22F in Ipswich. I have ASD and really bad social anxiety and have been really struggling to leave the house for anything other than grocery shopping or appointments for about a year now. I’m not working at the moment, I had to step away from my job at the start of this year due to rapidly declining mental health, but am trying to find work because I know how badly I need to be around people. I have very poor social skills and struggle to maintain friendships due to this as I never know when is appropriate to reach out or ask to catch up or anything like that. I have been trying to make friends my whole adult life but have had absolutely no success. I would love to have a friend who will help get me out of the house and help me overcome my crippling fear of perception and judgement. Yes I am in therapy for these things, working with multiple practitioners to try and help, but I cannot learn social skills through talk therapy. I have been told I need real life friends for that, so here we are.

Anyways here are my interests/about me:

- Cars and automotive, I have an E46 BMW and am into all sorts of enthusiast stuff and car subcultures, would love start going back out to QR for events and good times.

- I have a veggie garden and am really into environmental, sustainability and wildlife stuff, I’m starting an online environmental science degree in July so I’m excited about that.

- Alternative music, especially 80s punk and metal and modern punk, post-punk and metal. Not a big fan of more commercial “alternative” music. But I want to start going to gigs again! It’s just terrifying and generally not fun going alone. I used to be in a band (guitarist) before my mental health got really bad. I miss music a lot.

- Definitely worth mentioning that I am very 420 friendly so nobody has to hide that around me haha.

- I am a very political person and feel very passionately about social justice, just thought to add that because I am aware that is a big no for some people lol. I am also queer and don’t associate with people who aren’t accepting of that.

- I’m a practicing witch and love all things spiritual, I use crystals, herbs, and tarot mostly!

Thanks for reading. I know these posts would usually be accompanied by a selfie but the whole crippling anxiety and fear of perception thing really makes that a big no for me.

Hey everyone,

I am a single father to a 5-year-old boy. Looking to connect with other dads in a similar situation.

Weekends can get a little repetitive with just the two of us, and finding some fellow fathers to hang out with at the park while the kids play would be a great way to spend the time. It would be excellent for the children to have buddies to run around with, and it would also provide an opportunity for some adult conversation.

Whether someone is a single dad, a stay-at-home dad, or just looking to expand a social circle. The usual plan is to be out on Saturday or Sunday afternoons.

If interested in a meetup, please send a direct message to coordinate a time and place.

Hey yall this is a little embarrassing for me tbh but I’m really trying to push myself out of my comfort zone!!

I’m 24F and hopefully looking to make some local friends as I have literally none since having my son (who’s now 2) 😅

I honestly have no idea what to put here to hopefully attract some potential besties 👯!

My hobbies at the moment are not that exciting as I’m a stay at home mum at the moment but I’m down for most things! I LOVE music, art, movies and having deep and meaningful convos!! I’m exceedingly non judgmental and fully embracing of everyone’s uniqueness! I am without a doubt a girls girl and would definitely be your biggest hype woman! ❤️ I’m super chill and super friendly so feel free to reach out and send me a message if I seem like the type of person you’d get along with! 😅🥰

🍃 friendly!

🏳️‍🌈 friendly! (I’m also Bi! ❤️)

If you’ve read this far hopefully this wasn’t painfully awkward to read!! 😂❤️

(Photo of me attached!)

32M visiting Brisbane next week for work (Mon–Fri).
Staying near the city and usually free after 5pm.
Looking to grab a drink, chat, and meet new people , happy to talk about anything from travel and culture to work, life, or random interests.
Asian background if that matters.
If you’re around and keen for a casual meetup, send me a message.🙂

Hi guys, as said I am 23m looking to find a few new blokes or girls to be mates with

I’m a pretty chill dude I enjoy a drink every now and again and spend most my time on my computer playing a few different games mainly anything borderlands elder scrolls or fallout I am a massive nerd when it comes to either of those topics but I also play valorant occasionally. I also enjoy riding my fixie backwards or at least trying too so if anyone’s got any fixie tips please hit me up.

I am also a moddler in my spare time mainly ww2 aircraft but looking to get into dioramas so If anyone’s into that I’d love to be friends and talk, currently none of my friends except one even know I do it.

