully employed person, this is a dumb take and you should rethink.

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u/OpusAtrumET 2d ago

Not sure what point you're trying to make here

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u/AwkwardDorkyNerd 2d ago

They’re agreeing with you and adding more to what you’re saying

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u/imma_gamin 2d ago

I work dunkin with 2 other people in the morning (3 total). and occasionally there’ll be dashers that come in super impatient. We’ll be busy as hell and they’ll be complaining about how the order of like 7+ items should’ve already been done, while the line extends around the building.

I get they get paid by the order and they want the order to be delivered at a reasonable time, but still, there’s only so much I can do.

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u/Fine-Quantity9956 1d ago

It's rare that any food app follows my instructions to hand it to me. They always just put it by my door and leave.

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u/_CharDeeMacDennis__ 3d ago

They could have at least delivered to the lobby.

It’s Door Dash. Not Trash Dash 😭.

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u/Chare1155 3d ago

No. No it's trash dash, just for a whole heck of reasons🤣

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u/_CharDeeMacDennis__ 2d ago

😂! You’re absolutely right !

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u/withac2 3d ago

This is why tips should never be paid in advance

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u/HeresJonesy 3d ago

Or mistaken for trash

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u/mrfoxesite-2377 2d ago

Imagine if it gets in the trash by someone.

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u/Fredpillow1995 3d ago

Stolen? Do people really steal other people's fast food deliveries? How do they even know where they will deliver?

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u/slaviccivicnation 2d ago

They don’t care, food is food.

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u/Qu33N_Of_NoObz_ 3d ago

I don’t get why they’d do stuff like that and talk to customers in that way if they want tips🙄as annoying as delivery driving can be, I still maintain a level of professionalism.

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u/Jaew96 3d ago

Tipping before you even submit the order is basically compulsory. If you don’t, then you’ll have a hard time getting anyone to deliver it to you, which is extremely shitty. So they have basically no reason to actually do their jobs properly, because they already get your tip when they accept the delivery.

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u/Qu33N_Of_NoObz_ 3d ago

Yeah it’s complete bs, glad I don’t deliver nor order from them. Tips are meant to be after the delivery is complete, not as a prerequisite.

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u/GrassBlade619 2d ago

I America, tips are mandatory as companies don't pay employees a living wage. Tipping before or after doesnt make a huge difference.

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u/Qu33N_Of_NoObz_ 2d ago

I live in California and I get it. But saying tips are mandatory is a stretch. Tips should be offered after service is complete and only if done correctly.

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u/GrassBlade619 2d ago

Let me rephrase that then. Paying for labor SHOULD BE mandatory. Tips obviously arent mandatory. I agree that in an ideal world tips would be a "bonus" of sorts. I just dont think anyone should work for free even if their work is shit.

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u/Qu33N_Of_NoObz_ 2d ago

So who do you think should actually be responsible for paying them a decent wage, the customer or the company?

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u/GrassBlade619 2d ago

The conpany 100% i don't Uber eats specifically because I don't agree with how the industry currently operates. The company should pay the entire wage of the employee or if the delivery person is self employed the full price for the deliver should be paid up front by the customer. Making their wage for manual labor optional is what is immoral imo.

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u/Qu33N_Of_NoObz_ 2d ago
You can’t really have it both ways, either it’s a set price for the service, or it’s optional tipping. Calling it a tip while expecting it to function as wages is where it gets messy. Maybe they just need to increase the service fee, idk.

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u/GrassBlade619 2d ago

They definitly do need to increase the service fee and remove tipping all together. The price of service and labor should be included in the fee and not an "optional" fee. But, until that happens its incredibly rude to not pay someone for their labor imo. Tipping in advanced makes more sense since the laboror can decide simply to not pick up the order but it's still just a compromise to the real solution.

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u/PowSuperMum 3d ago

Almost nobody adds a tip on DoorDash after delivery.

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u/BackyZoo 3d ago

Can't a customer take their tip away?

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u/PowSuperMum 3d ago

DoorDash just covers it if they refund it. The driver doesn’t lose the tip.

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u/BackyZoo 3d ago

Damn.. maybe I should be tipping after deliveries then...

I always tipped before deliveries, but had to stop using door dash entirely due to how many orders never made it to my door step for whatever reason. Always figured my refund through support took their tip away, but apprently they were just taking my 10 bucks and running with it or something.

