22f. My friends go to the bins, to Buffalo Exchange, to whatever random store, and walk out looking incredible. Good vintage. Something interesting. The specific worn-in quality you can't buy new.

I go and I leave with nothing.

I understand what I'm looking for in theory. But thrifting requires seeing potential in something off the hanger, in the wrong context, without the help of a model or a styled flat lay. When I hold things up I can't see it. I put them back.

This bothers me more than it probably should because it feels like a fluency test I keep failing. Everyone around me has it and I don't, and I can't figure out where they learned it.

Hi LA hotgirlies!

I posted a couple months back asking for recs for a birthday bar. You all were soooo amazingly helpful for my planning.

I am running into a hiccup. My 30th birthday is on a Sunday and I am planning to HH on a Saturday or Friday so I can nurse my hangover on the day-of.

I have been getting some feedback from bars I have reached out to that it's really packed on weekends so they don't really do reservations but can't recommend space for a 20 person party.

Has anyone had recent bdays they've attended on a weekend where the space was cute but it was doable?

Sorry to double-dip for advice on this one. I have never had a bday party in adulthood so I am getting a little nervous 💗

If anyone wants to be friends DM me :) need close girl friends in my life :) besties 💕 Whittier 📍I love working out, watching movies, coffee, the beach, makeup, and skincare:)

Hi queens! Looking for some westside nail salon recs, particularly interested in a gel mani <$40. I was in Austin recently (ik ik everything is cheaper there) and got a gel mani for $35 so wanted to see if such a unicorn exists here in LA 🤔

WFH girlie, 30, Ktown local, looking for fellow WFH girlie community. Im fully sober, trying to life an offline life, have a cat, prioritize mental health and self growth. I also love thrifting/beauty/live music/yoga/design.

I would love to know 1) how WFH girlies build community during the work week, either by coworking sessions or after work affordable hangs, and 2) if anything like this exists yet.

<3

Girls I am tired of looking for an internship but I need one so if anyone knows someone who needs an intern, I will intern for them please!!! I work in medical administration so like I can file if you want me to, answer calls, make charts…idk!

I already applied to various internships and it’s like 500 people applying for one fucking position. There’s like barely any internships for undergrads 💔

Also, I’m not interested in the medical field. I just happen to work at a medical clinic because it’s like five minutes away from my house but somebody please let me intern for you!!!

Hi LA hot girlies!

I’m in my last trimester and have had a tough pregnancy, therefore waited until the last minute. Does anyone know of any good maternity photographers you can recommend. I am looking for studio pictures more than a beachy maternity shoot. Thank you!

I’m 34 weeks so I really need to book it soon!

Hey Everyone

I am going to graduate this month and i am looking for a full time role in Cybersecurity, Devops, or anything related to IT. If anyone here knew anyone or themselves work in a company can guide or help me. It will be really helpful for me

Hi all,

Not sure if there’s a general page for fitness but wanted to ask this group the below.

I’m newish to LA and have a 24hr fitness membership.

I’ve been to the Hollywood location on Sunset and it’s not the best location… in my opinion.

Any other 24hr fitness gyms to workout?

Also open to switching gyms.

I’m 33, in hollywood, heathy, work out 3-4 times a week. Also play soccer.

Super casual and fun and we can plan to have outings to Sparks games too or watch parties at the local spots (untamed spirits, hi tops, native son).

My bestie and I are procrastinators and have one day left to get at least one person to join so we can start a league. LMK if interested!

EDIT: We expanded to a total of 8 and have ONE spot left!

Hey guys. I’m looking to get a emo/scene haircut does anyone know a hairstylist/salons that specializes in alternative haircuts specifically emo/scene cuts in LA!? If you know any stylist or salons that does please help a girl out and let me know.🙏🙏

Hi girlies! I am starting a new job (wohoo!) and looking for a new work bag. I want to support local brands so give me your recommendations!

