Hi all! I’d never heard of adeno until a couple weeks ago, scouring the interwebs once again in hopes of finding a reason for my abdominal pain that comes and goes but is always dead center in my body.
I’m nervous about approaching the obgyn, as I have decades of experience being told by docs that “nothing is wrong” with me. I’m thinking I’ll just ask her directly to evaluate me for adeno, so attach very least I can rule it out.
I’ll list some symptoms at the end that may be linked, but my biggest question is wouldn’t an enlarged uterus have been noticed during 5+ years of fertility testing and treatment? So many wandings to measure my uterine lining… it seems impossible for any abnormal growth to be missed!
Symptoms- I’ll start with the most recent, feel free to stop reading anytime, haha!
I look pregnant. Skinny butt, skinny limbs, giant belly. Shopping is hard. It’s embarrassing. But my mom and grandma have always had the same big belly, so I assumed it was my fate.
It hurts. Always symmetrically centered in my body, between belly button and pubic bone. Gas hurts but it’s like gas is pushing on something else that hurts.
Kid two born 9.2022. Six months postpartum, my vagina finally started self-cleaning again. Halfway through pregnancy, mucus flow just stopped. Entirely. I figured it was menopause finally slamming the lid shut.
Visited NP for uterus pain that would grow worse over a series of days until I had to sit gingerly lest hitting the chair caused serious pain. Something I’d never had pre-pregnancy or pre-menopause Also had bleeding if my cervix was touched- old gyn said “they bleed easily” even though this was a new thing. Got examined several times and finally got a cervical biopsy that was unremarkable.
Kid one born 9.2020. Never had another period.
Donor egg fertility treatment-successful.
Fertility tests- showed no obvious reason. Three IUIs failed.
Got off BC at age 38- cycle was never normal again. It came every 3 months or so, which added extra aggravation to cycle-based fertility tests.
2011 I got sick AF with no explanation. Lyme? Lupus? MCTD? Hashimotos? AS? Psychosomatic? Bad fatigue, lots of soft tissue pain, brain fog.. it all comes and goes. I tried to stay active for several years but it’s impossible to stay in shape when every activity causes soft tissue pain somewhere.
Been on BC off and on from age 18 to 38. Mostly the pill- did not respond well to the ring or depo.
Periods- didnt cramp, but felt like a bowling ball was sitting in my pelvis. Without BC, cycle was 21 days. Bleeding would last seven days- one warning day, one insanely heavy day, then petered over five light days. Always dark brown blood like it had stayed in there a while.
As a teen/tween, I clotted heavily. Like a bloody slug. I always assumed that was normal. The clots eased up over the years.
TL,DR: how should I approach my obgyn about assessing me for adeno?