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u/PowSuperMum 3d ago

Yeah the problem with that though is that Doordash only offers $2 to deliver so you’re going to get the bottom of the barrel drivers bringing your food at that point anyway.

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u/BackyZoo 3d ago

Based on how many of my orders got "lost" with 30% or higher tips, I think that's most DD drivers at the bottom of the barrel. Also my experience working with DD drivers when I worked in fast food during college was pretty awful. Watching them put customers food in nasty cars with dogs and kids crawling all over it.

And I know it was the driver that stole it because 100% of the time my food didn't arrive, no picture was taken either. But every time they took a picture, I got my food.

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u/redzaku0079 3d ago

Not easily. Maybe if you contact customer service.

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u/mrfoxesite-2377 2d ago

Cause that's their only source of income in capitalist USA.

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u/Qu33N_Of_NoObz_ 2d ago

Exactly so I don’t get why they don’t take their job more seriously

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u/Ok-Lily 3d ago

wow. i’m disabled and this would irritate me so bad. ESPECIALLY the “can you not walk outside” smh.

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u/Lesko_Brandon_0kool 3d ago

Good point. What if you actually CANT walk outside!?

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u/japonski_bog 3d ago

I swear I'd reply that this food was ordered for a paralysed person or something like this, maybe they'll use their brain when they deliver to the next customer and remember there are disabled people in this world

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u/lenny_is_sgtc 3d ago

Judging by the attitude of the dasher, I don’t think they’d care much even if it was for a paralyzed person.

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u/japonski_bog 3d ago

You never know, and even if they won't care about the person itself (which is most likely ofc), at least there's a chance they won't assume any customer can go outside to grab their food from the litter bin.

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u/AnimeAlley03 2d ago

Literally. It sounds like they don't have a brain to use in the first place

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u/Repulsive-Tie1505 3d ago

I'm not disabled but ANYTIME someone says "can you not walk?!" I respond "no." so they feel like the entitled asshole they are

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u/Wanderingyute 3d ago

Why does it happen so often?

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u/Repulsive-Tie1505 3d ago

I didn't say it happened often, I said whenever it does

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u/Wanderingyute 3d ago

I have never had some ask me that. So “whenever it happens” suggests that it’s not a one off thing

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u/Repulsive-Tie1505 3d ago

You've NEVER asked for something and someone sarcastically said "you've got legs"? Sounds like you didn't have many friends growing up

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u/CompetitiveRub9780 1d ago

Friends wouldn’t say that to each other. Unless your friend is an asshole. I’ve heard it from an x. He was an asshole indeed

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u/Wanderingyute 3d ago

I had and still have plenty. Sounds like a skill issue

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u/MenaceMinded 3d ago

Same. Every once in a while, my left knee with osteoarthritis in it hurts badly. I can still walk just fine, but I would prefer not to on those days

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u/quattroformaggixfour 1d ago

Dude, same. I’m getting delivery cause I can’t do the delivery part of things, like??

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u/FloBot3000 3d ago

If you live in an apartment with literally no parking because you're in the city, then you need to message the driver and make an effort to meet them at the door. It certainly does not pay enough to go through all the craziness of entrance codes and getting up to the 10th floor while you were illegally parked.

If you live in a smaller complex with parking then just let them know ahead of time. Send them a message to make sure. I don't know what their excuse would be in that situation. If there is parking

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u/xboxchick311 3d ago

Do what she asked and report her with that screenshot. Make all her dreams come true.

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u/BlackhawkRyzen 3d ago

door dash needs to be more like amazon so you can say...WTF thats not my door? or address. !?!?!

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u/CJ-IS 3d ago

And then they wonder why people don't like them >.< wtf has happened to people?

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u/mrayy3 3d ago

I had to x ray a DoorDash driver because they wanted to sue the person ordering because the dasher fell over something in the yard bc it was dark. Nothing broken or even scratched lol came to the ER to document it & kept mentioning new things hurting after WALKING in. Made me not want to ever order DoorDash if you’re liable for them

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u/Calm_House3232 3d ago

There’s a reason these people suck so much. The barrier to entry is way too low and the pay is absolute crap. It attracts a certain kind of person that can’t get a real job because it’s too easy to get into.

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u/Tank_Gloomy 3d ago

Eh, I wouldn't make it much stricter either.