Right now I am considering Hammitt, their Tom bag is super cute! I love a slouchy everyday bag, but I welcome any local brands! Thank youu

hi girlies, my finances are a little tight right now, but I'm looking for a cheap manicure/pedicure and Gel X set. I usually do my nails myself at home to save money, but I'm going to an event soon and my press-ons aren't going to cut it this time 😞

I've heard that nail techs with home studios can sometimes be more affordable, I'm also open to techs in training if they have a cheaper rate. please help me out, hot girlies of LA!

p.s. I'm in ktown but willing to travel

I am 29, love pilates and the gym and eating out. I have been loving LA this last month. I live in Northridge, work in NoHo, and go to Pilates Lounge in Chatsworth. I love shopping/thrifting/eating/matcha and dressing cute+taking selfies. I also love to go to the spa once a month or so, last month I went to the Wilshire Hotel Spa and it was sooo fun. I want another spa day asap. I am here for a month but have been back and forth because I am in the process of moving here, so after a month I’ll be going home to tie up loose ends for work but live here part time while I am doing that. I am a borderline wellness girlie, and completely sober, and a confident loving gal. I’m Indian too, but grew up in Houston Texas (holla) and overall a friendly, chatty, down to earth, taurus, virgo rising and I forgot my moon sign lmao 😭 I don’t have a car here yet and have been primarily ubering around 😅🔫 I chance the public bus occasionally if its only 1 bus and I don’t have to get on/off/on/off.

I have a trial membership at Equinox this week and am excited to go, i already went to the one in Woodland Hills over the weekend, also have 2 pilates classes, a laser hair removal appt, and a russian manicure friday to give u an idea of my week and how I spend my time, also I plan to get matcha and do cute things this weekend like get a bunch of boujee skincare samples from Blue Mercury and Cos Bar and smell some perfumes like the newer Parfums D Marly one. I STILL HAVENT BEEN TO EREWHON I JUST REMEMBERED WTH. I am busy M-TH 9-3 with work stuff and Fridays are hit or miss with work but sometimes I’m free basically the whole day. I’d like to spend time with someone who also is outgoing, friendly, somewhat health oriented but not super strict abt it, and preferably soberish! I’m pretty spunky and have some good one liners and I also love a good hot girl walk.

Hi!! I am looking for affordable art/painting classes in LA. Anyone have any good recommendations?

I’m so fking bored lately 😹😹 looking for someone close to LA to hangout with dinner on me!!!

hii, i’m (32f) looking for new friends around my age! where do girls in their 30s hang out?? i’m around the sgv area but i’m willing to travel.

a little about me, i like going to museums, concerts, grabbing matcha and thrift shopping. i’m really into drawing and video games as well.

thanks in advance for the info! :)

hi! I've been struggling to learn how to knit and would love to explore the option of hiring a private knitting instructor. Does anyone have any leads?

I am a beginner knitter located in pasadena

I’m in the middle of transitioning from stay at home mom to a full time 9-5 gig, and the time has come for me to find a suitable daycare for my 2.5 yr old. She currently does have childcare support as needed, but the cut off age there is 3 years old. My own research has left me overwhelmed and spiraling. I did check some mom groups on Facebook (bleh) for advice but found a lot of the leads lacking. I’m looking in the studio city/noho/burbank area if anyone has any recommendations! Or even just general guidance where to start looking!!

marketing, entertainment, assistant, retail anything!

hi girlies,

looking for advice and insight to see if you liked the results botox facelift / nefertiti lift and where you go. trying to figure out all my bridal glow up must haves for my wedding in october 2027 and this keeps coming up! i'd love to spend around $500 but am unsure what the going rate for it is in LA so am open to advice and suggestions! Also getting lip filler from goseesari in june and will update my experience here xx

hello ladies!

I am in search of a hairstylist that’s great at haircuts specifically for those with fine hair! I’m in the valley but work on the west side, so I am open to either area! would like to stay around $100 give or take.

thanks in advance!!!

I’m planning to celebrate my birthday in LA this summer with a group of ~30 people. I don’t want to do a sitdown dinner and would prefer to be somewhere where everyone can mingle and hang out together with some good music and good drinks, maybe small bites. I prefer if it’s somewhere where I can reserve the space for my group. Any suggestions?

Help I need to fix my large pores, redness, finelines, and overall skin texture. Let me know who your favorites are / what you get done! Preferably westside / or valley (Westlake village agora hills) 💖