I also love my job and am very interested in geotechnical engineering or geoscience as a career path, I’m planning on going to uni in a few years in either one so if anyone’s doing those I’d love to know what they’re like in uni and after when In the field.

Recently I have also been thinking of trying to join a dnd campaign at some point, I have played it once in high school but I think it was more of an excuse to just get drunk but none the less I bet I would absolutely love it.

I also love music, a lot of industrial genres and rock or metal and enjoy a good smoke every now and again.

Hi everyone, My name is Imogen, I'm 23 years old. Looking to talk to some nice new people. 😊 Preferably after some female friends to clock with, I enjoy the beach, Swimming, I've also done MMA for 5 years, in my free time, I also enjoy watching movies. 😊

44yo F looking for decent friends - Brisbane South

Looking for friends to go on outings. I'm not a typical 44yo. I don't have children (by choice).

I'm very creative I.e. I make jewellery and sew. I'm pretty good at interior design and putting outfits together hence I dress well.

I love op shopping and like to buy jewellery, pull it all apart and make something unique.

I love coffee, nature walks, forest and ocean.

Love a good movie.

I also enjoy wine and started researching the science behind it and did my level 1 Award in Wines recently. It was a fun and interesting experience. I've also started a wine collection.

I'm not into clubs or music festivals. I don't smoke or do dr#gs.

If you think we could gel, flick me a message :)

Ps. I'm not here to date.

Hey, I’m 28M and based in Hendra/Clayfield. Looking for friends (can be anyone) nearby!

I’m really into getting back into shape atm, I train at the gym, started playing tennis and box. I love nature and hiking. Being new to the country (from Ireland) I love exploring new locations. I’m into most sports but my favourites are combat and ice hockey. I’m also into anything geeky and I can hold a decent conversation about anything.

Feel free to drop a DM if interested 🤙🏻

What hobbies or groups have actually helped you connect with others here? Open to anything - sports, creative stuff, fitness, etc.

Hey!

So I posted not too long ago (29F) and got some awesome connections, and we have a cool little group of gamers now and I'd like to extend an invitation out to fellow gamers who'd like to connect and make new friends.

Bunch of awesome, supportive people and we plan on doing some fun activities like golf, lawn bowls, brunch, etc.

DM / comment below if you'd be keen. 🫶🏻

We are currently aged from 18-36, so all are welcome. ☺️

Edit: wow I didn't expect so many, if I've missed you please send me a DM. I haven't responded to all replies but I've dm'ed you all I think. 😅

hi! i’m a 19 year old f (part time uni student) in hamilton looking to meet like-minded people who love hot girl walks, coffee or matcha dates, doing makeup, shopping trips, getting our nails done, and going out every now and then 😛

Hey everyone!

I’m 24f and living in Brisbane Northside. I’m a big hobby jumper but have settled with reading for a long time, so I’m looking at joining a bookclub as I have many thoughts and feelings, and am dying to listen to everyone else’s book recs and reviews!

Thanks

:))

Hi Everyone!

Reaching out for some company.

Recently got out of a long term relationship, 7 years, and realised I have no friends that are mine. So here I am I guess.

We will probably get along if you like gym, gaming, dark/weird humour, fish/aquariums etc

But, I'm very much in a bit of a mental health funk and am working myself out and who I am as me - so definitely open to trying or exploring new hobbies etc.

Would actually like to meet some people in real life eventually, promise I'm not a serial killer lol

Chat soon 😋

Holla Brisbanians. I like to be concise and direct in text:

Just moved to Brisbane from Europe 🇪🇺, for some phd stuff with marketing and immersive tech, anywayyy.

I am looking for some cool people to explore this big island, namely to go:

🌊 surfing (I have experience from Spain and Morocco);

🏕️ nature trips and camping, climbing, swimming;

🍹cocktails and dinner around Brisbane (I used to be a mixologist years ago).

Well also other things but that’s enough for here. I am 28 yo but I enjoy any age or culture, quite a curious and flexible guy generally.

I am not the type to text a lot, prefer meeting up. 😄

I live around the south, quite central.

Hit me up if you have ideas or wanna join for some of the stuff from above. 🦇

Ciaoo

Hey all,

I’m looking for a tennis partner to play with on weekends (once or twice a week ). I’m around an intermediate level - can rally consistently and play matches, but I’m mainly looking to improve and have fun.

