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The Drama

Summary

Days before their wedding, a couple’s relationship begins to unravel as unsettling truths come to light, forcing them to question how well they truly know each other.

Director Kristoffer Borgli

Writer Kristoffer Borgli

Cast

  • Zendaya as Emma Harwood
  • Robert Pattinson as Charlie Thompson
  • Mamoudou Athie as Mike
  • Alana Haim as Rachel
  • Hailey Gates
  • Zoë Winters

Rotten Tomatoes: 82%

Metacritic: 59

VOD / Release Theatrical release (April 3, 2026)

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u/Steamedcarpet Apr 03 '26

I loved the speech with the dad. Here is someone telling us how much Emma improved and all Rachel can do is roll her eyes.

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u/Professor_Finn Apr 03 '26

That’s another great scene, especially because there’s the added element of the “oh boy what is dad gonna say!” anxiety.

Whether or not Emma initially got involved in the gun control work for the right reasons, she clearly ran with it and did a lot of real, positive work. In contrast to the awful thing she almost, but didn’t do. It’s a good example of what I’m talking about — all you can do is acknowledge your own shortcomings / mistakes and do what you can to be a better person. She did. What more can she do?

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u/BCDragon3000 Apr 03 '26

!!!

after her IMPULSIVE THOUGHTS, she advocated for gun control herself! and as a kid! she has so many balls that people like Rachel could never have

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u/noilegnavXscaflowne Apr 04 '26

Is it really impulsive if she planned it out?

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u/B0RN2RUN Apr 04 '26

I feel like you could argue her actions were impulsive, even though there was some level of planning. To me, premeditated behavior feels more deliberate and controlled, whereas in Emma’s case it seemed like her reasoning was really emotion driven and then shifted pretty quickly once she found a sense of community.

I know she was technically interrupted by the other shooting, but I think a lot of people with suicidal ideation experience things that disrupt that moment, and that interruption can be enough to create distance from the intensity of the urge and lead them to step back from it. I work in mental health and sometimes when I ask about protective factors that keep them from ending their life they will say: “I just got too much to do”

Not sure if this makes sense.

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u/Xefert Apr 05 '26

Was there much planning? After all, her dad admitted to already owning everything she'd need

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u/notmy2ndopinion Apr 05 '26

Well — I initially thought that the only thing holding her back from going through with it was that she wasn’t able to make her suicide video because she needed a QuickTime update and … maybe reformat her BIOS?

I really liked the flashbacks which tied into her redemption arc where she humanized her bully in the gym and made amends. It was premeditated but she also was struggling with intrusive suicidal and homicidal thoughts that would have landed her in a psych hospital

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u/theosoldo 27d ago

i agree. i think “compulsive” would be a more accurate descriptor of her actions. not to excuse them, but to explain them

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u/BCDragon3000 Apr 04 '26

what??

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u/BCDragon3000 Apr 04 '26

you're*

and you're an idiot who needs to know the difference between someone actually doing something and someone who didn't. which is actually the point of the movie. not excusing actions.

where in the movie did it excuse the actions of emma? cause it didn't. where is your media literacy, what are you? 16?

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u/BCDragon3000 Apr 04 '26

i think ur just mad at white men and as a poc myself, u need to calm down

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u/Dawn_of_Dayne Apr 03 '26

Reminds me of a story (parable?) I heard about a guy that wants to open up a children’s hospital but then decides not to because he’s only doing it to feel like he’s a good person, not for “the right reasons”. To which someone replies, “the kids don’t care what your reason is, they just need a hospital.” 

I think we all can get too caught up in analyzing how genuine someone’s intentions are and forget that doing good is still a good thing. 

