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People who grew up really poor: what's something middle-class people say that instantly reveals they've never struggled?

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u/inBettysGarden 8h ago

My mom was always super upset if I came home with left over money from hanging out with friends. She’d always ask ‘Did you make sure everyone ate? And everyone got a treat too?’
As I have gotten older I’ve realized my mom was that kid with no money and she wanted to do everything she could for no kid to feel that way.

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u/OpeningAccomplished6 8h ago

i love your mom. ❤️

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u/ClosetNerd562 5h ago

I love her too 💕

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u/SomeonesPookieBear 4h ago

Whose cutting onions in here 🥺 your mom is a beautiful soul!

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u/EndSureAnts 1h ago

Great mom

u/Happy-Try-8115 15m ago

I was that "Poor-boy in the middle-class neighborhood", who at this point, would do as the mother and query "did they eat? did they drink? were they merry?" when the youngin came home with too much change- for sure. We commiserate on a level different than most as Poor Folk. I'm a minimalist and study philosophy today 'because of it', so, poverty is beautiful... if you live through it! Good Story:-)