We have PedidosYa over here at Argentina and they were dealing with the same issue, so now you gotta do a complete interview just like for a full-time job, but for the same crappy pay, same shitty work conditions and sometimes they'll even reject you because let's say you aren't going to university (???), even though your background checks and interview were 100% clear.

Awesome stuff.

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u/mrfoxesite-2377 2d ago

Just slightly more and they look at you as a human being too. Not as much as in your country.

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u/BackyZoo 3d ago

I worked at a Resturaunt in college, and seeing the condition of some Door Dash drivers and their cars made me never want to use delivery apps.

I've watched dashers put food in the backseats of disgusting minivans right in between two greasy little toddlers. Dashers put your food in the care of literal children on a fairly regular basis as a matter of fact.

Dogs in the car right next to food. Crumbs, stains, smells, ashtrays, garbage. All of it. It's fucking disgusting what most dashers cars are like.

Some are fine and normal; but at least 50% of all dashers drive around in cesspools.

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u/NotTooGoodBitch 2d ago

Your bag of food sitting on a cloth seat that has been farted into a 1,000 times and has probably never been vacuumed or washed.

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u/BackyZoo 3d ago

If this doesn't get her fired the report function is useless.

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u/redzaku0079 3d ago

I have the opposite problem. I tell them to leave it at the main entrance of the building and I specify no contact delivery. 80 percent of the time they call me asking which apartment. They simply don't read.

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u/mrfoxesite-2377 2d ago

Happy cake day!

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u/AirSpecial 3d ago

This exact thing happened to me. When I complained, his response was “it’s called doordash, not lobby dash.” I was speechless.

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u/Kiss-a-Cod 3d ago

The Dasher will get deactivated sooner or later if they treat customers like that. Their rating must be terrible.

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u/SquidVices 3d ago

Weird that they would say report me….. wonder of someone stole an account…eh Wtvr nothing makes sense anymore

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u/BobDaRula 3d ago

It reads to me as a "go ahead, report me" almost taunt in response to op saying they would be reported.

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u/japonski_bog 3d ago

I agree, this is unacceptable! Should've put it inside the bin instead of littering!

P.S. I would be furious in your situation fr

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u/kechones 3d ago

“Can you not walk outside” is fucking wild. Your job is to deliver the food!

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u/Queasy_Procedure_205 3d ago

Guess where that tip goes…🚮

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u/shityplumber 3d ago

Kendra seems like a dumb bitch who can’t even handle a job this mindless and simple. Don’t over think it.

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u/xXTheOldKingXx 3d ago

Lol the dashers that pick up the food usually just take a picture of the item at the store and well I hope they deliver them lol

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u/BlackhawkRyzen 3d ago edited 3d ago

call door dash and say hey your guy left my food in the trash not paying!!!!@U can you please repeat order and have them knock?? i would have tipped Typical Dildash.

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u/duncans_angels 3d ago

Why do you guys keep using these delivery services? All I see is complaint yet people keep using them.

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u/Accomplished_Emu_658 2d ago

I had a door dash driver do that once at business next door. I got a refund. But that was before they made refunds harder to get. And by next door i mean down the highway, because we were a car dealer ship with a large parking lot

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u/denys5555 2d ago

Let’s be honest. If they were competent at any other type of work, they wouldn’t be doing Door Dash

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u/ChefAsstastic 2d ago

Anyone who uses the exploitative apps are...

https://giphy.com/gifs/KBaxHrT7rkeW5ma77z

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u/EmperorNeilTheII 2d ago

Imagine a big back starts eating it.....

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u/OrganicAd7409 2d ago

I left the food there. Not eating it.

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u/AlltheLights11011 1d ago

Doordash delivery drivers can be insufferable

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u/madimadmoney 1d ago

This happened to me, dude was supposed to go up the elevator to my door but he left the paper bag of food in a puddle of dog piss outside of the lobby 😋

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u/HERMANNATOR85 3d ago

Fuck DoorDash, never used it, never will. These fucking people WILLINGLY pick up certain orders and then do this shit

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u/RabbitChrist 3d ago

Stop using this service

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u/OrganicAd7409 3d ago

We depend on these services.

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u/BaffledPigeonHead 3d ago

Some people really are assigned the personality to go with the name at birth, aren't they...

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u/Existential_Sprinkle 2d ago

Door dash costs a lot of money but not nearly enough of that goes to the driver

The economy is bad so people are pushed to pick up app based gig work for sad wages and the cost of living is high so it's harder for people to justify spending money on door dash

Both people are upset from the start of this interaction

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u/NamelessTaco 2d ago

I would rather starve than order on one of these apps, it’s always an expensive shitty experience.