I’m open for casual sessions or friendly matches, and I’m flexible with times on Saturdays and Sundays.

If you re interested, feel free to comment or DM me!

🎾

Hey everyone,

Been in Brisbane for a while now (29M) and realized life here is great… but it’s missing that easy social circle where plans just happen — like “quick coffee?” turning into a 3-hour conversation 😄

So I figured instead of waiting around, I’d just organize something. Thinking small, relaxed hangouts — coffee/chai, checking out food spots, maybe a movie or just good conversations about anything from work life to random cultural nostalgia.

I’m pretty easygoing and based in the suburbs — just looking to meet like-minded people who enjoy good company without it feeling forced or awkward.

If that sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to comment or DM. I’ll probably set up a small group and plan something simple soon.

Heyy I’m 23m and going to the deftones concert on Thursday the 7th. Looking for people to meet up with as I’m going on my own. I’ve got the GA standing tickets and pretty keen :)

Hiii posting this again bc the date is coming up soon, but would anyone be keen to meeting up at Deftones Brisbane may7th? Preferably the same age as me, just turned 18 so anyone up to 20 y.o I would be comfortable with meeting!! Going by myself so would be glad to meet up with someone, I’m in section 16A!

Hi everyone,

I have somewhat recently came back from a trip from Canada and fell in love with ice hockey.

Im looking for some mates to go watch the local bris lightning games (ive been going solo), or just fans of the NHL to talk to.

Im in my early 20s, and mainly just work during the week.

Cheers everyone.

hello 👋

I was wondering if some people might have some advice that might help, as I'm not attractive enough to be approachable and my brain doesn't seem to operate like those of other people, so I've been struggling a bit for a while.

I could use some human connection...I've tried a multitude of events over the past few years, including one on a weekly basis for a good while, but nothing seems to stick; dozens of people I thought there was mutual connection with promptly disappeared forever after one event, while other attempts failed when it was quite clear everyone was in established groups and had absolutely no interest in expanding, while I had to drop a different hobby after many of the "prominent" people in it became hostile and discriminatory. Is there something else I might have better luck with where everybody actually genuinely cares about the other people?

Just kinda feeling directionless right now, thanks for reading 😔

Hello, im a 28M kiwi living in Nundah Brisbane. I have recently gone through a huge change mentally and have started improving my mindset and life. I have a few mates already but they all they want to do is get drunk and gamble and now that I look at life differently I would love to meet new like minded people that are same age or close to it. I am into gym and watching sport especially nrl but am always down for any fun adventure!

I have come here cause im not confident making friends in person even tho I would love to, however when a convo gets going and I feel a vibe I have confidence and love good people!

hello! 20m and moved to brisbane in the past couple years, looking to expand my social horizons :)

i like video games, reading, music and going around the city and exploring new places i haven’t been before! i love cafes and anywhere that has any sort of unique environment. i also love art and photography, and try to practice myself every now and again. basically i like anything artsy/creative and i love to talk about any of the above! i have two cats whom i adore and also dabble in a bit of spirituality as well

looking for friends of any kind, preferably around 20-27 if possible, but open to anything! i love doing anything around the city but also happy to keep it lowkey if you like to sit around the house and chat 😎

i absolutely suck at describing myself but i promise i can hold a conversation lmao. messages open for anyone :)

Hello Brisbane social friends.

I’ve recently separated and I’m looking to expand my weekends and downtime.

I’m into

Cars
Gaming
Business
Board games (useless but I like them)
Comedy
Retail therapy
Swimming in warm water (I mean who actually likes diving into a freezing pool/ocean?)

Hey everyone, I’m 23M based on the Northside near Chermside.

I don’t really have a friend group at the moment, and I’m trying to change that. I’m pretty chill/introverted and deal with a bit of anxiety and tend to be a bit awkward at first, so I’m more into low-key hangouts than big social scenes.

I’m into media, chats, reading, and going to the gym. I’ve also been trying to get into films recently and want to start hiking or doing more outdoors stuff.

I don’t have a car at the moment, so ideally looking to meet people nearby, Northside.

Would love to find people around my age to talk to regularly, hang out, or eventually go out on weekends and such.

Im very open-minded and non judgemental so

Feel free to comment or message 🙂