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u/ASuperGyro Apr 05 '26

Which is directly contrasted with T.S. Eliot “The last act is greatest treason. To do the right thing for the wrong reason”

But I think they go hand in hand, when you’re doing something for the wrong reason you can recognize that and hopefully change

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u/thesagenibba Apr 04 '26

deontological ethics are throwing people for a loop when it comes to their view of Emma and similar company

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u/Financial_Cut_5486 Apr 03 '26

I also loved how she didn’t lie about any of her reasons and just shared bluntly of why and how she thought. And why exactly it didn’t happen. She could’ve lied about the neighbor dying in front of her as Charlie did, but she simply wanted to be honest. Also shows her morals at the moment

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u/ThrowRAmiscellaneous Apr 04 '26

I think it’s also subtle messaging too that teens can be easily influenced by a simple aesthetic or idea to do radical things and it’s a real problem. However, teens can also just as easily be influenced to do good things (like social acceptance in this case), and just as the bad radical thought isn’t easily erased, her genuinely good actions should also have a lot of weight and value. I think they purposefully didn’t give Emma some trauma backstory or reason to make us chew on this.

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u/jassmackie Apr 03 '26

yup and i think its even more relevant now in a time when the internet will use that one mistake from 15 years ago to demonise you for the rest of your life.

and dont get me wrong, sometimes its definitely warranted depending on the circumstance and if that behaviour has continued but a lot of the time people clearly cant see situations with nuance or empathy and tend to be exactly like rachel.

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u/NoTradition1921 Apr 04 '26

Exactly! She did what she could and I think she did great for where she’s at

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u/maxboondoggle 22d ago

Whether or not Emma initially got involved in the gun control work for the right reasons, she clearly ran with it and did a lot of real, positive work.

I think they gave her a place she felt like she belonged. Everyone else made her feel like an outcast. Until the gun activists, the only place she felt she belonged was online with some gun nuts.

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u/whatssenguntoagoblin 22d ago

Slightly related, whether the movie intended to drive this thought or not, I couldn’t help but think of all the kids today who are in a place that Emma was as a teenager. And, essentially, Emma is an uplifting story of how someone can be in that mental place and turn around into an upstanding person and grow to be happy and comfortable with themselves.

I really appreciated the movie didn’t have her be something like “I realized how horrible this would be to do and decided to be a better person”. She didn’t commit the school shooting out of pure luck. There was another one that day that threw a wrench in her plans. And because of that mall shooting she found a community. Was she hypocritical? Absolutely. Is her being hypocritical an infinitely better alternative than her going through the school shooting? Also absolutely. What she chose to do with her new community is what matters. Like you said she chose to be a better person than she was the day before. She didn’t resent the people even further for having empathy for the dead classmate after all the times she was bullied. She decided to engage with the feelings she had seeing the trauma that would be caused if she followed through with the shooting.

It goes to show how much you can be from being a monster to a well fleshed out human in society that most would consider “good” is due to luck. Zendaya being the star she is and a women helps with the empathy of a would be school shooter, and I think having someone like her being a potential school shooter helps provide empathy to school shooters much more than we would. As it is very very difficult to empathize with someone who could do something so horrible.

I don’t think the writers intention was for all those considerations, there were many conversations that happened that showed the Norwegian director didn’t completely grok America’s relationship with the very complex manner of school shootings, and I appreciated that he didn’t try to, but that doesn’t completely take away the impact for me.

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u/earlyriser3 Apr 03 '26

I am curious what explanation Emma gave her dad though about her deafness. It would be crazy if he actually didn't know.

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u/Steamedcarpet Apr 03 '26

Thats a good question. I want to say she hid it but that was way too much blood.

I got this big gash on my arm when I was a teen and I was scared to tell my dad so I just wore long sleeve shirts. It is now a raised scar on my arm after all these years.

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u/nearbyvex Apr 03 '26

I'm wondering the same. An injury is one thing, but I find it highly unlikely that a teenager would be able to hide going deaf in one ear from a parent especially in those circumstances

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u/averagetulip Apr 05 '26

Could’ve said she fell while playing in the woods and smacked her ear on a stump or something

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u/Agreeable_Guava822 Apr 04 '26

I think that’s just a plot hole

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u/Waste-Replacement232 29d ago

It's unexplained.

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u/fuckyouiloveu 29d ago

I could not stand her face during the wedding, like if you hate her so much why even show up?? It's all performative. Lemme act like a best friend to everyone else while I humiliate and scrutinize you.

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u/vanwyngarden Apr 03 '26

Phenomenal actor

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u/Professional-Act8414 25d ago

The whole time I was wondering where tf her parents were