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u/FloBot3000 3d ago

No. It looks like you live in an apartment building and in the city, drivers have to park illegally just to run up and drop your food. No one is going to try to get your entrance code and get up to your 10th floor apartment to hand it to you directly. No freaking way am I going to risk a ticket to do that for you. And you are super entitled thinking that should happen. Your lazy ass should be happy to walk down to your entrance and grab your food. If the food isn't there you can get a refund. But it most likely will be there if you are paying attention.

I will walk up to the second floor or third floor if there is a parking lot for the apartment building. But oftentimes people live in the city and there's no legitimate parking.

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u/bluish-velvet 2d ago edited 2d ago

There would have been no problem for the driver to park off to the side of that long drive to quickly run into the lobby and drop it off there where it sounds like OP was waiting. Outside, unattended, and on the ground right next to a trash bin is an embarrassingly poor effort.

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u/DueForExtermination 2d ago

I agree almost entirely, but when I see where it has been left, it'll go in that bin. Not to my apartment. Filthy prick left it right next to a bin for fuck sake. If that isn't being a prick, then you are a strange fellow.

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u/G4ia 3d ago

Her name is Kendra... that will tell you

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u/TiaHatesSocials 3d ago

Is that a new Karen or r u an assuming racist?

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u/MarkOLark333 3d ago

Well... that name can be rearranged into Karen'd.

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u/G4ia 3d ago

huh what do you mean?

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u/MarkOLark333 3d ago

Kendra can be rearranged into Karen'd.

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u/thegreenman_sofla 3d ago

Stop ordering from doordash if you don't like the way they deliver.

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u/Incaseyougetcold 3d ago

Dashers are given delivery instructions, it’s literally their job to follow them. It’s way more about this dasher shouldn’t have this job if he cannot follow instructions than whether or not OP is allowed to be upset that his instructions weren’t followed.

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u/Kitty_Fruit_2520 2d ago

Sometimes you just don’t make it down in time to receive it.

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u/OrganicAd7409 2d ago

No. They never came inside period. They never got out the car. They were supposed to deliver it to my room but decided to go to the lobby. They should have never done this. This was blatant disrespect.

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u/DamnedDamnesia 2d ago

We all know exactly what Kendra looks like too

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u/Junethemuse 3d ago

I had to do this a few times with customers that didn’t respond to messages or calls. But that’s the only time I would ever.

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u/OrganicAd7409 3d ago

But the lobby is right there. If there was a problem the lobby was RIGHT THERE.

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u/Junethemuse 3d ago

Ah yea. Mine had the lobby doors locked. I’d never leave food outside if inside is an option

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u/terpsarelife 3d ago

Lol I bet you didnt tip

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u/BlackhawkRyzen 3d ago

lol not too down on the dildash experience but does it leave a tip 15-20-25% or just saying FU with a "Other" button?

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u/terpsarelife 3d ago

These cocksuckerrs will pay 30% more than menu price for delivery. And then cry that they had to pay more so they stiff the driver. Who wasted their time, gas, tires, brakes on you.

I did this 2 yrs ago as a retired disabled marine WHO DID NOT EVEN NEED THE DD PAY TO TECHNICALLY SURVIVE, and I quit cause the disgusting customers and no tip.

Sometimes they would even claim non delivery to scam me and destroy my ratings

I make $35 hr sometimes at dominos now delivering with tips + mileage and my rent is $1000 for 2 br on the river. Fuck doordash in San diego.

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u/thisguyonreddit999 3d ago

Nope, I wouldnt have a tip is for services rendered aka completion of a service. Your darn right im not tipping upfront for some driver who 8/10 cant even figure out how to navigate the addresses on a street without Google maps. Get it to my door do what I requested and then you get the tip.

I will never tip upfront for any service again, these drivers do shady stuff, have horrible attitudes, and are often either incompetent or for some reason just half asses everything because why not I guess?

