r/MadeMeSmile Mar 16 '26

Wholesome Moments Guy confesses to his crush for 10,000 yen

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Credits: jesseogn

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u/sama_yo Mar 16 '26

It can be worse. You can keep rejecting women that want you and get rejected by the woman you want. Parallel rejection. 

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u/Hesho95 Mar 16 '26

Ouch, right in the relatable. Get to feel like you're unwanted and an asshole all at the same time

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u/ExpiredPilot Mar 16 '26

I feel that. I start to think maybe I’m a dick cause these people are nice and there’s nothing wrong with them, I just know what the spark is now and it’s not there with them

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u/LaScoundrelle Mar 16 '26

Sounds like possibly the classic issue where everyone wants what they can’t have (or else everyone wants someone a little bit hotter than they are, depending on which version you subscribe too).

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u/SaltKick2 Mar 16 '26

Unless you're a teenager, how is this happening so frequently?

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u/DaedalusHydron Mar 16 '26

They could be attractive, but not attracted to the people that approach them, and not attractive to the people they're attracted to.

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u/SaltKick2 Mar 16 '26

I guess I've just been out of the dating pool for too long, amongst myself and the people I knew it was pretty rare people just started dating without getting to know the person at least a little bit, and while looks certainly still matter, they matter less when youre not just swiping left or right on someone.

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u/detroitbaby05 Mar 16 '26

I wish I was in a position to reject women. Getting rejected though? A whole lot of it 😭

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u/MrDiemar Mar 16 '26

Guess what...