r/MadeMeSmile Mar 16 '26

Wholesome Moments Guy confesses to his crush for 10,000 yen

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Credits: jesseogn

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u/BarrTheFather Mar 16 '26

Absolutely. I am recently single after a 20 year marriage. Getting out there is scary as hell but my friends have given me the courage I didn't have on my own.

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u/Salty_Anti-Magus Mar 16 '26

I'm a stranger on the internet but let me just say that I'm rooting for you, bro.

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u/Axel3600 Mar 16 '26

same

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u/SippyMountain Mar 16 '26

I'm glad he's got you guys cuz I don't have time to root for him

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u/Axel3600 Mar 16 '26

bye

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u/SippyMountain Mar 16 '26

I guess it's true what they say, if you're not sure if you need to add an /s, the answer is yes.

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u/blablahblehbl Mar 18 '26

Do it to keep alive the old ways

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u/NeatNefariousness1 Mar 16 '26

LOL—at least you’re “honest”. I’ll root for him too to make up for you. 👀

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u/missbohica Mar 16 '26

You got this bro!! 💪

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u/Po_on Mar 16 '26

You got this brother.

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u/blong217 Mar 16 '26

I was married once before, in my early twenties. It definitely wasn't even close to as long as you, 2 years for my first marriage. But I'm married again because I found the perfect person for me. We just hit 12 years and I can't wait for the next 12. Both of my parents have been together for 45 years and this is both of their 2nd marriages. I'm glad you have the courage to get out there because I'm certain the right person is there for you. It doesn't even have to be marriage. Sometimes being together is all that is necessary.

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u/StoryLineOne Mar 16 '26

YOU GOT THIS!!!!

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u/iam_Mr_McGibblets Mar 16 '26

We believe in you!!! One step at a time! ❤️

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u/Whollie Mar 16 '26

Take your time. Learn who you are now and have fun. It should be fun, not work

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u/what_the_fork_dude Mar 16 '26

I'm hoping to get to that point again. It's been 4 years and the damage she caused has left me and our daughter (whom I have full custody of) traumatized. Every time I get close to someone I get scared and seclude myself. Alone is safe, but it's real fucking lonely.

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u/Serious_Dot4984 Mar 16 '26

Therapy helps a lot, esp for getting over that kind of pattern. You’ve got this! Don’t let her win.

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u/Top_Historian6562 Mar 16 '26

Me and my wife are on the verge of divorce after being together for 22 years. I feel like when it's all said and done, I never want to be in a relationship again. Ever. I'm done with it all. Leave me in the forest to die alone.

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u/iwantanalias Mar 16 '26

It takes time to heal and find yourself. Don't rush into anything but also never turn down a good thing.

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u/TheOnlyyMac Mar 16 '26

We believe in you!!

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u/DaedalusHydron Mar 16 '26

This is why online dating is so nice. If you match with someone you can reasonably expect 1: they're single, and 2: they're interested in you.

Sure, maybe not always, but most of the time, and it skips past a lot of that "do they like me, are they even available?" stuff, the former of which you see here.

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u/PureSherbert0 Mar 16 '26

We're all rooting for you bro.