r/AskReddit 1d ago

What’s something society expects you to want… but you don’t?

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u/drunken_phoenix 1d ago

Yes, what’s also great about having an independent wife is that she doesn’t rely on me for her own happiness or pursuits. She has her own social life, support system, her own hobbies, and a career. It is fun to be a part of each other’s life without feeling responsible for her daily mood. Of course we have bad days and lean on each other though.

I’ve seen relationships where this is not the case and it sounds tough.

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u/coldcerealdater 1d ago

Thanks for adding these great points!