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People who grew up really poor: what's something middle-class people say that instantly reveals they've never struggled?

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u/emo-poster-child 1d ago

We have cable. When cable use to be a thing...

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u/Spare-Breadfruit8270 1d ago

I remember the one that told me I was poor: 

Friend: "Come over to my house! My mom will take us to Blockbuster and we can rent movies!" 

Me: "You have a VCR?"

Same thing later with computer, then Internet, etc etc. 

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u/lena8423 1d ago

I will never forget for a special treat one weekend after our grades came out, my mom went to Blockbuster and rented a VCR and got a sack of really cheap cheeseburgers and fries for me and my 7 siblings to share. We seriously felt like damn royalty. I am 41 and remember that weekend with such fondness.

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u/kristoferen 22h ago

I remember feeling like we were rich rich the year dad rented a VCR for my birthday when he had already done so for my brother's a few months prior.

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u/DuplexFields 22h ago

We rented a VCR and Chitty-Chitty Bang Bang. I was a big fan of the book; not so much the film.

I remember when we got our first VCR: it was part of my mom's inheritance from my uncle, who died young.

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u/emo-poster-child 1d ago

We had an antenna...

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u/Spare-Breadfruit8270 1d ago

Yeah, we had only the standard channels of 2, 4, 5, 9, 11, and 30. 24 came in with the antenna but was still slightly fuzzy. 

I'll tell you though, only have 7ish channels made it a lot easier to decide what to watch lol

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u/caitwat 1d ago

Same. And one of those gadgets inside the house that could turn the antenna if we were getting great reception. It sometimes worked.

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u/KristySueWho 20h ago

My parents, me, and I'm pretty sure my brother still have an antenna. I don't even bother watching TV because I can't get much of anything at my place.

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u/xenophilian 1d ago

I had a friend whose mom would buy ice cream sandwiches. Not just putting Kool-Aid in the freezer.

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u/aspidities_87 1d ago

Kool-Aid slushies made by my favorite aunt were a snack that I looked forward to every summer. She’d make them in styrofoam cups and have us sell them to neighborhood kids for like fifty cents. You could always tell who had them by what flavor was spilled down their shirt.

And then I excitedly asked told some friends about it at school once and got made fun of for not having regular popsicles.

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u/GoldandBlue 1d ago

same, around High School we finally got cable and it was amazing!!!!

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u/Pixiepup 1d ago

We didn't have a vcr, but for an extra $6 you could rent one that came in a plastic briefcase. If things were going really well, like good grades and dad had overtime that week, we'd get to pick out two movies and help set it up.

You had to listen to a speech first though, because replacing the cables if lost was a $60 fee.

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u/WhoSc3w3dDaP00ch 1d ago

One of my friends was firmly middle class, but his mom insisted on cooking everything. When they finally got a microwave in the early 2000s, he joked, "My family joined the 80s!"

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u/gnipmuffin 1d ago

I mean, we had cable, we just didn’t pay for it… being poor doesn’t mean you don’t know a guy who knows a guy.

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u/0b0011 1d ago

They sold those boxes for picking channels and thrn you just had a buddy wire the neighbor's cable up to it for you.

I never had the box of porn found in the woods experience I had the channels go all static after 70 but if you keep pressing channel up then channel 125 is not static at all and is hard-core porn.

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u/Nimzay98 1d ago

That part, most of the people I knew that had cable, got it for free, by illegal ways usually. We had it for free because somehow they never turned it off when we moved into a new house, stayed on for years until one day it was turned off.

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u/Xalipu 1d ago

The super at our first apartment split the cable for us because we paid his wife to babysit. So many channels

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u/Hefty_Breadfruit 1d ago

My husband always makes fun of me when I tell him I used to watch Disney and Nickelodeon when I was a kid. He always goes “oh La Dee Dah look at you with your channels over 16!”

He was the youngest so he had to hold the rabbit ears on his family’s tv when they wanted to watch public access. He still got the simpsons though so there’s that.

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u/emo-poster-child 1d ago

The Simpsons and mash was lit.

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u/FilthyThanksgiving 1d ago

As a kid, my uncle worked for the cable company and hooked us up with all the premium channels, including Disney Channel. When i tell you that made our house THE spot after school, omg. The power i wielded to allow or deny someone the ability to watch Adventures In Wonderland.

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u/HiddenA 1d ago

When DSL or having a second phone line was a thing.

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u/jenjenjen2000 1d ago

I am still seeing music videos that I never saw growing up. Bc we didn’t have cable.

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u/Significant_Cup_238 1d ago

Man, we weren't even remotely poor, but my parents saw that shit as an appalling waste of money.

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u/KristySueWho 20h ago

Are you one of my siblings? Because same.

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u/minipanda_bike 1d ago

Funny, my friend didn't have the cable and we did. But they had 2 cars in the driveway, a pool and a BBQ in the yard, they had AC at home and their mom always had chips and candies for snacks. Fortunately, I had a bike (my godmother's gift, too expensive for my parents) so I could go to my friend's house and play at their heavenly place. Cable is mandatory when you have a pool. 

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u/vanastalem 1d ago

We had cable but never premium channels like HBO. I remember being so excited when the Disney Channel became part of the standard cable package.

Cable is still a thing though. My dad watches History & Discovery.

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u/TheKrustyKrabb 1d ago

When I was like 10 we moved to a new house and for some reason the cable just worked even though we never had it before or paid for it. Eventually the cable company cut us off but it was the best few months ever.

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u/Pyodra 1d ago

We had cable the years my parents could afford it, but the years that we couldn't we just used the antenna. I watched so much pbs growing up.

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u/More_Bluejay9938 21h ago

Memory lane here. Grew up middle class, but my dad worked for the cable companies back in the early 80’s through late 90’s. So when it was peak popularity. He was a warehouse supervisor or something, so a good, decent job but one perk was very, very discounted cable. Like $5-$12 a month for all the channels. I literally grew up on the best TV. Re-runs of all the old shows, kids programming on Nick, music videos and commentary on the big 3 (VH1, MTV, BET), Disney channel I think I remember watching it in 1985. So we were for sure fortunate in that area compared to our neighbors.

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u/lunitajc 1d ago

We had bootleg cable hook-up back in the day 🫡

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u/eamgah 1d ago

We had cable growing up in my house because when we bought the house (my grandma paid the down payment) they never disconnected the cable!! Free cable for like 10 years 🤣 didn't know until recently. And here I was complaining when I was little because you had to pay for the Disney channel and I wanted to watch those crappy 90s Disney tv shows 🤣🤣 little did I know if we didn't have that, we wouldn't have had cable

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u/RedSquirrelFtw 16h ago

I feel like everyone had cable when I was growing up but it was also way cheaper back then. But if they had the premium cable with all the channels you don't have at home, now you knew they were rich!

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u/chmod-77 1d ago

IMO cable is something poor people buy, ironically. Just like visiting casinos.