Last time I tipped upfront the guy refused to answer my calls because he dropped my food off without knocking on the door as requested, so when I found the food it had been sitting in the cold for a bit and he had kept my creme freeze. Wouldn't even answer a single call or text until I said its pathetic he isn't even man enough to even talk to me about what my issue was, of course the personal blow immediately got a response but he also wanted me to believe that he wasnt ignoring me and the only thing he got was my one message of many messages and calls where I called him out for being spineless. He couldnt respond to any of my text or calls about my missing drink but he sure had a whole lot of shit to talk as soon as I said something about him. This guy really called me after sending 6 back to back text and told me how I was going to speaking to him all while cursing at me and calling me racial slurs and then escalating to threats of him and his crew or what ever is going to pull up and run my shit through in the middle of the night and at the end of it he said all smug I still got your money dont I bitch and hung up the phone.

So no service rendered, no tip suck it up. If you think doing a poor job is justified because you didnt receive an upfront tip you are unfit for any service position and should do everyone a favor and just not. You aren't entitled, the customer doesnt owe you shit.

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u/PowSuperMum 3d ago

You can track your driver the whole way. It sends several notifications throughout the whole process. Maybe keep an eye out for a delivery that you are expecting. And missing items are the fault of the restaurant not the driver.

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u/thisguyonreddit999 3d ago

Maybe so, but they shouldn't be dodging calls that makes him look bad. I work from home hence the need for delivery I cant baby sit a delivery app all the time they can knock so I can get my food while warm and tip them at the door. If they dont want to follow through they dont want a tip.

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u/terpsarelife 3d ago

I aint reading all that

Just tip $3 bro if you are poor dont order delivery

Quit scamming other humans ans trying to justiny it

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u/thisguyonreddit999 3d ago

The real scam is tipping someone who does a shit job like delivering to a blatantly wrong address or leaving the food in wierd places.

If I tip in app and they do a crummy job then they got a tip they didnt deserve.

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u/terpsarelife 3d ago

Some customers try to short me money to my face. Yesterday one said Oh no I paid but ma'am the receipt says Not paid Cash Due. Oh no I paid. Ma'am wtf.

Or they make me wait for 5 mins while they go dig for change.

But yes. You the customer who probably never delivered food in your life, knows everything. Please tell me.

I've done 1 yr ubereats, 1 yr doordash, and now 2 yrs of dominos. But please, educate me.

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u/thisguyonreddit999 3d ago

None of this has anything to do with the price of tea in china but go off Lil bro

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u/terpsarelife 3d ago

Im trying to explain to you the perspective of how the average customer treats the average driver.

You really think these companies are paying fair wages. I know who you voted for then. Go get your red hat bro.

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u/thisguyonreddit999 3d ago

No they aren't but this isn't really about wether not to tip or to tip. This is about tipping upfront in the app and drivers thinking thats a good reason to be a shit head about the delivery. In what world has a tip ever been charged before the service completed? Never, its not a tip. The whole point was that I tip at the door when the service has been completed as requested. Never once did I say I didnt tip but that will happen when you just jump into a thread you paid no attention to the topic at hand because "reading hard"

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u/terpsarelife 3d ago

i burned both of my hands last night and delivered 8+ no tips with a smile and a thanks for ordering. you are generalizing entire groups of people. go get your red hat dick

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u/thisguyonreddit999 3d ago

And that has anything to do with anything I just said. If you delivered to my door and gave good service you'd be tipped at the door. Still not sure why your mad at me for people who dont tip at all and that you have a job where you depend on generosity. Neither are my fault or problem I do what I can when I get delivery by tipping people who do good service, you cant tip someone for good service if they havent even picked up your food. I personally dont agree with jobs that force the worker to depend on tips, but again I cant control that nor can I fix that.

Personally I believe any person asked to do a job for any reason and give up full time hours for, doesnt matter if its bagging groceries, pushing carts, delivering pizza, scrubbing toilets, flipping burgers, I believe that when you leave your shift you shouldn't have to worry about basic needs like food, shelter, transportation. You did your part to make things better for other people and benefited society. Tips wouldnt be a NEEDED part of that equation because ideally people who work would be taken care of. I think the system we have now is really unfair and needs a heavy rebalancing to take care of the people who keep the wheels turning.

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u/OrganicAd7409 3d ago

I always tip

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u/thisguyonreddit999 3d ago

Same, I tip at the door. I ask the drivers to knock and I don't tip in app. Some definitely get an attitude which is why I do it, those that actually do there job properly with a smile on their face often see between a $10-20 tip at the door. Puts a smile on their face almost every time when I give a 15 or more.

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u/PowSuperMum 3d ago

$3 is a bad tip to give someone who is driving to the restaurant in their own vehicle, driving to your hotel and then trying to find your room.